There may be all kinds of "rubbish" in our hearts, or some injuries we have suffered, which sting us from time to time; Perhaps it is an unbearable psychological shadow that has been locked somewhere in our psychology; Perhaps some unspeakable bad habits in my heart have been poisoning or torturing myself; Perhaps it is the greed for money and material things that makes us numb and utilitarian. All these confused and impetuous moments are unconsciously rolling in our hearts, which makes us really tired. If we go on like this, there will really be a burden in our hearts. We need to clean up these spiritual rubbish!
The room should be cleaned frequently, or it will be covered with dust if it is not cleaned. Living in such a room will make you feel very uncomfortable. So is the room of the soul. If you don't get rid of the garbage that pollutes your soul piece by piece, it will inevitably cause piles of spiritual garbage, and the original pure and pollution-free inner world will become full of sewage, making you more greedy, decadent and hopeless. A heart full of dirt and dust will become gloomy and confused. We experience a lot of things every day, think of a lot of things, are happy or unhappy, and settle down in our hearts. I have a lot on my mind and am utterly confused. Painful emotions and unpleasant memories gather in my heart like dust, and the room is full of sundries, which makes people upset and depressed. Sweep away the dust from the soul, make more happy space, make a gloomy heart bright, make a messy heart clean and bid farewell to troubles. Only by cleaning and washing your thoughts regularly can you keep your mind from dust, work and live better, and enjoy the happiness of work and life better.
It is easy to clean up tangible garbage, but it is not so easy to clean up invisible garbage such as troubles, desires, sadness and pain in people's hearts. Cleaning up spiritual garbage is not as simple as sweeping the floor in daily life, it is full of spiritual struggle and struggle. Because, these real rubbish are often ignored by people, or, because of various worries and obstacles, they are unwilling to sweep it. For example: too busy, too tired, or worried about having to face an unknown beginning after sweeping, not sure what you want. What if what you throw away now can't be found when you want it later? Sometimes we know we need to clean up, but we don't know how to do it We want to tidy up, but we can't start. It seems that the more chaotic we are, the more painful we are. In the end, we all choose to escape numbness and live a life of numbness and fatigue all day.
Under this rough analysis, what are our common unclean hearts?
Greedy heart
It is often said that "everyone is greedy unless he is a saint", and the implication seems to be that greed is a matter of course and selfishness is the way. This sentence inadvertently became a shield for people to cover up their mistakes. In fact, we could all have been saints, but we became mortals because of more greed and selfishness. The greatest weakness of mortals is greed. People who are greedy will never be happy, because their desires are infinitely expanding and never ending. This wish came true, the next wish came again, the little wish came true, and the big wish came out again. This endless desire makes people exhausted and wish they were dead. Abstinence and keeping desires to a minimum are the best ways to find happiness in life.
An arrogant heart
Because of people's prejudice, the ego is infinitely magnified, and arrogance arises from this. Arrogance is the lack of benevolence, and the troublemaker is self-righteous. Some of us especially like the word "Laozi is the best in the world" and are arrogant. Start walking, rush; No one is bragging when you speak. I think that I am born to be someone else's boss, and others should obey him. Self-righteous people bring unhappiness to others and also lay a curse for themselves. As we all know, pride is a kind of mediocrity, and wisdom, serenity, generosity, reserve and compassion are the true features of a wise man. Arrogant people may lose friends, careers and even the world. Because of this, he will never find happiness. Knowing yourself and finding yourself is a link that everyone who wants to succeed must grasp. Don't let that fake "I" shut you down!
self-abased
"People are more angry than others" is a phrase that people often talk about. There is jealousy and inferiority in this sentence. Yes, not everyone can be a great man, but everyone can be a person with a strong heart. Inner strength can dilute all pain and sadness; Inner strength can effectively make up for your external shortcomings; Inner strength can make you surpass yourself. It is undoubtedly a wise man's choice to let go of complaining and accept failure frankly. All failures are preparations for success. Complaining and discouragement can only hinder the pace of success. Don't always think that life failed you. In fact, you have as much as others. Believe in yourself and find your place. Everyone can have a valuable life.
Lazy heart
Some people are always complaining about others' success, that God didn't give him a chance, that others stood in his way, that all day long, that they didn't make progress, that they behaved improperly, and that they spent their energy and time complaining about others. The result can only be worse. Opportunities never belong to those lazy people. Don't blindly envy others' success. You have to start with your hands, and through your unremitting efforts, you can have it. Because, a simple action is practiced to the extreme, and an ordinary little thing is practiced to the extreme, and you are the first. Remind yourself, remember your own reminder, you who are motivated, happy, healthy and diligent will definitely have a brilliant life and a bright future.
Hesitant heart
Success and failure are sometimes just a matter of thought. If you hesitate or hesitate in the face of opportunities, you will often suffer a big loss. Opportunities tend to favor those who are diligent, self-disciplined, brave and selfless. Opportunities are like lightning, which can only be caught quickly and decisively. Immediate action is the common feature of all successful people. Don't hesitate about what you have decided. A woman with more generals and less feet, once she has chosen the direction, she will go on her way and never look back. Some experiences need to be forgotten and some experiences need to be remembered. Let go when it is time to let go, and make a fist when it is time to make a fist. A moment's hesitation will leave you with eternal regret. Let go of hesitation and act immediately, and success is at your feet.
Narrow mind
Tolerance is a virtue. To be tolerant of others is actually to make way for your own mind. Only in a tolerant world can people play a harmonious song of life. If we want to get rid of prejudice, we must create a tolerant society. To eradicate prejudice, we must first eradicate narrow thinking. Only by staying away from prejudice can people and hearts, people and people, and people and society be harmonious. We should not only be happy by ourselves, but also share our happiness with friends, family and even strangers. Because sharing happiness itself is a kind of happiness, a higher level of happiness.
In fact, we have the means and it is necessary to clean up and purify these spiritual "garbage". To get rid of spiritual garbage is to face this pile of "garbage" with a calm and objective attitude and analyze its reasons. Then think about whether this is the worst case and what is the worst case: if it is already the worst case, it doesn't matter, because in the worst case, there is only the possibility of getting better; If it's not over, you should be happy, because it's not the worst and can be remedied. Then we can think further: in fact, most of us have these "rubbish"