It is polite to smile.

Carnegie, the American steel magnate, said: "Smile is a strange radio wave, which will make others unconsciously agree with you." At a grand banquet, a businessman who usually complains about Carnegie attacked Carnegie behind his back. When Carnegie stood in the crowd and listened to his speech, he didn't know it, which embarrassed the host of the party. Carnegie, on the other hand, stood quietly with a smile on his face. When his attacker found him, he was very embarrassed and wanted to get away from the crowd. Still smiling, Carnegie stepped forward and shook hands with him kindly, as if he had never heard him speak ill of himself. Later, this man became a good friend of Carnegie.

Shi Yang Cheng Men Li Xue

-learning etiquette is the first.

At the age of 40, Shi Yang made some achievements in his career, but he was still eager to learn from Cheng Yi. One day, Shi Yang and Youzuo went to the teacher for advice. When they saw Cheng Yi asleep with his eyes closed, they stood outside the door and waited respectfully. Cheng Yi woke up and saw Youzuo standing covered in snow. He called in. At this time, the snow on the ground has been more than a foot deep.

Courtesy training school

-Politeness is needed at work.

Japan has established a new school-Politeness Training School. Many companies send their new employees, especially young female employees, to courtesy training schools to learn how to use different honorifics for different people, how to accept business cards, how to maintain an elegant sitting posture, and how to send guests politely. The teacher taking these politeness classes is a retired stewardess of Japan Airlines.

Take people by courtesy.

Learning etiquette is the first step to enter the workplace.

The Chinese nation is a country of etiquette, and college students, as a group with high knowledge level, should have this basic quality, which is a respect for others and a first impression to attract others' attention. Politeness is reflected in language and clothes. In language, we use more "hello", "please take care", "thank you" and "goodbye". There was such a typical case. Kaifeng Zheng Da Company came to a school to select students, and the students were interviewed in turn. A student was named, and a classmate immediately went to find it. The classmate who went to find it said "Sorry, I can't find it" when he came back. The general manager of Zheng Da Company, who is in charge of the selection, said on the spot: "Take your' sorry' and we will take your classmate away."

Kong Rong gave up the biggest pear.

Modesty is the embodiment of politeness.

Kong Rong was a writer and scholar in the Eastern Han Dynasty. Confucius has seven brothers, and Kong Rong ranks sixth. When brothers study and play together, they always give in to each other and live in harmony. When Kong Rong was 4 years old, there was a bumper harvest of pears in his hometown. There is a plate of pears on the table at home, and the whole family gathers to eat pears. The brothers asked the younger brother to take it first, but Kong Rong picked the smallest pear instead of the good one. Father asked him, "There are so many pears, why did you take the smallest one?" Kong Rong replied: "I am young, so I should give the youngest and the biggest to my brother." The father asked again, "Isn't my brother younger than you?" Kong Rong said, "I am older than my brother. I should give the big one to my brother. " After knowing this, relatives and friends praised it one after another, saying that a 4-year-old child knew that Jean Pear must be an extraordinary person when he grew up. Sure enough, Kong Rong became a writer and scholar when he grew up.

As you sow, you reap; Sow beans and you will get beans-as you sow, you will get beans; As you sow, you reap

-Corporal Lixian can achieve great things.

Before the battle of Guandu, Cao Cao was at a disadvantage in all aspects. One day, I heard that Xu You, Yuan Shao's counselor, visited, and he ran out barefoot to meet him, showing great respect for Xu You. Xu You was moved by Cao Cao's sincerity, so she made suggestions for Cao Cao and helped him a lot. But Cao Cao sometimes disrespects others. Just as he was full of ambition and smooth sailing, Zhang Song from Xichuan came to offer a picture, but his attitude was arrogant, which left a bad impression on Zhang Song. Zhang Song temporarily changed his mind and gave the map of surprisingly to Cao Cao instead of Liu Bei. This is a great loss for Cao Cao.

The Prime Minister treats people with courtesy.

-Politeness is the charm.

No matter what kind of environment, Premier Zhou always keeps due courtesy. Every time I meet foreign guests, I always arrive early, stand at the door and shake hands with everyone, with sincere attitude. At the end of the meeting, he always sends the guests out of the gate and doesn't leave until the car starts. As the Prime Minister of the State Council, he treats people with courtesy everywhere. The waiter brought him tea, and he often stood up and took it with both hands, smiling and nodding his thanks. When he goes out to inspect his work, he always shakes hands with waiters, chefs and security guards and expresses his cordial thanks. Even on his way home late at night, he repeatedly told the driver to drive politely and let the foreign guests go first. A foreign reporter praised him: "Most people who meet him think that he has a charm, shrewdness, extraordinary personality and charm."

Lu Xun wrote a letter.

Politeness is reflected in the details.

Mr. Lu Xun is very polite when writing letters to his teachers and friends. Just an ordinary young man, he is also called "sir" when writing letters. When others feel bad, he gives in and calls himself a "brother". For example, in 1933, Lu Xun wrote a letter to Zhang Tianyi, a young author at that time:

"A brother, autobiography received today. The letter arrived early, so there is no way to give in. In fact, the name' Mr' has lost its original meaning, but it is just an English translation of the charm of' Mr'. ……"

Mao Zedong respects teachers.

For teachers, politeness comes first.

On the 60th birthday of his teacher, Xu Teli, Mao Zedong, the leader of the Party and the Red Army, wrote a congratulatory letter, which said, "Twenty years ago, you were my husband, now you are still my husband, and you must be my husband in the future ..."

Courtesy of the Duke of Windsor

It is polite to relieve embarrassment for others.

On one occasion, the British royal family held a grand banquet for Indian tribal leaders. At the end of the banquet, the waiter brought each guest a small basin of hand washing water. The Indian leader didn't understand this etiquette, so he picked up the washbasin and gulped down the clear water. The British people present were shocked. Before they laughed out loud, the Duke of Windsor calmly picked up the hand washing water and drank it down, as did other British guests, without bringing any embarrassment to Indian leaders.

Lenin gave in.

-Politeness is out of sincerity

Once, Lenin went downstairs, and in the narrow corridor of the stairs, he met a female worker carrying a basin of water upstairs. When women workers see Lenin, they have to go back to make way. Lenin stopped her and said, "Don't do this. You have taken half the things, and I have nothing. Please go first! " He said the word "please" loudly and kindly. Then he leaned against the wall and let the woman go upstairs, and then he went downstairs.

Li Hongzhang was ridiculed for spitting abroad.

Politeness is related to the national image.

It is said that when Li Hongzhang, the minister of the Qing Dynasty, went to Russia, he had a bad habit of spitting everywhere. As a result, he was treated as a joke by foreign journalists, making a big fuss and mocking, and losing the face of China people.

"Anti-linguist" Zhang Binggui

-Be polite and serve customers.

Zhang Binggui, a salesgirl in Beijing department store, is a model of the national business community. He is called "anti-linguist" because of his civilized reception of customers. When the customer came to the counter, he took the initiative to say hello, asking more and taking more, and never tired of it. A customer was in a hurry and wanted to buy it first, so he said to the customer who arrived first, "This comrade has to catch a train. Can you sell it to him first?" Some customers slapped the counter and made a noise. He said kindly, "Please wait a moment. I will come as soon as I receive this customer. " When serving noisy customers, he said, "I'm sorry to keep you waiting!" " "Some customers bought a lot of things, and he immediately said," I'll help you tie it up. "When the goods were sold out, he looked at the customers and said," Welcome to come again. ""Please walk slowly. " "goodbye! "Zhang Binggui's civilized language and warm service have warmed customers.

After Lenin was late for the meeting

To be polite, you must respect others first.

192 1 in June, the third international congress of * * * was held in Moscow, and Lenin was always there. Once Lenin was a little late, and a representative was speaking. He was afraid that when he stepped onto the rostrum, there would be another warm scene of standing up and clapping. When he interrupted the representative, he quietly hid behind a pillar and listened. When he heard this wonderful thing, he took out his notebook and lay on the steps to remember it.

George Washington's etiquette rules

Etiquette is an important principle in life.

1. When you are with others, you must respect others in your manners.

2. Don't hum songs by yourself, tap things with your fingers, or kick things with your feet in the presence of others.

3. Don't interrupt when others are talking; Don't sit down while others are standing; Don't go by yourself after others have stopped.

4. Don't turn your back on others, especially when talking to others; Don't shake the desk when others are reading and writing; Don't rely on others.

Don't flatter others and don't play with people who don't like playing with others.

6. Don't read letters, books and newspapers when you are with others; If it is really necessary to do the above things, you must also ask to leave. Don't approach or read other people's books or works without permission; Don't get too close when others write letters.

7. Have a Zhang Shanliang face, but be serious on serious occasions.

8. Don't smile when someone is in trouble, even if he is your opponent.

9. People with status or high positions have priority in all aspects, but when they are young, they should respect people who are equal to themselves in birth or other aspects, although they do not hold any public office.

10. When talking to others, let others speak first, especially when talking to the boss, never speak first.

1 1. When talking with others, be sure to keep the content short and comprehensive.

12. When visiting patients, don't intervene unless you are a doctor.

13. When writing a letter or talking to others, the address should conform to the status of the person and the habits of his place of residence.

14. Don't argue with the boss, but express your opinions modestly.

15. Don't tell your colleagues what to do, because doing so often gives people a sense of arrogance.

16. If a person has tried his best, don't blame him even if he doesn't succeed.

17. When making suggestions or criticisms to others, we should seriously consider the occasion: whether to make them publicly or privately, now or another day. In addition, pay attention to the wording. When criticizing others, don't show any angry expression, but use a gentle tone.

18. Don't laugh or laugh at anything important; Don't make sharp jokes; If you want humor or wit, you must first control yourself not to laugh.

19. If you want to blame others, you must have no mistakes in this respect. Because examples are more convincing than rules.

20. Don't use reproachful language to say anyone, and don't scold or reprimand others.

2 1. Don't believe those rumors that belittle others.

22. Dress simply and pursue nature rather than the envy of others. Follow the fashion of people of the same status, dress neatly according to different occasions and be polite to others.

23. Don't be like a peacock. No matter where you are, you should look at whether you are dressed appropriately, whether your shoes are suitable, whether your socks are neat and whether your clothes are beautiful.

If you value your reputation, you must associate with people of noble character. It is better to be alone than to associate with people with poor quality.

25. Don't speak with malice or jealousy, because it is a meek and commendable character. Whatever may make you angry, you should keep calm.

26. Don't maliciously encourage friends to discover other people's secrets.

27. Don't talk about low-level or superficial things between adults or learned people. Don't ask difficult questions or talk about abstruse topics or incredible things among the ignorant.

28. Don't say sad things when you are happy or eating. Do not talk about sad things, such as death and injury; If others mention this, try to change the subject. Talk about your dreams only with your close friends.

29. If no one is interested, stop joking. Don't laugh. Besides, laugh on different occasions. Never gloat, even if it's funny.

30. Don't say anything that hurts others, whether joking or serious. Don't laugh at others, although they do have something funny.

3 1. Don't be reckless, be friendly and polite. Don't hesitate to greet others. Listen to others before you answer. Don't be silent when you should speak.

32. Don't belittle people or praise them too much.

33. Don't go to places where you don't know if you are welcome. Don't volunteer unless others ask for your advice. If others want to hear your opinion, your statement should be short.

34. If two people are arguing, don't stick to your point of view stubbornly. Stand with most people on unimportant issues.

Don't blame others for their shortcomings, because your parents, teachers and superiors all have shortcomings.

Don't cling to the shortcomings of others, and don't touch the root of these shortcomings. Don't tell others what you should tell your friends in private.

37. Be sure to speak your mother tongue when you are with others, and never speak a foreign language; Learn from educated people, not vulgar; Take noble things seriously.

38. Think twice before you speak; Pronunciation should be accurate, don't speak in a hurry, speak clearly.

39. When others are talking, listen carefully and don't disturb other listeners. If the speaker is hesitant, don't help him or remind him unless he wants you to. Don't interrupt him, wait for him to finish before asking questions.

40. Choose the right time to communicate with others, and don't whisper in front of others.

4 1. Don't compare others with each other; If you praise someone's heroic behavior, don't praise another person with the same words.

If you don't know whether something is true or not, don't tell others easily. When talking about what you hear, don't always tell who you heard it from. Don't reveal the secret.

43. Don't be curious about other people's affairs, and don't walk past when others are talking privately.

44. Don't do things you are not sure about; But you must keep your promise.

45. When telling a story, don't be emotional, don't act rashly, no matter how despicable the listener is.

46. When the boss is talking to others, listen carefully and don't interrupt or laugh.

47. In the debate, we should neither rush to beat each other, nor let everyone express their opinions at will. Listen to the judgment of most people, especially when these people are the judges of the debate.

48. Don't be monotonous when you speak, don't digress too many times, and don't repeat the same thing many times.

49. Don't maliciously attack people who are not present, because it is unfair to do so.

50. No matter what happens, don't get angry while eating; Even if you are angry, don't show it; Appear cheerful, especially in front of strangers. A good atmosphere can help people increase their appetite.

5 1. Don't sit alone at the top of the dining table; But if you should sit in the seat, or the owner of the house invites you to sit in the seat, don't be too modest, so as not to bring unhappiness to others present.

52. When you talk about God or his qualities, you must be serious, full of respect and listen to your parents' teaching.

Your entertainment should be like a man, not a criminal.

54. Try to let the heaven fire called conscience burn in your chest.