Just ask for a clear conscience and no regrets in youth!

Those hurried years have made me realize most of the sufferings in the world, and I have changed since then!

13 years old, parents divorced.

My parents' divorce had a great influence on me. I have a short opinion about this. My mother asked me if I should follow her. I turned her down because I knew she couldn't give me the happiness and freedom I wanted. My father can give me what I want, and he can make me independent and strong. I also know that I am destined to grow up without maternal love all my life. I hope everyone will cherish the nourishment of maternal love. If parents are not harmonious, please advise them to respect their inner thoughts and let them ask themselves whether they are happy or not. I can say that I divorced my father. I'm not proud of it. It was my decision that cost me a lifetime of maternal love, but I don't regret it! Because I know my father is unhappy, I don't want him to suffer for me. ! We are all children, sometimes don't just think about yourself, think about your parents!

19 years old, internship (trainee conductor)

20 years old, working (security inspector)

22 years old, company employee.

After I resigned, I went to do what I liked. Many people ask me why I don't do it. This job is too stable to go if you want. Why didn't you say you wouldn't do it? You are so uncertain that you don't even want such a good job! I said silently in my heart, this is just your idea, not mine! What I'm doing now is what I've wanted to do since I was a child. Now that I have fulfilled my original dream, why should I be sad? Why should I listen to you? Why can't I decide my own life? Yes, I am rebellious. I don't listen to advice, just do what I want and don't look back! The road is bumpy, but I won't stop!

Nine years is neither too long nor too short, but how many nine years can life waste? Do what I think is right and listen to other people's good opinions. In the past nine years, the only two things I object to are staying with him, quitting my job on the railway and living a nine-to-five life that I like. At the age of 22, I have been myself for nine years and understand these truths.

One: If you still have a dream, you should work hard.

I have a dream, I work hard, and I have achieved it! When I came out of school, my internship was all on the railway. I'm not a technician, but a conductor and a security inspector. I have been in these two unskilled positions for a long time. I didn't learn any skills and made myself lazier. I seem to see my future overnight. I'm scared and I flinch! I don't want to walk on this road until dark. I want to get out of it before I get stuck. When I decided to go to naked resignation, I didn't understand office software such as word and Office. Copywriting also needs rational thinking to write, but I am very emotional. I also come out and do what I like without hesitation.

Sometimes, only by letting yourself go without retreat can you get out of the predicament. I believe you can do it, too. Embrace your dreams!

Two: If you want something, you must work hard to get it yourself.

There are many people around me who are very strong. They all get what they want and sit where they want. Don't think you can get everything easily. In fact, nothing in the world can be easily obtained, only one step at a time. You said that many people easily achieved the position that many ordinary people need to work hard for many years because you didn't see the efforts behind them. For example, when I was in junior high school, I didn't study hard. I get up early every morning to copy other people's homework, but even if I copy it, it's not that my things can't reach my stomach! Then why can people who are good at reading get to school on time, and they can know a lot of things I don't know? Because they work harder than us, stay up late reading and spend more time than me. The world is fair, and what they learn is in direct proportion to what they pay.

What you want is yours only through your own efforts, and you need to be on tenterhooks when others give it to you. The harder you work, the luckier you will be.

Believe in love, but love is not everything.

Why I believe in love, but love is not everything: talk about myself. I have been in love with him for nearly five years. At first we were very sticky together, just like two conjoined babies! Because of a series of emotional problems, including calling him, we have nothing to say but quarrel, and then slowly understand and give each other space. "When I went back to school, our class teacher asked me what happened to him. I was surprised." We used to be conjoined, but now we don't appear together. Many people will think what's wrong with him and me, but other than that, we just know how to give each other space!

Every relationship needs to give each other space, so that each other can study, socialize and go to work with confidence, and realize that it is not only love that needs to be maintained in life, but also friendship and affection. No one can spare time to care about other feelings after wholeheartedly investing in love, so please give love some space and care for others.

Four: The body is always the most important, it is the capital.

No matter when you have experienced it, you will know the abyss brought by the disease. Don't touch the bottom line of disease. Good work and rest, good diet and good exercise will definitely bring us health! Both men and women's bodies are their own, and no one can take them away. Please cherish them!

Five: If you feel that life is not full enough, go to study/travel.

There is no end to learning ~ it is what I have been pursuing. I have never done what I like, attended my favorite courses, or been to places I want to go, for the simple reason that I have no time! Now, the time allocation every day is very good. There is writing class every week, accounting class on Sunday, and going out for a walk in my spare time. I think this is the most fulfilling period after my work! Enter regularly every week, repeat every week, and enter once a month! This has become a habit and my own homework!

When one day you feel that life is boring, first look at what your life is like, and then decide whether to study or travel! Make a time plan for yourself, and you can do many unexpected things! I look forward to your change!

Six: it has nothing to do with wisdom, and there is wisdom outside the bureau.

This last one is for everyone. I have always kept this sentence in mind. I hope it is useful to everyone!

Life is bitter and sweet. At the age of 22, I have become what I like! Wish me happiness