Today, I also want to express my views on this topic.

First of all, it is normal for boys and girls to associate. When you are alive, you will always keep in touch with people, which forms interpersonal relationships. And we can't only associate with the same sex in this life, and it is inevitable to associate with the opposite sex! Take our students as an example. We come to school to study. There are boys and girls. Can you not have any contact with them just because you are of the opposite sex? Impossible, everyone will have some contact with the opposite sex more or less.

Secondly, there is friendship between boys and girls. Friendship exists not only between the same sex, but also between the opposite sex. Friendship has no boundaries. As long as boys and girls have the same interests and can understand each other, they can become friends, help each other, promote learning and grow up healthily.

But in most cases, the communication between boys and girls will be under pressure from all sides. For example, between teachers and parents, and even classmates, there will be some gossip. They unilaterally believe that there is only one most reasonable explanation for the communication between boys and girls, and that is to fall in love! I know a girl and made a friend of the opposite sex. They get along so well that they can talk about everything. But gradually, some people say that they are in love, and even teachers and parents know it. Under pressure, the two gradually deliberately alienated each other, ignored each other and soon became strangers. I have always sympathized with them. A pure friendship was "destroyed" by other people's gossip. For them, they all lost their best friends, leaving only a sad and beautiful memory of their innocence. Can this blame them for their "weak resistance"? As the saying goes, people are awesome! If I were you, I might do the same. We can't resist the invisible "knives" and "swords" that can kill people from all directions. After all, we are not invulnerable! But as the saying goes, "A straight foot is not afraid of a crooked shadow." As long as the friendship between two people is pure, those rumors will be broken one day. Dante has a saying: Go your own way and let others talk! As long as we think it is right, we must do it bravely.

Third, boys and girls can learn from each other in communication. Friends around me told me that boys are easier to associate with than girls, and I agree with this view. Boys don't like to haggle over every ounce, and they get along more easily, unlike girls who are angry and narrow-minded. Boys can also learn some advantages of girls, such as being careful and generous, so that they can develop better. Why not?

Finally, boys and girls should have a degree of communication. It is no exaggeration that boys and girls can become study partners and intimate friends in life. But inevitably, we are in adolescence and have feelings for the opposite sex. If this happens, boys and girls should keep a certain distance, rationally adjust their mentality and focus on their studies. Because we talked about feelings too early. Also, after this happens, teachers and parents should not just criticize rudely, but be patient and persuasive, tell the truth more and criticize less, and let them return to their studies as soon as possible. If we take drastic measures, it may be counterproductive and bring them psychological harm.