When you analyze human behavior, you will clearly find that everyone is dominated by habits. Successful people form good habits. What about unsuccessful people? But I got into a bad habit.

Many people say that they are rational and do everything after detailed analysis before taking action. But behaviorists tell us that about 90% of behavioral responses are just a habitual response. Every day, we will encounter the same or different challenges. When the challenge comes, we will play a fixed role to deal with it. When you get used to it, your head becomes a habit. Some habits become head movements, such as holding a piece of dough in your hand, and flour will naturally come out of your hand. Our behavior and reaction are the same, following the previous habits and following the direction, with almost no obstacles.

We call ourselves rational animals, but it is more appropriate to call ourselves habitual animals. Every action in our life has long been a slave to habit. For example, when shaving in the morning, do you shave from the right or from the left? When wearing shoes, should you put your left foot or your right foot first? What about wearing pants? Where is the suit jacket? So we are completely dominated by habit, right?

The reason why mankind has become the spirit of all things is that we have formed a habit. Habit is a way to save time. Habit can make life smooth and happy. When you live in a new place, the adaptation process is extremely difficult. Or driving, if it is a new road, just paying attention to the signs is already very distracting, turning the driving work that was originally enjoyed into trouble. If we have no habits, we will become people who think and hesitate all day. Accustomed to this work, you can finish it in one day. If you are not used to it, it often takes three or two days to finish it. Is it troublesome? Because of habituation, the action turns to automation, and the reaction speed is much faster.

Since habits can speed up our reaction, why not establish a set of convenient, quick and effective work habits when building a career? Good work habits can not only make the work go smoothly, but also save a lot of energy and brain power. Habit is a good master at work. But sometimes we become slaves to our habits. If it's a good habit, it doesn't hurt to be a slave. However, if you are a slave to bad habits, life is not easy to succeed.

According to psychologists, if we can't form good habits, we will naturally form bad habits. Why? Because our nature is lazy. On the other hand, as the saying goes, "If you can't learn well in three days, you can't learn well in three years." If you want to develop good habits, you must first be self-disciplined until the working procedure becomes a habit.

For example, you have a habit of knowing four people every day. At first, I believe I am not used to it, but after a while, if you only know three people a day, you will become uncomfortable, and you must know four people, otherwise you can't even sleep. This is a habit. After getting used to the important daily work, your brain will have extra space for creative activities.

Do you really want to get rid of your habit? Here is a way to change your bad habits and form good ones. It is the "parchment".

Today, I started a new life.

Today, I crawled out of the calluses full of failure wounds.

Today, I came to this world again. I was born in a vineyard, and the grapes in the garden are for everyone to enjoy.

Today, I will pick the fruit of wisdom from the tallest and densest vine, which was planted by wise men several generations ago.

Today, I want to taste the beauty of grapes, swallow every seed of success and let new life sprout in my heart.

The road I choose is full of opportunities, bitterness and despair. Countless failed companions, piled together, are higher than the pyramid.

However, I will not fail like them, because I have a nautical chart in my hand, which can lead me across the turbulent sea and reach the other side of my dream.

Failure is no longer the price of my struggle. It and the pain will disappear from my life. Failure and I, like fire and water, are incompatible. I don't accept them as I used to. Under the guidance of wisdom, I will walk out of the shadow of failure and step into a paradise of wealth, health and happiness, which I never dreamed of before.

If I can live forever, I can learn everything, but I can't live forever. Therefore, in my limited life, I must learn the art of patience, because nature's behavior has always been leisurely. It takes a hundred years for the creator to create the olive tree, the king of trees, and it takes only nine weeks for the onion to wither. I don't miss the onion life in the past. I want to be the king of all trees-the olive tree, and the greatest salesman in real life.

How is that possible? I have neither profound knowledge nor rich experience. Besides, I have fallen into the abyss of ignorance and self-pity. The answer is simple: I won't let so-called knowledge or experience interfere with my trip. The creator gave me enough knowledge and instinct, which is beyond the reach of other creatures. The value of experience is often overestimated. When people are old, what they say is mostly stupid.

To tell the truth, experience can really teach us a lot, but it takes too long. By the time people gain wisdom, its value has decreased with the passage of time. The result is often like this. With rich experience, people's lives are running out. Experience is related to fashion. Just because behavior is suitable for a certain era doesn't mean it is still applicable today.

Only principles are lasting, and I have them now. These principles that can guide me to success are written in these scrolls. It taught me how to avoid failure, not just success, because success is a state of mind. People have different opinions on the definition of success, but there is often only one explanation for failure: failure is that a person fails to achieve his life goals, no matter what they are.

In fact, the biggest difference between success and failure comes from different habits. Good habits are the key to success, while bad habits are the gateway to failure. Therefore, the first thing I have to do is to form good habits and implement them wholeheartedly.

When I was a child, I used to be very emotional. When I grow up, I will use good habits instead of temporary impulses. My free will succumbed to the bad habits formed over the years, which threatened my future. My behavior is influenced by taste, emotion, prejudice, desire, love, fear, environment and habits, among which habit is the most powerful. So, if I must be dominated by habits, let me be dominated by good habits. Those bad habits must be given up, and I will sow good seeds in new fields.

I want to form good habits and implement them wholeheartedly.

This is not an easy task. How can we do that? You can do it with these scrolls. Because each volume is written with a principle, you can get rid of a bad habit and exchange it for a good one, which will make people progress and succeed. This is also one of the laws of nature, and only one habit can restrain another. So, in order to take the road I choose, the first habit I must develop is:

It takes 30 days to read each volume, and then enter the next volume.

Get up in the morning and read silently; After lunch, read it silently again; Read aloud before going to bed at night.

The situation the next day was exactly the same. Repeat this for 30 days and you can open the next volume. Each volume is read in the same way for 30 days, and over time, it becomes a habit.

What are the benefits of these habits? This is the secret of human success. When I repeat these words every day, they become a part of my psychological activities, and more importantly, they penetrate into my mind. It is a mysterious world that never stops, creating dreams and unconsciously affecting my behavior.

When the words on these scrolls are completely absorbed by my wonderful mind, I wake up full of energy every day. I have never been so energetic. I am more energetic and enthusiastic, and my desire to challenge the world has overcome all my fears and anxieties. In this world full of fighting and sadness, I am happier than before.

Finally, I will find that I have a way to deal with all situations. Soon, these methods will be free to use. Because, any method, as long as you practice more, will become simple and easy.

After repeated many times, a seemingly complicated behavior becomes easy. When it comes true, there will be unlimited fun. With fun, out of human nature, I prefer to implement it often. Thus, a good habit was born, and the habit became natural. This is not only a good habit, but also my will.

Today, I started a new life.

I solemnly swear that nothing will hinder the growth of my new life. When reading these scrolls, I will never waste a day, because time is gone forever, and lost days are irreparable. I will never break the habit of reading every day. In fact, spending a little time on these new habits every day is only a negligible price compared with the happiness and success that may be achieved.

When I read the text in the scroll, I must not ignore the depth of the content because of the refinement of the text. A bottle of wine needs to be made of 100 dried fruit, and the peel and dregs are thrown to the birds. The wisdom of grapes is passed down from generation to generation, some are filtered and some are eliminated, blowing in the wind. Only pure truth is eternal. They are refined in the words I want to read. I will follow the instructions, never waste or drink the seeds of success.

Today, my calluses turned to dust. I strut in the crowd, and no one will recognize me, because I am not who I used to be, and I have a new life.