Inadvertently, test every woman he touches. Although it is often found by women with sensitive nature, in case you can't find it, I am afraid that you will become a white rabbit in the applause of men.

Once a woman is emotional, serious and suspicious, it is not far from being abandoned.

So what you need to do is to do your homework before entering any relationship.

Know about men as a species.

What do they like? What are they worried about? What are they afraid of? What do they want?

Don't just wait for him to tell you what's wrong, because it's too late, because the moment you say it, it's often an outbreak that has been brewing for a long time, and the resentment is already deep, so you don't want to tell you until you can't stand it.

To do this kind of homework well, you have to master a key behavior.

I told you from the beginning, temptation.

You should agree with his every exploratory behavior, and then hand over his satisfactory and reassuring answer sheet, encourage, appease and support him, let him put down his guard against you and look forward to starting a relationship or getting back together with you.

When you encounter vicious temptation, you should know how to refuse. Because of inequality, he is using you to eliminate his inner fears and use you to achieve his own goals. This temptation is not based on himself, but on whether his own purpose can be achieved.

Let me talk about the three most common vicious temptations of men and tell you how to deal with them.

The sexiness of 1 is often related to whether you can sleep or not.

To this extent, the average man in China is very afraid of being cuckolded. I mean, if they find you cheating, their first emotion is not that you have moved on, but that they have lost face.

So they will be very worried about my girlfriend's safety.

If the object you choose is to work hard for money and improve material conditions, then what he needs most at this time is a woman who can reassure himself and not make trouble.

Beauty is not the most important thing to him, and his appearance is passable. He wants someone to accompany him when he is sad and lonely, someone to be warm and someone to talk to. What he needs is a girl who makes him feel safe.

If you choose a man with a successful career and superior economy who has completely solved the basic needs of life, then his pursuit is spiritual pleasure. A woman with face will automatically pounce on him, but only an independent woman with personality, thought and spiritual comfort will win his favor.

But neither of them is sexy.

He won't want to be with you because you are sexy, he will only be tempted to sleep with you. Your big red lips, your low-cut dress and your long white legs all aroused his sexual desire, not his desire.

They will praise you sexy, see your reaction, see if you sleep or not, and that's all. I will also nod and praise your figure, your temptation, your charm and all kinds of compliments, just like testing your sleepiness.

In this regard, all you have to do is say "thank you, but I don't want others to evaluate my appearance and figure", refuse to respond, interrupt his snooping on your charming appearance, make him give up the idea of sleeping, or try to touch your heart.

If it is an ex-boyfriend, the starting point is the same. Please don't talk too much about sex with your ex-boyfriend. Remember, breaking up means drawing a clear line. Unless you are used to telling your friends and parents that you can draw a clear line, you will regret breaking the harmonious reunion relationship with your ex-boyfriend.

So when should sexy be presented?

In front of your boyfriend. In front of anyone you don't want to have any further relationship with, you can be sexy if you want. Anyway, you didn't intend to do anything with him, and you didn't deliberately show off and seduce him. He is not qualified to comment.

The more serious people are, the less they will make promises.

Men often say that I can't give you anything yet, but I will try to make money. Will you accompany me?

People who say such things are often out of inferiority, fear and insecurity.

I met a real down-to-earth person.

He was fired. That's a job with an annual salary of 300 thousand. Because the boss wanted to put relatives in, he was pushed out. But he didn't go home and called me to my live-in girlfriend after work, which made me feel bad. Instead, I dress normally for work during the day, go out to find a coffee shop to do a working paper, submit a resume interview, and go home as usual at six o'clock. It was not until the second month after changing jobs that I was honest with my girlfriend.

So, just like sending a circle of friends for encouragement before the exam and saying I'm going to Tsinghua before the college entrance examination is finished, people always like to look for early satisfaction, saying "what I intend to do" as "what I have achieved", and then catching your approval eyes after listening to it to get psychological satisfaction. It doesn't matter whether it can be realized in the future. Anyway, now you seem to firmly believe that he did it.

So, things like this are:

"I can't wait to take you home to see your parents right away."

"I want to earn a lot of money to support you and make you fat in vain."

"Can you wait for me?" Well, many girls died at the hands of this sentence. Why can't you bear to refuse? Why are you waiting? Why are you willing to keep you waiting? )

Every man wants to know how much freedom you are willing to give.

If he doesn't want to reply to you, let him not reply.

If he really doesn't want to come out, don't push him any more.

If he wants to go after sleeping, let him go.

There is still a long time to believe in one thing. You should be patient enough to stay close to him for a long time.

You can see the gossip news of various entertainment stars:

Having a new lover doesn't mean that he will marry her and break up with her to find the next one.

Married people still cheat.

Having a child doesn't mean he won't divorce and find an ex-girlfriend.

There are variables in everything and everyone.

We are always afraid of being bound, bound by a relationship, and at a loss, especially the successful deeds of our peers around us, which often make us unwilling to be miserable. It's like you always praise other people's boyfriends for their thoughtfulness and wealth. His new girlfriend who always envies the boss is a young model.

So a man will be interested to know how much freedom you can give him to fight for everything he wants. When he finds that you are very controlling, he will want to exclude you and not be close to you.

He would say, I can't call you back at work. This is temptation.

He would say, I want to go out for a drink with my friends. This is temptation.

If you can't accept it now, I advise you to put it down first. Because this is his freedom, he still hopes to have personal freedom, have his own independent working hours, and take your rights wherever you go for entertainment.

Even if you love him in other ways, you can't accept his free will, and that relationship is doomed to go on.

After you put it down, you have to wait for variables. When he grows up, he knows how to properly handle the relationship between work and feelings, and begins to accept the changes in the intimate life of two people, so as to realize the situation of "thinking about you 24 hours a day" in your mind.

Once again, he won't give in, not because he doesn't love you, but because he is not ready for a life of two people. Even if you are forced to get married in a hurry, he will still want to take a breath and find another woman to breathe fresh air.

To set him free is to set you free. Go with someone who wants to be alone with you, instead of blindly tying up love, pestering your ex-boyfriend and being afraid of being single.

I believe that every girl will encounter different emotional confusion in love.

100% girls have gained something under the guidance of teachers. Some have saved love, some have met sweet love, and some have entered the marriage hall.

We teach planning, but love is real.

I am Wen Zhi, and I hope my article can give you some help in the emotional quagmire.