Chapter 1: The flower of value is attached to the branch of responsibility.
If I were a mountain, I would stand as a kind of dignity, let the mountain flowers bloom, let the mountain wind brush my face, let every corner show the language of dreams, and let our value show in the sun; If I were water, I would flow into a vast expanse, make the boat sail, make the fish happy and let my value drift with the tide. ?
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Everyone has everyone's responsibility, and everyone has everyone's value. If you choose wings, embrace the whole blue sky! If you choose fins, kiss the vast blue sea; If you choose a quadruped, experience the vast green forest. And I choose responsibility, not value, and I want to make my life meaningful.
Is Li Taibai accompanied by green mountains and green waters, beautiful clothes and picturesque scenery? "Let's put the White Deer Plain between the cliffs, and we must ride to the famous mountains." Between drinks, we will leave a piece of paper full of flowers. As a North Korean official, he is not familiar with the darkness. Even though he is frustrated, he is still sharpening his sword in Gao Made. As a poet, how can he endure darkness and conflict? Isn't it the poet's duty to ride a green ox backwards, to cherish the mountains and rivers, to keep the breeze as a companion and the bright moon as a friend? Even * Houlu can't stop Li Bai from pursuing his responsibility. This is the real poet.
Such a great disaster, especially corruption, greatly stimulated Sima Qian's spirit. He once thought about it, but remembered his father's last words. He encouraged himself with Confucius, Qu Yuan, Zuo Qiuming, Sun Zi and Han Fei in adversity, and finally endured the humiliation. After six years in prison, I finally finished the book "Studying the relationship between heaven and man, changing the past and present, getting married". Based on the five-body structure of biography, biography, biography and biography, it creatively wrote a masterpiece with characters as the main body. Why did Sima Qian complete this masterpiece that shocked the world in such a difficult environment? Isn't that because he knows his responsibility and how he should realize his value? It is this that makes him a hero in the hearts of future generations. ?
Akio Morita-Chairman of Sony Corporation. Even though he has huge assets, he does not forget to create more convenient products for people to enjoy. When he saw an old friend carrying a heavy radio in the morning run, the walkman inspired him. He thinks it will be convenient for everyone if a small radio is produced. So he shocked the world again. It is her sense of responsibility that fully demonstrates his value. ?
If it is a bird, it should fly to the blue sky; If it is a fish, it should swim to the sea; Just as cats should catch mice. In any case, we should remember our responsibility and let our value shine like seven colors of light! ?
Chapter 2: Paint a layer of bright color for personality.
What should I insist on? How should I choose? I face countless questions and wander alone in the moonlight ... "Honesty makes the stone open", which is the great function of honesty. I remember that there was a company recruiting talents, and everyone wanted to work in this company, because it was a company with scale, good efficiency and high salary. So, on the day of recruitment, four candidates came one after another. Three of them said they had more than two years' work experience. However, faced with the torture of recruiters, they soon showed ignorance of this line. Finally, a male classmate came. He told the recruiter frankly that he had no work experience in this field, but he was very interested in this job. The recruiter hired him without hesitation. Asked why he could be honest with each other, he said that when he was a child, he once picked up money, and his grandmother lied when she asked him. Grandma punched him hard in the face and then warned him: "Poverty is not terrible. As long as you are honest, you will be saved. " He said that he would always remember grandma's words. Honesty is superior to all intelligence, because it is the source of intelligence.
Honesty is a basic principle of doing things. Not only people in reality will get unexpected surprises because of truth, but they will also leave rich spiritual wealth to future generations. Please keep your faith! Because of honesty, we can gain the trust and trust of others; Because of honesty, we can get unexpected surprises; Because of honesty, we can get out of life's unhappiness; Because of honesty, we can become real wise men.
Lin Zexu said: "Look at honesty, when the stakes are high." There were many wise men in ancient times, who showed the noble sentiment of "bribery does not move their hearts and interests do not move their ambitions." Self-esteem is to maintain the dignity of personality, introspection is to maintain the purity of personality, self-policing is to prevent the decline of personality, and self-motivation is to pursue the sublimation of personality. ?
When people lament that the world is getting worse and morality is declining, people pay attention to the other side of human beauty in society. What should I do when I encounter the matter of buying lottery tickets? Will we do as the host does? Online surveys show that most people's attitudes are ambiguous or opposite. "See the world in a grain of sand" shows that the master's behavior is commendable. In his heart, there is a beautiful and honest invisible world, which embodies the purity and greatness of human nature. ?
Let us, like this master, raise the ideal sail and look forward to honesty, so that honesty can light up all my hearts like a small match; Like a small green leaf, it poured for a season; Like a small spray, it splashed the whole ocean, like a long wooden stick, it pried up the whole earth ...?
Let's look forward to life with hope, like this master, let honesty become the norm of our life, let our practice of honesty sprout a touch on the soul, let our life get a carefree atmosphere because of honesty, and paint a bright color on our personality.
Chapter 3: Teaching students in accordance with their aptitude and self-development.
Teaching students in accordance with their aptitude is a generally accepted concept. Success requires sweat and hard work, but it also requires objective analysis and understanding of learning subjects, making full use of each other's strengths and giving play to their own advantages, so as to better develop themselves and realize the value of life.
Rabbit is a sprint champion and can't swim, which is determined by innate conditions. But the duck coach forced rabbits and squirrels to learn to swim. It took a lot of effort, but the effect was not great! I am still screaming for unknown reasons, "90% success comes from sweat." Come on! Come on! " What a sad example this is. Imagine if rabbits forgot their running skills instead of learning to swim. ?
An article once wrote: "Not any bamboo can be made into a flute. Bamboo that is too tender is too soft to play melodious flute. But they are not useless, they can also play their flexible characteristics and use them as materials for weaving bamboo mats! " If you have to use tender bamboo to make a flute, it must be thankless. Don't say that it evokes residents' thoughts (feelings of hometown) like "no one can miss the willow in this serenade". I'm afraid it's too difficult and ugly to entertain yourself! Give full play to your own advantages, make up for your own shortcomings, teach students in accordance with their aptitude, and treat people and things dialectically and objectively, instead of educating people with a template. Only in this way can we highlight our personality and make ourselves Einstein and Picasso in our own field, not mediocre people! ?
Only by "teaching students in accordance with their aptitude" can we better realize our own value by developing personality. Only by objectively analyzing your own potential can you achieve a leap! Recently, one of the focuses of people's attention is that the arts and sciences are divided into disciplines. I think: As students, of course, we should develop morally, intellectually and physically in an all-round way, which is our beautiful wish. But in fact, each of us has different innate conditions, personal hobbies, goals and ambitions, so it is difficult to implement a template-based education method. Let love literature, indulge in
It is hard to imagine that those literary teenagers who write poems and songs are immersed in the difficult formulas of mathematics and physics all day, so that tomorrow's scientists who are good at rigorous reasoning will hum long prose poems with divergent thinking breath all day! Just as Chen Jingrun wants to write lyric poems and Li Bai wants to study mathematical formulas, he can only hope with all his heart and will eventually be shattered! ?
Give play to your advantages and show your personality. Teaching students in accordance with their aptitude can give full play to everyone's potential, foster strengths and avoid weaknesses, and make us all "Einstein" in our own world.
Chapter 4: Flying under the influence of love.
Begging for a kite?
In the blue sky, birds are singing freely; Under the breeze,
Flowers exude a faint scent; Looking at the vast blue sky, I want to spread my wings and fly ?
I saved all my strength and aimed at the direction I yearned for. I flapped my wings to fly. ?
What happened? What the hell is going on here? Why can't I fly? I looked back uneasily,
Only then did I find that a thread gripped me tightly, and a slight struggle was accompanied by bursts of pain. No, I want to fly. How can I? Let go of me, I want to fly! ?
? "There are endless dangers on the endless horizon. Strong wind will make you lose your balance, and heavy rain will make you lose your direction.
Lightning will break your delicate wings, and you won't get hurt under my influence. He said softly. ?
Without you, I will lose my way; Without you, I would hesitate; How can I be strong without you! However, please don't pull me too tight, just let me fly freely under your influence! ?
? Butterfly wings?
Gently spit out silk, and then tightly bound myself, the bright sky suddenly became dark, and I have turned into a pupa.
The dark days may be long, the feeling of * may be painful, but the lonely waiting will be infinitely brilliant. I want to be a beautiful butterfly, and I'm looking forward to it. ?
Suddenly, a pair of scissors touched my world, and my tight body began to loosen slowly.
There is a glimmer of light in the darkness! No, please don't touch me. I want to be a beautiful butterfly. ?
"Don't scream, I can't stand your pain.
Too tight will hurt your young wings. Let me help you get rid of these unnecessary troubles and take you to the bright world! "? ?
Thank you! Thank you! But this is the pain I have to experience, so let me bear it alone! How can I see a rainbow without experiencing wind and rain? Please put down your scissors! At this time, I don't need your help, I have to rely on myself! ?
Children's tears
A bright moon slowly walked through the clouds, and a touch of bright and gentle sprinkled on the earth. It is late at night,
The light in a small room was on, and a child was sitting by the window alone, with glittering and translucent tears in his eyes. ?
"How much I long for the endless green field, and my dream is wrapped in rolling football.
I want to play football, I want to ride a horse in a wonderful stadium, and I want to be the king of the ball! "His eyes were shining. ?
"However, my parents won't let me go out to play football. They are afraid that I will fall and get hurt. The teacher forbade us to play football. He said it would affect our study. Sadly, they all say that the government does not open the stadium to children.
"The light in his eyes suddenly disappeared and his eyes became dim again.
"Please let me play football! Thank you for your concern and care. Without you, I will not grow up healthily, but I also need to decide my own life! Love me, please don't hold me too tightly. " ?
? A gust of wind blew, conveying the children's voices: thank you for your love, please relax your hands gently,
Let us fly freely under the influence of love!
Chapter 5: Let Yun Fan help the ocean.
When the ship rises in Yun Fan, it is inevitable that there will be storms when sailing across the sea; When young trees thrive, they will inevitably suffer from rain, snow, wind and frost; The stream runs forward, and there are not only springs, but also rapids and eddies along the way. ?
The same is true of the growth of teenagers.
The process of growing up is like climbing a mountain. It is inevitable to fall, be scratched by thorns, and be beaten and honed again and again. These are normal phenomena, so families, schools and society don't have to pay too much attention to them, just look at them with a normal heart. ? ?
Just like a boat sailing, it will become strong in the tempering of wind and rain. Too much care and protection will add unnecessary load to its narrow cabin and become a pressure and obstacle to progress. The days of seeking refuge under the wings of parents are long gone. We are eager to open our chest, embrace the thunderstorm and enjoy the natural sunshine. When children begin to take their own steps on the road of life, families should give them understanding and support. Please remove the shackles of your eyes and let the children fight the wind and waves in their own boat of life! At present, when children are frustrated, our family should keep a normal heart, don't rush to do it for them, don't care too much, and don't make a mountain out of a molehill. Just smile and watch the children get up, and Ye will naturally sail forward with trusting eyes. ?
I hope that the perfect school for children will not be too demanding. "People are not sages, to err is human?" Small mistakes are inevitable, in fact, it has set up a golden bridge to maturity. Don't focus on the child's small mistakes, and don't cast an accusing eye when the child wrestles. Treat children's small mistakes with trust and tolerance, let them become helmsmen with mature smiles, and bring back satisfactory answers from the other side of victory. ?
Finally, our society should also re-examine its attitude towards teenagers. From the early opposition to doting to the promotion of frustration education, the overall educational concept of society has undergone gratifying changes. Society should not pay too much attention to children's occasional falls, let alone hype. The ship that boarded the ship for the first time was still trembling slightly, fearing that it knew little about this society. Too many spotlights suddenly focus together, which will only make the ship in chaos and panic. If Yun Fan leans in the voyage, society can smile and put down too many worries, and a self-reliant generation will rise. ? ?
There is a song called "Please Let Me Fall", which expresses the distress of thousands of children in Qian Qian. It is inevitable to fall down on the road of life. What is terrible is that the eyes of family, school and society immediately flock to weave an airtight net, making children struggle in confusion and unable to stand up by themselves, so they have to become prisoners of their eyes in helplessness. ? ?
But look, the boat bound by eyes is desperately trying to attract Yun Fan in the distance. Please let your family relax the eyes of excessive care, please let the school put down the eyes of excessive accusation, please let the society shift the eyes of excessive care to understanding and tolerance, and let that Yun Fan help the sea! ?
Chapter 6: How to see the rainbow without experiencing wind and rain?
The eagle soaring in the vast sky must have experienced the pain of countless times when the mother eagle fell off the cliff before tempering a pair of volley wings.
A bright pearl must have endured the peristalsis of countless mussels and the polishing of countless waves before it can shine.
Similarly, a truly successful person must stand up again after countless falls, because "how can you see a rainbow without experiencing wind and rain?" No one can succeed casually. "
Shi Tiesheng fell and lost his legs, which was a heavy blow to anyone. But instead of losing confidence in life, he expressed his infinite love for life with his brain and hands.
Beethoven was blind and deaf, but he still wrote many musical works, such as Hero and Destiny. In the misfortune of life, he stubbornly grasped the "throat of fate." ?
These are all fallen people, but they all stood up strongly, fought against fate and misfortune, and finally achieved great success. So for each of us, wrestling is not terrible. The terrible thing is that you have lost your confidence and courage in life.
Bing Xin said: "The successful flower, people are only surprised by its present brilliance! However, at the beginning, its buds were soaked with tears of struggle and shed blood rain of sacrifice. " ?
Therefore, each of us can't collapse in the face of misfortune, because after we change our mentality, it is possible to hold any chain of life. Just like the boy in the painting after falling, we should all boldly say, "It's no big deal."
Because life is our own, our destiny is in our own hands, and our mentality and our choices determine the direction of life. Frustration is the wealth of life and the medicine to promote your success. How can flowers that don't experience wind and rain be gorgeous? How can a life without suffering shine? ?
As Hong Zhanhui, a figure who moved China in 2005, said: Difficulties, we have the responsibility to face and solve. As a new generation of young people, we should understand that wrestling is not terrible, just as we have always had the courage to sing this song: how can we see a rainbow without experiencing wind and rain? No one can succeed casually! I want to say, how can people grow up without going through wrestling and falling again and again? Wrestling is also a kind of happiness, and wind and rain are the precursors of rainbows after rain!
Chapter 7: Navigation for yourself
The reason why the goshawk can soar in the sky is because it doesn't need trees to shelter from the wind and rain; The reason why ships can reach the Cape of Good Hope,
Because I don't want to stay in a quiet harbor; Populus euphratica can stand upright in the Gobi because it is not afraid of drought and exposure in the wasteland;
And young people have to be brave and strong, only to leave the greenhouse! ?
So, please let go of our hands, in the vast sea, please let us navigate for ourselves! ?
We are humble, we are small, we hold the sculls of life, full of curiosity and longing. But suddenly we saw the navigation light, which was the teacher's "self-display"
They hold our hands and control our oars.
Rows and rows. We are so tired that we really want to have a rest. At this time, an old man named "Society" said that once we stopped,
Kick us out of the war. We were afraid and obeyed. We dare not say that we are tired, nor dare we complain, but try our best to row away to the goal that has already been established. Finally, we found that we lost our happiness and interest.
We want to escape the arrows and rain along the way, escape the feasting and enjoy the scenery beside the route.
So we quietly deviated from the passage, and when we left, we all figured out how to get back to the passage. We want to make ourselves happy too much. When the first wave hit our faces,
Before we could tell the direction clearly, we were suddenly caught by three pairs of big hands, namely "society", "school" and "family"
They said in unison, "Look, is something wrong?" So we were led back to the original route, farther and farther ...?
But we are really confused. How did Columbus discover the New World? Are our brains just made for memory? If everything is stipulated, where is our spirit? ?
We are flowers in the greenhouse, unable to withstand the wind and rain, but eager to be strong. Walking is the scenery, stopping is the picture, and this is the life we want. However, in reality, we have become accessories of love and care.
The victim. We fell. It's no big deal. We are willing to stand up by ourselves without relying on any external force. Because we understand that there can be no stumbling on the road of life, and there can always be a paving machine before an independent life.
We need to practice wrestling and the ability to get up after falling as little as possible. ?
We know that we are happy, and we understand the good intentions of society, schools and families.
But your excessive concern really puzzles us. Family is the long arrow, and school is the indicator light.
Society is an old man who sets the course. However, we really want to navigate for ourselves. Please turn your concern into encouraging eyes and watch us explore the road ahead.
Okay？ The vast sea, I want to navigate for myself!
Chapter 8: What branches can you rely on to go around the tree three times?
"The moon star is rare, the black magpie flies south and circles the tree three times. What can I rely on? " This is a line from Cao Mengde's poem "Short Song". ?
Why don't we ask ourselves:
"What can I rely on?" Ask yourself what is right for you, find your own position, and find your own belonging. ?
The eagle is fierce and strong, flying very fast, and swoops down from Jiu Feng to catch its prey. This is its viability.
The branch to which it is connected. It is also predictable that the cowardly crows blindly imitate the eagle, get twice the result with half the effort and finally fall into the hands of shepherds. It is true that its spirit is commendable, but it forgets to consider its own advantages and disadvantages. ?
That's the way it is, and so are people. ?
Only by finding one's own position and finding the branches suitable for one's attachment can life reach the extreme. ?
Confucius, the forerunner of a generation, after traveling around the world, initially aimed at establishing a perfect society governing the country with "benevolence". He finally failed, but he was a very good teacher. Confucius spread all over the world, and he eventually became a great thinker in China.
Educator. It can be seen that only by finding your own branch can you realize the meaning of life. ?
Chaplin, a generation of comedy master, always became the laughing stock of others because of his poor looks when he was young. however
In his comedy career, this has just become an advantage, and his silent comedy * has reached the realm that silence is better than sound.
I have to say that his "poor" appearance contributed to his "good" performance.
Bill, the richest man in the world? Gates was originally a student at a foreign university.
But when he felt that what he was taught in college was not suitable for him, he resolutely left school and engaged in his favorite computer design work.
In the end, it has accumulated great wealth that no one in the world can match. ?
Society is developing, but the truth has not changed. Find your place.
Only by finding the right branch can life shine. ?
The crow's spirit of daring to struggle and being willing to learn is commendable, but it can't recognize its own strength.
If you can't do what you can, you are doomed to fail. ?
"Three turns around the tree, what branches can you rely on?" Go around the tree three times, not the branches! ?
People not only need the spirit of courage to struggle, but also should recognize themselves. You can only succeed if you have both. ?
With self-knowledge and hard work, the light is just around the corner. After hard work, you will find that "three turns around the tree, this branch is reliable"!
Chapter 9: Please let's wrestle!
Wrestling, as its name implies, refers to people falling down while walking. In fact, wrestling may also be a kind of "frustration"
The embodiment of synonyms such as "dilemma". From individuals to countries,
We are actually going through one test after another. As the saying goes, "once you fall, you will gain wisdom." In order to shoulder the mission of the times, please let us "wrestle". ?
There are often countless predecessors who won by failure and reached the peak of victory by adversity.
Gou Jian, the King of Yue, is a successful example. During the Spring and Autumn Period, countries were constantly conquering and warning. Under the leadership of Gou Jian,
Confronted with the flourishing State of Wu, he was defeated and surrendered to the State of Wu, and Gou Jian himself became a slave of the State of Wu.
This fall was heavy for the King of Yue.
It hurts. The ambitious King Yue has been working hard, making continuous progress and accumulating strength for decades. In 20 years of life and death lessons, Gou Jian has no warm care and comfortable environment, but his ambition is increasing day by day.
The grand plan continued to expand, and Jin Ge of Yue finally rushed into the capital of Wu. There is no disaster of national subjugation,
No one can predict what will happen to Gou Jian, and history will eventually add a few mediocre names. ?
Not only people, but also countries. The anti-rightist movement, the Great Leap Forward, three years of natural disasters, and a series of difficulties and obstacles, the people of China have experienced many difficulties and obstacles, but these have not crushed the backbone of the people of China.
We grow in struggle and mature in difficulties. Until today, the people of China have been able to stand up strongly. ?
Since ancient times, our predecessors have never flinched in the face of difficulties, and they are comfortable with it.
Although the warm environment can hold up a huge umbrella for us, the long journey of life can not be solved by love alone.
We need to hurry.
Exercise yourself carefully. The future of China depends on our teenagers, and wrestling is just an episode in life.
But whenever our children have a little accident, our parents, school and society will be highly nervous and anxious. Kunpeng spread her wings in Wan Li, from the usual stormy days. In order to make our children stronger, please put away your caring hand and let us
"wrestling"!
Article 10: Zhao Junxing
? Sitting in the car, watching the poplar trees slowly retreating outside the window, I wonder what the grassland in the distance is like at this time? Behind me is the ancient road in the sunset. Miyagi at the other end of the ancient road is getting farther and farther away from me. Can I come back? ?
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? The sound of hooves makes my heart wander. Looking back, I first found that the palace in the sunset was so beautiful, but now, I don't belong to that palace, and all the happiness and happiness there no longer belong to me. The temple and jade bucket there are so magnificent, the flowers and trees there are so charming, and the songs there are so sweet ... My sisters and I used to sit in a boat and enjoy the moon, play the piano and sing on the mirror-like lake. How happy I was then!
? But now only the pipa in my arms has accompanied me to the wild Mobei, and I will never see my joyful singing and dancing in Chang 'an again! ?
? Tears, overflow from my eyes. ?
? Staring out of the window, wormwood along the ancient road keeps bending in the wind, and they are also sorry for me.
Two birds flew from the horizon, fell and flew by my car, twittering as if to say something. Are they saying something to me? ?
? The sound of hooves makes my heart wander. That bird must be comforting me, looking at the palace in the dusk,
I found it a little rotten and dirty. I clearly remember that in the palace,
I spend every night alone on the cold jade pillow, and every day I spend it in suspicion and jealousy. After enjoying the luxury, I faced the greed and exploitation of Mao Yanshou people.
Sisters shed tears. I had hoped that the emperor would favor me, but how could I bow to Mao Yanshou! ?
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Perhaps in the vast grassland, I can no longer be accompanied by blue lanterns, can no longer associate with loneliness, can no longer face hypocrisy, and can no longer endure sadness alone. There, the vast world can let me gallop, and the simple folk customs can give me comfort. I have a generous Khan husband and lovely children. Isn't family happiness real happiness? In the distance, there seems to be a shepherd's rough pastoral. ?
? I smiled, which was a heartfelt joy. ?
? The sunset glow on the horizon is gorgeous, and Chang 'an has long since disappeared. The wind, blowing on my cheeks, is blowing from the north, bringing me the call of the grassland. I smiled, it was a happy smile, a happy smile, because I understood that sadness can also become happiness. Suffering can also turn into happiness-it all depends on what you think!