Rule number one: live a high and wonderful life. There are long and short days. In life, it is inevitable to be criticized, and criticism is divided into good and bad. Everyone has his own characteristics, and these characteristics are vividly displayed in us.
If you are criticized, you must first distinguish each other's views and whether they are helpful to your own behavior, and then learn from each other's strengths. In fact, life is wonderful, and other people's opinions are always others'. Why pursue other people's opinions too much? This is the difference between a wise man and a fool. Also, you should accept good advice, or you will suffer.
My friend, who are we here for? For others, a little, but more for yourself. If you want to live, you must live your own personality. We should not live in the shadow of others, but should live a different self!
Everyone we meet has gone through our life, whether it's your closest, favorite or best confidant, you will be separated from them one day, so we don't need to care about everyone's evaluation of ourselves, and not everyone's evaluation is right.
"When you look at one side of the mountain, it becomes a mountain peak, and the distance is different." It is precisely because of this that you have become diverse. When you look at others from various angles, you will come to different conclusions. Because the wonderful life is high, there is a saying that "the mountain Bian Feng has different heights".
Life should be wonderful!
Chapter 2: The Splendid live high Since we live in a gorgeous world, we can't escape dazzling moments. Since we live in a chaotic world, we can't escape the noise. Since you can't escape, you must face life; Since we have to face life, we must live a wonderful life.
Truth is a wonderful thing in life.
We should walk calmly on the road of life, treat all things in the world sincerely and open the window of our hearts to the world. People are bound to make mistakes. If they make a mistake, they should be brave enough to take responsibility, not whitewash it. Everyone wants what they want, so we should bravely show ourselves in our youth instead of following other people's advice. Showing yourself is a big leap in life. Realizing oneself makes life more sunny.
Being strong is a beautiful thing in life.
I admire willow's indomitable spirit. Life is like a magnificent sea, with waves rolling from time to time, but when it is really calm, it is rare. The hardships of life bend me like a mountain, but I will never fall. I keep telling myself: I must persist, I must grit my teeth and stand up, and the road ahead is very long. You can cry in pain, but after crying, dry your tears, wave to the past and move forward bravely. Nothing can stop me from moving forward. Strong will makes life more firm.
Self-confidence is a beautiful thing in life.
Life is like a gamble. Every high bet should be full of confidence, and there should be no hesitation, otherwise it will not be a winner. Full of vigor and vitality, we walk through every day with confidence and sunshine smile, proving the beauty of every day. Walking on the road of confidence is like flying in an ice rink, unimpeded, light and fast. Always be confident and life will be smoother.
Plain is also a wonderful life.
Life is like a cup of boiled water. It looks bland, but it tastes good. I have a cold heart for things outside, but my heart is full of infinite passion. People have a normal heart, winning without arrogance, losing without rashness, which brings a kind of majesty and solemnity to people. With a normal heart, you will have a detached self, an empty field and a blue sky.
Live the truth and realize yourself; Strong life, standing alone in the sky; Live self-confidence and show a better tomorrow; Live a plain life and walk into the secular world. Isn't this the wonderful place of life? Live a wonderful life
Chapter 3: Wonderful high Living in this world, everyone has a different lifestyle, and different lifestyles will create different lives. If we can grasp it well, different lives will be equally wonderful!
Desert rhubarb and cactus are both plants living in the desert, but their "lifestyles" are completely different. In order to survive in the harsh desert environment, cactus curls its leaves into needles to reduce water evaporation. Rhubarb in the desert spreads its fat green leaves in all directions, and through many scrawny textures on the leaves, every drop of water falling on the leaves is diverted to the roots, and beautiful flowers are produced. Some people say cactus lives calmly, while others say rhubarb lives brilliantly. But what is certain is that they all found a way to survive in a harsh environment. They let their lives continue day by day through their own wisdom. Whether calm or brilliant, they all live their wonderful lives in their own way! Similarly, in the face of problems, we can also choose different ways to write our own wonderful music with wisdom.
This reminds me of Zhang Ailing, who made a sensation in Shanghai in the 1940s. Her voice was vague. She is the first woman to put on a haughty posture in Shanghai Daily, and she has her own definition of fashion. She is a fearless woman in the face of love. She doesn't care that Hu Lancheng is married and a traitor, so his love with Hu Lancheng is only three years, but it is a highlight in Zhang Ailing's life. She is also a woman permeated with literary temperament everywhere. As a talented woman in China's literary world, her Golden Lock and Love in the City have established her important position in modern literature.
Although Zhang Ailing was once spurned by everyone because of her relationship with Hu Lancheng, she always deals with a man as he deals with you, grabbing at everyone and pointing fingers. This is her attitude. Her unique personality and brilliant literary works have largely overshadowed the stigma of shameless traitors, so until today, her admirers have already crossed the age and national boundaries.
Everyone can choose their own way of life. Of course, they have to face different lives. If you can cope, you can be vigorous. If you don't have courage, you should learn to accept anonymity. Zhang Ailing succeeded. She successfully used her 70-year life to cast immortal classics in China literature.
Whether you are rich or poor now, whether you are on campus or in society, whether your life is smooth sailing or full of twists and turns, as long as you can make live high wonderful in your own way, that is a great success in your life. And such a life is also regrettable.