Friends who have been to college know that universities are highly liberalized and autonomous, and individuals have a lot of leisure time, which means that everyone has different opportunity costs for time.
Some people choose to continue the model of high school learning hegemony, study hard all the way, follow the teacher to do projects, write papers, brush their grades, and be soft with scholarships; Some people stay away from their parents' supervision, such as runaway wild horses, galloping freely and wandering in games and film and television dramas all day; But almost everyone is full of illusions about love and longing for the other half after entering the university. Yes, when you go to a university where you can fall in love freely, your parents will no longer think you are a puppy, but will encourage you to talk about someone early. Freshmen have been unable to suppress this emotion.
So are you really suitable for a freshman to fall in love?
Next, I will give some advice to freshmen! (Little brother and sister, please make a detour)
A few weeks after the start of freshman year, your teacher will do some popular science about your major, such as future prospects, research directions, and plans for further studies. And have a preliminary understanding of their professional courses. So, do you really like your present major? If you feel inappropriate and don't like it, take the time to prepare for the professional exam. Find a major that you are really interested in, or a hot major, go to official website to check the policy of changing majors and consult the seniors who change majors.
At this time, I can't bear to fall in love, because most schools arrange the exam for changing majors in freshman year. Students who really want to change majors should focus on preparing for exams, written exams and interviews. Moreover, there are a large number of popular applicants, and few people intend to transfer, which is very competitive. Be prepared in advance, and your chances of winning can be high!
Once Xueba starts the Xueba mode, what we ordinary people can only leave is an elusive figure.
Principals have made an overall plan for the four-year university from the freshman year. Take scholarships, do research projects, publish papers with teachers, participate in various competitions, take various certificates, brush grades, and brush a glittering resume.
For them, love is just an addition to the slow journey. In the competition, because of its excellent performance, it was favored by a senior and a senior. So, love is just a bonus. Thanks to the aura of Xueba, the crowd still shines with golden light, and the pursuers behind it are naturally never lacking.
As a freshman, there are many new things beckoning to you. All kinds of societies, clubs and student union organizations, as soon as you enter the university gate, many seniors and sisters will pull you into the society. I hope you won't be frightened by this battle. After so many wonderful things, haven't I seen the scenery myself? Haven't you tasted all the delicious food in school? Falling in love is not necessarily more comfortable than these. In short, don't be confined to the square inch. Freshman is relatively relaxed, but sophomore and junior are not so relaxed. In the senior year, you have to take the postgraduate entrance examination, take exams and find a job.
Be sure to go out for a walk, experience the colorful world outside, travel, see the scenery, landscape and characteristic culture outside, and feel the influence of nature. It's okay to form a team, and it's okay to travel alone. Increase your knowledge and experience, only personal experience will know the taste of this world.
If you are satisfied with your major, your school likes it, you meet someone you like, and you have a good outlook on life, then you can further develop your feelings, have an extramarital affair, and don't let your college life leave any regrets.
In the lush years, there is such a person in your life, which brings you touch and warmth. Going through the storm together will also promote each other's growth. From school uniforms to wedding dresses, from campus to warm homes, who doesn't envy this feeling?
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