People are not saints, who can be right? You should be criticized for making mistakes. But we need mild criticism. What we need is 37.5 degrees Celsius criticism.
We like our biology teacher, Mr Zhu, and we also like the criticism he gave us. Because his criticism of us is 37.5 degrees Celsius.
We were intoxicated with the joy of biology class when suddenly the classroom door opened with a bang, followed by a thunderous "report", and two famous "late teachers" in our class came in. Teacher Zhu stopped lecturing. Unlike other teachers, he first asked two "gentlemen" to sit down and then said, "I'm a student, too. There are natural reasons for being late, whether it is true or not. But no matter what the reason, being late is not a good thing after all, so students who are late in the future don't have to shout' report' and just sneak in through the back door. Because on the one hand, the' report' voice of late students interrupts the thoughts and emotions of most of our students in class, which is obviously impolite and disrespectful to us; On the other hand, you shouted' report', and unconsciously let our class and teachers stop classes to welcome you, as if you were late and became a big leader and singer. Obviously, this is also unreasonable! (Student laughs) "I think that no matter what kind of person, there will always be a little change in his heart when he hears such criticism.
In class, there will always be students distracted and gossiping. Teacher Zhu won't be like other teachers in biology class. He criticized: "Everyone has vanity, so do I". I'm in class, and I really hope my classmates can pay attention to me. But some students not only don't look at me and ignore me, but also make jokes below. I'm so sad! People should respect each other. If it is not too much, I hope everyone will respect my poor vanity. "
For students who don't do or hand in their homework, Mr. Zhu didn't say that they should be punished and autocratic. He said, "I appreciate the concern of some students in my class. Maybe I am too slim. These students are afraid that they will be tired of me, so they don't do their homework and hand it in, which makes me gain weight easily. But I don't like being fat. Being fat is actually an unhealthy manifestation. I don't want to get fat, and I don't want my classmates to be lazy and gain weight. So the homework is still to be done and handed in! "
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There are still many such criticisms. We can easily accept such criticism. Because such criticism is 37.5 degrees Celsius. At 37.5 degrees Celsius, the activity of the "enzyme" that we accept criticism is the highest.
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Criticism is also an art.
In Tennessee, there is a black boy. His parents became an unattended "wild child" at a young age because of their father's drinking and discord. At school, he fights all day, breaks windows and bullies girls ... he becomes a thorn in the side of teachers and classmates.
One morning, after the bell rang and before the teacher came, the students came to their seats one after another to get ready to take their seats. At this time, naughty, he secretly took a girl's stool and left the girl empty. Then he made a face and ran away. Unexpectedly, he bumped into Miss Catherine who came to class. The girl who fell to the ground covered her bleeding wound and cried and pointed at the teacher, the maker of the prank.
Looking at the girl's leg bleeding, he stood there, scared silly, thinking: this is over, I don't know how the teacher will punish me! I didn't expect teacher Catherine to dress the girl's wound, smiled and walked up to the boy and said, "I heard that your acting skills are good." Since you made a mistake, I will punish you for acting a play to apologize to everyone! " The boy performed the joke he saw in the theater. His performance was so successful that everyone in Chen chen applauded him. Even the girl who was bullied by him is now happy to forgive him. But he cried in a mess, because he had never seen so many people applaud him in his life, and no teacher criticized him by making him act like Catherine.
Later, the boy got along well with his classmates. Under the guidance of teacher Catherine, he is also addicted to books and movies. Surprisingly, he seems to have a natural talent for acting. In the second semester, in the drama performance appraisal, his one-act drama won the first place in Quanzhou. Later, after hard work, he not only entered Broadway, but also rushed into the world's DreamWorks for studying art-Hollywood! Now, he is over 70 years old, but he still insists on filming. His role can win an Oscar almost every time, which has deeply influenced generations. He is the famous American black actor Morgan Ferguson.
True criticism can not only stimulate a person's introspection and self-help in the depths of his soul, but also sublimate him in the process of self-confession. Real criticism is sweet, just like coffee with sugar, which is more acceptable.
It's really nice to go home with a 99-point paper. There are rare blue sky and white clouds in the sky of mountain city. Of course, the joy in my heart is hard to suppress, and the smile on my face is exposed. So I ran home at a speed of 100 meters. "Mom-"I called before I got home. "Come back, come in!" My mother gave me a Chinese smile. After giving my mother an American hug in return, I lay in bed in the coolest "big" shape. "How did you do in the math exam?" My mother sat next to me, still smiling. "99!" I finished and took a sip of water. "Good, good, good test!" Mom's voice is 8 degrees high and her face is very happy. Although I heard a lot of praise, my heart was still sweet. "However, my mother suddenly quietly turned a tune. Have you ever wondered where you lost that? "This sentence is really in my mind. I really didn't think about it. Then there was silence, frightening and suffocating. "Being unable to keep improving is your biggest problem, son!" Mother's tone is very different from that just now. The sweetness in my heart seems to be sour. Mother quietly closed the door and went out. I felt that she stood at the door for a long time. The empty room was just me and the curtains blown by the wind ... then I began to think from another angle. I began to feel the art of mother's speech. Praise is full of enthusiasm, but criticism comes quietly. Praise seems to have nothing to do with criticism. Actually, it is not. Think about it carefully, it still makes sense. So I tried to sum up a formula, which is the title of this article. "Criticism is a kind of enjoyment" Everyone wants to be praised by others, not criticized by others, but I think criticism is a kind of enjoyment, because it can benefit us, so as to strive to improve ourselves and make progress. The teacher criticized people for being very strategic. The first is tepid education, which will make you fully realize the artistic conception that silence is better than sound. Then the teacher's voice will be raised a little, and an angry storm will completely disintegrate your mind and make you gasp in admiration, thus accepting Kong Old Master Q's way of being a man, and then he will show you a smug smile and watch you walk out of the office. If you don't like him, but want to make a scene with him, you are a mistake. As the saying goes, "He who knows the times is a hero." However, occasionally, I will meet a few "nail households", which will make the teacher lose face and completely lose his reputation. But when the teacher sees the smug "disciple" below, he will try his best to restore his reputation and rebuild Benwei. First of all, he will raise his voice by an octave, and his words will flood like the tide in Qiantang River. If you are an old hand, you may be able to resist, but the teacher's offensive is getting higher and higher, and then he will talk to you about the purpose of learning in lightning speed. What big-headed life philosophy of governing the country and rejuvenating the country comes one after another, which makes you puzzled and unable to dodge, and then the teacher will use attack tactics. Just like the ever-changing passing skills on the football field, it hits your heart again and again. At this time, your inner defense line is slowly shaking, and finally you break through your solid "Ma Qinuo" defense line. At this time, the most proud is the teacher, the best audience is the classmates, but the most unlucky is you, because you will know that the teacher will make an example of you and let you write about the experience of hating fire. However, if you have been patient, an interesting criticism will certainly benefit you a lot, just like listening to Beethoven's symphony. Criticism is a kind of enjoyment without admission tickets. As long as you listen carefully and understand the profound philosophy, it will definitely resonate with me. Remember that criticism is a pleasure, my friend, don't you think? The arena of life chasing criticism often begins like this: there are flowers cheered by friends on both sides, and behind them are the eyes of parents' support and praise, so we grow up in the applause of praise. However, since we want to move forward, we must wander alone. At that time, can the lonely soul withstand the blow of criticism? Many times, praise always wears a beautiful coat, permeates your blood like a devil, destroys all your cognitive fields like a landslide and tsunami, and devours a beautiful spiritual home; You who obey praise will only become its poor slave. Perhaps, for those who are eager for praise and pursue fame and fortune, criticism is the destruction and loss of will. For those who have indomitable determination and unswerving original intention, criticism is the realization and sublimation of ideals! "Without a little chill, where does the plum blossom fragrance come from?" Yes, the creator will never let a person without pain, suffering or even criticism become a strong man, a hero and a pillar. I am not a person who advocates praise. I hope criticism can freeze my soul and make me stronger. Because, I will never go boating in the open sea for romance, even if there are white waves, layers of wonderful waves and beautiful blue. Because I deeply understand that if I want to hug them, all I get is foam with fishy smell. I will choose to jump into the depths of the sea bravely and let seaweed and shells beat my body. However, I firmly believe that I will rely on my own efforts to touch that enormous pearl, and I will rely on my own pursuit to feel the happiness after withstanding the blow. Should we praise those who are really successful? Please don't, because they only pay attention to the thorns and bumps on the road of knowledge. Then please give them severe criticism, and they will definitely stop to find their own shortcomings and deficiencies, so as to gradually move towards perfection. With criticism, we still sing sincerely. With criticism, we still hold our heads high.