Every day, we are faced with endless contradictions and changes, whether it is a boat to catch, a sword to catch to deal with changes, or a flexible way. This is the attitude we should adopt in doing things.
Learning to be flexible is the key to doing things. How can we improve our flexibility?
1. Learn to be flexible, assess the situation and break the routine.
2. Learn to be flexible and use external force to our advantage.
No matter how capable a person is, after all, his personal strength is limited, but he can make himself strong by external force, which is also a flexibility. There is a joke that a big man shouted in the street, "Who dares to mess with me?" Seeing this big man with big arms and round waist, people quickly stepped aside. Then a bigger man came. He went over and shouted, "I dare to provoke you!" " The primitive man pondered for a while and then replied, "Well, who dares to mess with us!" "The crowd of onlookers wanted to give the two big men a fight, but they were United. Although we didn't see a good play, we realized that with the help of others, we can become stronger. This is the flexibility of lending.
3. Learn to be flexible and be brave in dealing with changes. What is courage? Courage is a whistle, a cry, a command. Its function is to mobilize the ability of the whole department to cope with changes and challenges. An American once made a survey of hundreds of millionaires and found that not all of them graduated from famous universities. Many people have average intelligence, but their innovation courage greatly exceeds the former. Courage is an extraordinary strength of human beings. Although it can't deal with a specific problem and overcome a certain difficulty, this spirit and mentality can awaken the potential in your heart and help you cope with all changes and difficulties.
4. Learn to be flexible and have the confidence to develop your own potential. Self-confidence is a psychological potential. When a person is full of confidence in himself, it is often when he succeeds. A psychologist pointed out: "There is a tendency in human nature: if you imagine what kind of person you are, what kind of person you will really become." In other words, if you are a confident person, you have the confidence to overcome difficulties, deal with problems and succeed, then all your abilities will work hard for your confidence, and you may become the person you want to be.
5. learn to be flexible. Be good at changing your mentality. There are often two kinds of stereotypes: one is linear, does not beat around the bush, does not reverse thinking, divergent thinking; Second, copying thinking, often based on past experience, is not easy to accept new things. Su Dongpo in the article is a typical example of this city: there is an epidemic raging in the local area, and local doctors can't treat it. Later, an outsider prescribed an amazing prescription. Dongpo took effect quickly after using it, so Dongpo habitually thought that this medicine was effective for all diseases, but it killed others! There is a western proverb, "When God closes a door for you, he will open a window for you elsewhere." As long as we don't refuse to change and are good at changing our thinking habits and concepts, we can get out of the predicament and enter a new world. Practice has proved that whether you realize it or not, whether you like it or not, everyone is always looking for flexibility. The difference is that flexible people are getting better and better, and inflexible people are getting worse. As long as you master flexibility, you can cope with all kinds of changes, find opportunities in changes, and succeed in changes.