One is the story of "Fang Guancheng travels thousands of miles to visit relatives".
During the Qianlong period of Qing Dynasty, Fang Guancheng, a native of Tongcheng, Anhui Province, was a famous dutiful son. The story that he traveled thousands of miles to visit relatives and friends was passed down as a beautiful story.
Both Fang Guancheng's grandfather and father were court officials. The literary inquisition in Qing Dynasty implicated his grandfather and father because a friend wrote a book, and they were exiled to Heilongjiang for military service, and their property was confiscated. The young Fang Guancheng brothers had no choice but to stay in the temple.
In the temple, Fang Guancheng lived with tears and was ready for hardship, but what Fang Guancheng missed most was his grandfather and father. He summoned up his courage and asked the elders to allow them to visit their elders in the frontier. Considering their youth, the elders tried their best to dissuade them, even though they were filial, for fear that they would not survive. Fang Guancheng pleaded: "Grandpa and father are far away, eager to see their relatives at home. If we can go, it will definitely add some comfort. In order to give parents a little comfort, even if they suffer a little torture and suffering, they will not hesitate. Please think it over and let's get started. "
The Fang brothers' righteous act touched their elders, who gave them money and watched them embark on the journey of visiting relatives with tears in their eyes.
Along the way, they camped in the wind, waded through mountains and rivers, starved and helped each other, their clothes were ragged and their feet were covered with calluses. A few months later, they finally met their parents. After the four of them cried bitterly, grandpa and father were glad to have such filial offspring, and the family of four were intoxicated with happiness.
The other is the story of "Feng Yuxiang bought meat to honor his father".
General Feng Yuxiang is not only a famous patriotic general, but also a well-known dutiful son.
Being a soldier in the old society was a hard job. Soldiers are often not paid, and ten soldiers in every five rows are shot. Every shooting day, my father thinks he is young and weak, and always tries his best to scrape together some small money to buy a sesame seed cake for his son to satisfy his hunger. Xiao Yuxiang, who is sensible, saw that life at home was difficult, and his father hurt his leg again and needed to mend his body. But if you don't want the money, father will be angry. So he saved all the money his father gave him, and in a few days he put together the money he usually saved. He bought two catties of pork at the butcher's shop and asked for leave to go home and cook a pot of braised pork for his father. My father became suspicious immediately after seeing it, so he questioned the origin of this piece of meat. Feng Yuxiang knew his father's severity and had to tell the truth. After hearing this, the old father grabbed the sensible child and couldn't say a word. Tears fell down.
There are countless typical examples of filial piety to parents like this. Nowadays, many teenagers with noble sentiments are also good examples of filial piety to their parents and elders. This kind of kindness to honor the elders and give love has merged into a perfect and warm love movement in the world, playing a strong voice of the times.
Thank you, give some points .. Filial piety to parents and elders is an important part of the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation. Parents and elders, who have raised their offspring, are naturally worthy of filial piety. Try to imagine that a person who speaks ill of his parents and elders and behaves indecent can become a patriotic and talented person.
Everyone has their own parents. Parents give us life and nurture us to grow up. They have made a lot of efforts for their children. As children, we should always honor our parents everywhere, which is the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation. And we, the only children, have regarded ourselves as the apple of their parents' eyes since childhood, and some people even pretend to be "little emperors" and "little princesses". At home, we rely on our parents for everything. When they are a little dissatisfied with their care, they will lose their temper, disobey their parents and rudely contradict them, let alone be considerate and help them. Do you think this is a sign of respect and filial piety for your parents?
In human nature, the most pleasant thing is to give, not to receive. The reason for love is infinite and thorough dedication. When we taste the sweetness of love, there will be no more evil thoughts and philistinism. If it's not love, it's a transaction, which is the biggest blasphemy against love.
Dear friends, please learn to respect all virtues of filial piety "is the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation, and many earth-shattering filial piety has been remembered in people's hearts since ancient times."
In ancient times, Wang Xiang was lying on the ice to get carp; Yong Dong sold himself to bury his father; Meng zong cried bamboo shoots ...
There is also a touching story in modern times. A little girl came to an empty lane on a worn-out tricycle after picking up a drink bottle. A young man blocked her way and pointed a knife at her. The gangster forcibly broke her hand, but she clutched the money in her hand and cried desperately. The cry for help alarmed the residents in the alley. People heard the sound and joined forces to catch the gangster. They came to the police station with gangsters and little girls, and a policeman received them. At the trial, the gangster confessed to the robbery. And the little girl stood there shivering, cold sweat on her face. The policeman comforted her: "You don't have to be afraid." The little girl replied, "I am in pain." My finger was broken by him. " When she raised her right hand, people found that the index finger of her right hand was drooping softly. And the amount of money in hand is staggering. I only have 8.50 yuan in my hand, all of which are 1 20 yuan in change.
For $8.50, one of them broke his finger and the other became a criminal. It's really not worth it.
The police are at a loss: what force is supporting the little girl, so that she can't give up this small 8.50 yuan in the pain of broken fingers? He decided to find out the answer. So, after the little girl was sent to the hospital for treatment, he followed her, hoping to find the answer to the question. After leaving the hospital, she bought several kinds of fruits. Finally, she came to the cemetery, knelt down in front of a new cemetery and said, "Mom, I have paid off the money I owe you for treatment. I made another 8.50 yuan. Mom, I can buy you fruit. Everything is fine. Please try it! This is your little wish before you die. Although you don't say it, I know it. Thank you ... "
This reminds me of the story I read in the newspaper that "my dutiful son is terminally ill, and his seven-year-old and sixty-year-old mother donated liver to save his son", which made me realize the greatness of maternal love more deeply. My son was ill, and in order to let his mother spend her old age safely, she lied about being in love for seven years; After learning the truth, the mother decided to donate her liver to save her son. The mother has only one wish: "I just want my son to live well." As long as my son is well, I can remove any organ from me! "In the face of such a great and selfless maternal love, my heart was strongly shocked. I think the greatest love in the world is so much. Parents' love for their children is the most selfless love in the world, without any additional conditions, which is why my love for my parents is so small. She doesn't want to return, she only knows dedication; She is in high spirits for her children's progress, success, happiness and health; She is anxious about her children's setbacks, setbacks and diseases! As long as the child can get better, she will be willing to suffer again and again; As long as the child is good, she is willing to sacrifice her life. "But how much love there is in an inch of grass, I got three rays of spring." Parents' love for their children is something we can't repay all our lives.
Everyone's growth and life can not be separated from the careful watering of their parents; Behind everyone's success, there is a love from parents. Filial piety is our responsibility and obligation. Some people think that "as long as parents eat and wear warm clothes, live and work in peace and contentment, and walk around" is filial piety, but it is not entirely true. Old people need emotional warmth more. Filial piety is not a feast of delicacies, nor is it a colorful dress. It's just an ordinary phone call: report peace; It is a kind of mood exchange: talk about everything; This is hard work: I often go home to see it. No matter from the heart, under the sky of "filial piety", they are all equal. Let parents feel very warm.
Love your parents, don't say it's not too late, maybe what you missed today will become a lifelong regret tomorrow.
Let us, as the protagonists of 2 1 century, pass on the virtues of the Chinese nation for thousands of years from generation to generation. Maybe at the moment when we look up, you will find that the old man of time left a mark on his parents, which can never be erased. But you will also find that his parents smiled and laughed happily, not because they had delicacies ... but because their children were with them, which made them feel gratified. Let filial piety carry forward better!
Old, let you bathe in the glory of love forever, and get a warmth and happiness ... Historical records say: "People who love heaven begin; Parents are the foundation of people. If you are poor, you will be extremely tired, extremely tired. This is so painful that I don't have to call my parents. " Parents are the source of our life, the first teacher in life, and the people who love themselves the most in the world. Can I grow from a seedling to a towering tree without the support of my parents? Who is the most rewarding person in the world? In my opinion, it's parents. No matter how great your skill and position are, you can't forget your roots and kick down the ladder. As a poem says, "The kindness of parents is as deep as the sea. Don't forget their kindness in life. From ancient times to modern times, the birth cycle has been passed down from generation to generation. Being a child should be filial, and those who are unfilial commit a heinous crime. Only when the family is poor can a dutiful son be born. Birds and beasts still know how to breastfeed. It is also futile to hope that the child will become a dragon if you don't repay the kindness of parenting. "How can a person who doesn't even respect his parents expect him to love others?
When I was a child, I often listened to my grandfather tell these two stories. The first story said: There was a blind and deaf old man whose knees were shaking all the time. His son's daughter-in-law kicked him off the table and let him eat with a board. The old man's grandson saw it and wanted to make bowls out of wooden boards for his parents to use when they were old. When the parents knew it, they realized that they were wrong and took the old man to the dinner table to have dinner with them. The second story says: A man hates his father and lets him go out with a blanket. At this time, his dumb son actually said, "Dad, you don't need to give grandpa a blanket, just give him half a blanket." Please take good care of the remaining half, and I can give it to you when I grow up, so that you can' swing' outside. " The child's parents suddenly regretted it and hurried to keep the old father. These two stories show that children will treat you like your parents. It can be seen that filial piety to parents is not only out of one's own conscience, but also an example for children.
The ancients said, "Old people are old, young people are young, and young people are young". Respect one's own old people should also respect others' old people and treat parents-in-law just like parents. They are too old to take care of themselves, so we should support them. Everyone has an old day, so how do you feel when you are old and no one takes care of you? There is a kind of person who didn't honor the old man before he died. Once, the old man swallowed it in one breath, held a big funeral and cried his eyes out. This is also wrong. Be filial to the elderly before dying and let them live a healthy and happy life. After you die, the funeral will be easier, and no one will call you unfilial. That is, the ancients said: "Filial piety is filial piety before death, and filial piety after death is futile; Filial piety is a treasure, and filial piety is gentle and sweet; Lambs kneel down to be filial, and crows feed back their filial piety; If people are ungrateful, it is better to be pitiful than birds.
In fact, it is not difficult to respect parents. Most elderly people are not demanding and have no financial resources. You can send some living expenses every month. Old people living in the country can enjoy a few days in the city; If the two places are separated, you can often go home and call once a week to say hello; Go home, cook a meal for the old man, wash a pot, stew a cup of tea and propose a toast. At the same time, educate children to always greet the elderly. Often buy clothes and food for the elderly to meet the needs of life; What happens at home, let parents participate in democratic discussions; When eating, let the elderly eat first; Old people are sick, they need timely treatment, and they are willing to spend money for them; As wives, we should pay more attention to the diet and daily life of the elderly. As a husband, we should also care about the life and health of our parents-in-law. A grateful heart
Fallen leaves hover in the air, composing a movement of gratitude, which is the gratitude of the tree to the earth that nourishes it; Baiyun floats in the blue sky, drawing pictures of people, which is Baiyun's gratitude to the blue sky that raised it. Because of gratitude, there will be this colorful society, and because of gratitude, there will be sincere friendship. Because of gratitude, we understand the true meaning of life-inscription.
From the baby's "wow" fall to feeding him to grow up, how much effort and sweat the parents spent and how many days and nights they knitted; From elementary school to junior high school, even to university, how many teachers have worked hard for him, silently dedicated light and heat, burning themselves and illuminating others.
Gratitude is from the heart. As the saying goes, "the grace of dripping water is rewarded by the spring." What's more, parents, relatives and friends pay you not only a drop of water, but a piece of Wang Yang sea. Whether you give your parents a cup of warm tea after they are tired, or give them a card on their birthday, or give them some greetings and comfort when they are lost, they often pour their efforts and energy into us. How can we remember their birthdays, understand their fatigue, and whether we are aware of the wisps of silver and wrinkles? Gratitude requires you to feel and return with your heart.
Gratitude is respect. As a famous scientist, Madame Curie won the Nobel Prize twice, but she met her primary school teacher at the meeting and thanked her with a bunch of flowers. The great man Mao Zedong also expressed his deep gratitude to his teacher during the festival. Great men since ancient times have a grateful heart. Gratitude does not need to be earth-shattering, just a greeting, a call and a touch of emotion from you.
Gratitude is meaningful. Love makes the world go round. Parents' efforts are far higher than mountains and deeper than the sea, but as us, we only know how to ask for food and clothes. It seems that there is another isolation zone, which makes us selfish, forgetting the parents' efforts and the sound of happiness. Learning to appreciate others is a kind of conscience and filial piety, because only in this way can there be harmony, happiness and mutual respect.
With a grateful heart, look at the society, parents and relatives, and you will find how happy you are. Let go of your mind and let the drizzle wash away the pollution in your heart. Learn to be grateful, because it will make the world better and life more fulfilling.