I used to think that friendship is the happiness that others treat you well. When I happily accept gifts, love and care from others. But I turned a blind eye to their feelings. I feel extremely lonely when I enjoy this friendship alone. They began to alienate me, I fell down and no one helped me up; When I am sad, no one wants to listen to me quietly; When I am happy, no one wants to share the rare happiness with me ... I begin to know that life is not a straight line, and no one will follow your wishes forever. I began to change myself, to care about others, to actively share with others, and to stop rushing to say … it's really useful when talking to others! They began to make friends with me, play with me and even regard me as their best friend. Curve life, I learned at this turning point: friendship is mutual and happiness is mutual.
I used to think that affection is the tolerance and forbearance of your family. This idea is actually right, but I am in adolescence, rebellious, proud and complacent. I despise their concern and regard their concern as meaningless nagging and nervousness. I began to be noisy and tired, tired of them asking questions behind me like followers; Tired of them asking questions from time to time when I am doing my homework; Tired of their restrictions on my travel and only letting me study at home ... all this made me feel endless pressure and bondage, and I began to resist and protest. As soon as I got home, I ignored them with a straight face. As a result, I became more and more estranged from my family, and I began to realize that I only remember mistakes: I should not only consider my own feelings and abandon my family's feelings, but only ask them to understand me and take care of my emotions. I began to smile, smiling at each of them and speaking softly. I felt embarrassed at first, but I was relieved to think that they are my family and should be treated like this. Curve life, I understand at this turning point: your family is your strongest backing, but you should also learn to be their backing.
I used to think that learning was easy and didn't require hard work. This sentence seems to be limited to kindergarten to primary school. When I was in junior high school, I began to know the idiom "There are people outside, there are days behind". After a period of casual mixing of test papers, I realized that the score of 120 is not much, but it can be much worse in the same class. When I found that some people's grades rose linearly, my grades fell ten times faster; When I found that some people's names are always firmly in the forefront, my name was trampled under dozens of people; When I found out ... on the bumpy road of life, I drove with my eyes closed again and once ran into an extremely hard wall. I began to work hard, learn to be modest, pursue other people's problems, and my grades soared like popularity. Curve life, at this turning point, I understand: achievements can't be achieved by talking, and you won't come to you willingly without hard sweat.
Curved life, in countless life turns, although hit a wall, but did learn a lot.