A good family style is a school.

Family style is the main theme of a family. Sociologists call it "family culture" and psychologists call it "mental outlook". Its content refers to the sum of living habits, ways of thinking, words and deeds of all members of a family, and it is also the concrete embodiment of family members' personality, cultural accomplishment, moral sentiment and interpersonal relationship.

A good family style is a school. Because although family style is intangible and potential, it has a great influence on children. It is not only a subtle education for children's growth, but also a "regulator" for children's behavior norms and a natural "melting pot" for cultivating children's moral sentiments. Good family style and bad family style will affect future generations. If the family style is good, people will be upright, parents will be kind, children will be filial, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will be harmonious and children will be virtuous; If the family style is not good, the parents will be evil, the children will rot and the children will be born. Edward and Zuk in the United States have been two families for eight generations. Edward is a learned philosopher, studious and rigorous, which sets a good example for his children. Among his descendants, there are 13 university presidents, 100 professors, more than 80 writers, more than 60 doctors, one vice president, one ambassador and more than 20 members of parliament. Zuk is a famous drunkard and gambler, who is cynical, muddleheaded and idle all his life. Among his descendants, more than 300 were beggars and vagrants, more than 400 were disabled or died prematurely because of alcoholism, more than 60 were guilty of fraud and theft, and 7 were murderers. In short, they have no future. The family styles of the two families have a subtle influence on the generations to come, from son to grandson, from generation to generation, and children and grandchildren interact with each other, constantly developing towards the two poles on the social stage. Therefore, the quality of family style directly determines the success of children, and it is not just a generation.

Family style affects children's hearts and shapes their personality through daily life. It is a silent education, a silent classic, a silent power, and the most basic, direct and frequent education. Therefore, the primary task of parents is to form a good family style that is conducive to the growth of children.

First of all, teach. The ancients said: it is the father's fault to raise but not teach. Mr. Lu Xun once said: "Parents should raise their children soundly, try their best to educate them and completely liberate them." Turning over the history, I don't know how many well-known and vivid family rules and family precepts of celebrities in China have inspired people and nourished future generations, such as "three hairs on an acre, three spits and feeds on a meal" by Duke Zhou; Confucius' "If you don't learn etiquette, you can't stand"; Zhuge Liang's "indifferent ambition, quiet and far-reaching"; Zhu Bolu's "a porridge and a meal, it is not easy to think; Half a silk and half a wisp, always thinking about material difficulties "; And Premier Zhou's 10 family rules.

Followed by examples. Is to lead by example, lead by example. It is the most important responsibility of parents to cultivate their children into useful talents who are healthy and beneficial to society. The ancients said: parents are also teachers; Teaching by example is more important than teaching by example. Parents' words and deeds and living habits have a subtle influence on the formation of children's world outlook, outlook on life and values, and even affect their moral behavior throughout their lives. Fu Lei, a famous translator, not only uses language but also uses examples to educate children. In his letter to Fu Min 1962, he said: "Your mother and I always set an example for you diligently and seriously ... I have never had lower requirements for young people and myself than the party's requirements for party member, except for physical and material pain." : You know. I hope all of us can improve ourselves, not only in knowledge, but also in cultivation and morality! "

The third is to build a harmonious family style. The important foundation of good family style is unity, equality and harmonious family relations. If the family relationship is not normal, blame each other, complain and fight, children will feel cold, cold and hostile, leaving a painful scar in their hearts. Therefore, family members should respect and understand each other, live in harmony, care for each other and love each other. Parents should be rational, be good at adjusting and controlling their emotions, and don't quarrel in front of their children; We should carry forward democracy, actively listen to children's opinions and negotiate on an equal footing; Cheerful and optimistic, play with children and make the family full of fun. In short, it is necessary to create a harmonious family environment for children and let them grow up healthily in harmonious, warm and friendly interpersonal relationships.

Family style is like spring rain, moistening things silently. To form a good family style, parents have to start from themselves, constantly improve their parents' quality, and strive to turn their families into successful schools.

Test analysis: This is a multi-material composition. When writing, pay attention to the similarities and differences of the materials, and then come up with an idea around the similarities and differences. This set of materials * * * points to the family style, and we should make an idea around the family style. When writing, you can first interpret "family style" and what is family style, then write why you want to establish family style, and finally write how to inherit family style.