Life is impermanent, and there are joys and sorrows, because the long road will not be accompanied by flowers and grass forever, and the bumpy road will happen occasionally. This not only brought excitement to a quiet life, but also left too many shortcomings in life. Such as repeated gains and losses.

I like such a couplet very much: why bother to care about gains and losses? If you are willing to give up, you might as well not force it. The process of life is a process of giving up and getting back. If you want to get it, you must first learn to give up. What you get is not necessarily perfect, and giving up is not necessarily an imperfect choice. Silkworms give up their heavy cocoons and become beautiful butterflies; Only by giving up the protection of mussels can pearls show beautiful luster; Young eagles can only fly beautifully in the blue sky if they give up the protection of their parents. Whether it's a silkworm, a pearl or a young eagle, if you don't choose to give up, then all the beauty is just an illusion.

I vaguely remember the song "Snails and Orioles" when I was a child. Maybe many people around us will laugh at snails like orioles, but think about it from another angle: if snails don't give up the same rest time as others, can they still pick ripe grapes? And if the snail listens to the oriole halfway and doesn't insist, is there any hope for it to eat grapes?

As a social group, giving up may be a fulfillment for others. Because what you lose is what you gain. Buddhism's "human heart is good" may be the best interpretation of "giving is happiness"

Actually, whether to give up or not depends on the situation. When you give up, don't hesitate to let go and stick to it resolutely and bravely.

At dusk, it seems that you can still see the shadow of snails. It gave up the free time, but got the ripe fruit, which is the harvest. People, too, learn to give up calmly, and perhaps gain a better life.

Gains and losses are impermanent in life, so why not face it optimistically and grow up smartly. In fact, sometimes, you have to believe: press the delete button of life, maybe you will gain another beauty.