In today's society, the most important thing is the cultivation of ability. The so-called ability training is to cultivate our independence. We should not only achieve excellent results, but also learn to stand on our own feet. If our life doesn't even have this principle, we will live in vain. Just like a tree, if it can't absorb rain and sunshine by itself, can it still take root and sprout?

We can't be flowers in the greenhouse. No one can let us rely on it all our lives. Everything depends on yourself. We should learn to be self-reliant and self-reliant.

Maybe you have all heard the story, but I must repeat it here. Here's the thing: there is a lazy man who is too lazy to imagine! Lying in bed every day and not walking is to let my mother do anything for herself. Later, the mother wanted to go out, but she was afraid that her son would starve to death because of laziness. So, I made a big cake and hung it around my son's neck so that he could eat food when she was out and not starve to death. A few days after his mother left home, his son would open his mouth to eat some big cakes, but in the next few days, his son didn't want to look up and eat a bite because the top of the cake was eaten! Until he starved to death. Can't this story repeated n times sober us up? What does this mean? Explain that no matter what you do, you can't rely on others. If there is no dependence, what will happen? The result is not hard to imagine, is it?

Moreover, in a primary school in the United States, in order to expand sports equipment, the school asked students to sell pies in every household, and then gave the money they earned to the school to buy sports equipment. There is a student in China who never sells anything. He is afraid that he can't say for sure, that his customers won't cooperate, and that his parents will dissuade him. He said that he would let them help the China student. But later, the students made up their minds to do it themselves. Worried, he came to the door of a family and knocked on the door. The door opened and an uncle with yellow hair and blue eyes appeared. He said kindly in English, "Hello, what can I do for you?" ? Can I help you? "So, telling this story by this China student is like recognition. What he didn't expect was that the uncle immediately believed the words of foreign children, agreed to the students' requirements and paid the money first. Later, the student got up the courage to do business with several companies, but they all succeeded. This is also a manifestation of our self-reliance. Moreover, from this article, we can know that students in China really lack the ability of self-reliance! Shouldn't we start standing on our own feet?

We are like a young grass, we really need some people's careful care, but in the process of people's care, we must also learn to be independent. Otherwise, what will happen if there is no human care one day? Watching yourself die in a storm?