If the person you like doesn't like you, it's also a good choice to let go and forget. In relationships, you will meet many people. Maybe you really like that man, but he doesn't like you at all. Even if you like him for a long time, he still doesn't like you, just like Miss Qian at home. Qian Feng has been infatuated with Liu Xiaojie for more than ten years. He has been silently guarding Liu Xiaojie, but he doesn't love him. If the person you like for a long time really doesn't like you, or even doesn't like you at all, then Bian Xiao suggests you learn to let go. We can try to start a new relationship, but only if you really let go can we find other lovers. If you don't let go, you will find someone else, which is also unfair to the new lover. Teacher Huang Lei once told his student Ceng Hui that the biggest prerequisite for Buddhism to put down the butcher's knife and become a Buddha is to put it down.
People who have loved Bian Xiao for so long, how can they let go? There are many friends around. I like spending and traveling when I am lovelorn. They all have their own ways to relieve stress. No matter what kind of hurt you are emotionally, you should remember that emotion is definitely not the only important thing in life. There are still many people and things around us that you need to cherish. Really don't be led by emotions, move forward boldly, look forward and actively adjust your mentality. When we want to forget someone, you can throw away everything he sends and delete his contact information to vent, but it takes a long time to really forget. After all, people are emotional animals. There are so many good memories in the past. He said he forgot. How can he forget? It doesn't matter. Such a long life, we can slowly forget.
Maybe you will find that the more you want to forget someone, you will always think of him unconsciously, so don't force yourself to forget, just forget a little.