The most authoritative dictionary defines the word "face" as a derogatory term. Then, according to common sense, the tone of my next text should almost be based on the rebuttal of this face-saving behavior. But before that, I want to know the following questions. Is face equal to reputation, or can they be equated under certain conditions or levels? Yes, according to the dictionary, face is nothing more than a superficial thing. If reputation is mentioned, it can also be understood as a superficial thing in the usual sense. But there seems to be something wrong here Even though they are superficial substances, their direct participants are often different. Face, as we generally understand it, is to support and create face for ourselves. And reputation seems to be the image of what you do in others, in society and in public opinion. However, if you think about it a little, in history, most people around us are others, and public opinion holds the opposite attitude towards their own reputation. Therefore, although we say that face and reputation belong to the surface, the essence is quite different. As a result, I came to the conclusion that face is not fame. People with reputation problems may not have face problems, and most people with face problems will not have a good reputation, so the conclusion will be clear by comparing the pros and cons. In this way, our correct value orientation will tell us that saving face is not a proper way. Do not rule out the voice and face of a respectable spokesperson. What kind of group, what kind of person, with a face shouting vulgar? If we simply discuss this issue, it may be a complicated sociological issue. I don't seem to have that ability, so I won't hold this face. This is a superficial analysis. Since the problem of "saving face" has been promoted to a social behavior, it should have a broader crowd base. In other words, it is undeniable that everyone in our society will save face under certain circumstances. Here, I define face as derogatory. However, there is naturally a degree difference between them, so some people with heavy degrees can be classified as representative groups of "face-saving people". There must be a typical image in it. Take it out and analyze it, and see "the lining of the face-teller". They are usually disadvantaged groups (in a broad sense) or self-disadvantaged groups, that is to say, they are not disadvantaged objectively, but are just positioned as disadvantaged. They are often exposed to the ways and means they define and are squeezed by non-vulnerable people. Trying to change but lacking the spirit of hard work and pragmatism. The popular expression is "punching a swollen face and filling a fat man". For this kind of people, we have naturally come into contact with them in our lives, so we will not refine them. So what is "saving face" and what are its specific aspects? Speaking of a superficial moral behavior defined as "saving face", it should also be the criterion of traditional moral values, that is to say, paying attention to superficial phenomena is not all vanity, it should be based on respect for morality, culture and etiquette, but it should also meet the requirements of proceeding from reality. Then, as "saving face", it is also an excessive exaggeration and tampering with objective facts. A most superficial or "face-saving" multi-faceted balance and even superiority. Of course, this is only a reflection of illusion and distortion. If we go deep into the inner world of "face-saving people", we will often find great contradictions and serious duality in their hearts, which will bring them long-term anxiety and anxiety after seeking short-term comfort. If we find out the root cause of this phenomenon, it should be objective and subjective. Objectivity is a difference. Subjectivity is based on objective distorted thoughts. Then there will be so-called self-weakness Therefore, "saving face" is completely defined as a bad mentality and phenomenon in my writing. As for the harm, it seems too extensive. I only remember the proverb: "Die to save face, live to suffer!" "

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