Practice: No matter how busy you are, you should take time to spend with your parents and do something you can. Be more patient with elderly parents.
Avoid "foolish filial piety": you should have your own views and opinions on things, you can't think that everything your parents say is right, and you can't blindly obey all your parents' arrangements; Filial piety can be manifested not only in form, but also in parents' inner thoughts.
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Examples of Ignoring Filial Piety in Twenty-four Filial Pieties
During the Spring and Autumn Period, there was a hermit named Lao Laizi in the State of Chu. This old Laizi is very filial to his parents, considerate to them, and tries his best to please them.
In order to make his parents happy, Lao Laizi specially raised some beautiful birds for his parents to play with. He often teases the birds himself to make them make beautiful calls. Father was very happy to hear that. He always smiles and says, "What a beautiful bird sound!" Lao Lai was very happy to see a smile on his parents' faces.
Lao Laizi is actually not young, he is over 70. Once, parents looked at their son's gray hair and sighed, "Even our son is so old, and our days in the world are not long."
Lao Lai is afraid of his parents' worries and tries his best to make them happy. So he made a set of colorful clothes and pretended to dance when he walked, which made his parents very happy.
One day, he took pulp to class for his parents. He accidentally fell down. Afraid of his parents' sadness, he pretended to cry and rolled on the ground. Parents really think that Lao Lai fell and rolled on purpose. Seeing that he always couldn't get up, he smiled and said, "Laizi is really fun. Get up quickly. "
This idiom describes that children try their best to make their elderly parents feel comfortable, but it makes people feel absurd and unreasonable.