But, sister, you know, two or three papers are really a lot of work. Besides, these papers are related to your boyfriend's future. Of course, your boyfriend still has to work hard, not to mention two or three papers. Even at school, the teacher asked us to write two or three compositions. I think we will feel very annoyed! What's more, the number of words in the paper is much more than that in the ordinary composition, and there is no comparability in quality. I haven't read the graduate thesis, and I don't know how difficult it is, but my sister did, and the graduate thesis really collapsed. I also saw a lot of news about it, and many graduate students were forced to jump off the building by their papers. Therefore, whether it is a graduation thesis or a thesis topic, it is really easy to get upset, so your boyfriend's reaction is too normal.
If he hasn't met you, he must be busy writing a paper, either writing a paper or thinking about how to write it. I think as a girlfriend at this time, no matter how uncomfortable you are, you should try your best to understand him. It's not like he has to write papers every day for the rest of his life. When the dust settles, he will naturally have time to see you and chat with you. If he is free, he would rather play games and go out with friends. I'm not talking to you either. This is his fault. His problem is that he doesn't care about you. Even if you call him and scold him, I don't think there is anything wrong with it. But now people have very important things to do. You must let him finish all the important things at hand, and then take time to meet and chat with you! On the other hand, his future is smooth and your future will be better. If he has you in his heart, you can see the fruits of all his efforts in the near future, and you can enjoy it. If he loves you and cares about you, then you should behave well during this time and don't influence him. When he finishes his paper, he will not only thank you for your understanding, but also spend more time there.
I didn't understand this before. I just think I love him, so I should meet and chat with him more often. He loves me, so he should take time to meet and chat with me. What future, what job, what student union task, and what friends get together should not be more important than me. At that time, I only cared about my feelings and didn't know how to understand him. Only later did I realize how much I had gone too far. Two people should be considerate of each other. There can't be only the other half in our circle, and there can't be only us in the other half. Besides love, there are many things to be busy. After understanding this, I will support his work and his socialization. He really doesn't care about me when he is busy. Even if I was ill, I went to the hospital alone. He goes out early and comes back late every day. Sometimes I am busy with work when I come back at night, and sometimes I even fall asleep on the sofa.
Sisters, if you have deep feelings and are in a hurry to get married, you can't allow yourself to be willful at this time. You can think of it this way. I feel uncomfortable that I can't meet and chat with my lover, but they are busy with work and papers, and they are exhausted. Don't you feel sorry for him? If we can't help them with their papers and work, then don't make trouble. Two weeks passed quickly. You can make an appointment to call and say good night or send a video every night before going to bed. Encourage him more when chatting and tell him to eat on time. No matter how sad he is, he must pay attention to his health. I think he will be warm-hearted and feel guilty about you at the same time.
Sometimes think about it, this is our personal choice, who let us choose such a man? People are greedy. Some people think that boyfriends are too busy to spend time with themselves. Some people think that their boyfriends are too poor to be around every day, but they can't even afford a decent gift. Therefore, people with guaranteed material life envy other people's boyfriends that they have plenty of time to spend with her, while those who have plenty of time to spend with their boyfriends envy other people's boyfriends that they can give her a better material life, but people should look on the bright side. If you think your boyfriend really loves you, then you should be considerate of him and suppress your discomfort. He has no time for you. You can try to play with friends and divert your attention. If you feel that your boyfriend never wants to have a future with you, and your future is not planned, then you don't have to endure this grievance and just say goodbye.