After marriage, it is necessary to leave room for each other and maintain mutual trust, so that the relationship between the two sides can be maintained.
After all, no matter who you are, there will be some unknown secrets in your heart, and even the closest people are unwilling to let them know.
However, some people are just not smart enough, especially like to be serious and get to the bottom of it, making people who keep secrets uncomfortable, and finally feel uncomfortable because they can't get the answers they want.
Therefore, a good marriage needs to leave enough private space for each other.
At the beginning, Chen Ling just didn't believe in this evil, and had been at odds with her husband Wang Chen, because Wang Chen had confessed his relationship with his predecessor.
Chen Ling said to Wang Chen at that time, to be honest, the relationship between husband and wife can be closer, and there is no fear of any trust crisis in the future. But after Wang Chen told each other about his love experience, Chen Ling felt a little uncomfortable, but it was not good to talk big just now.
Later, in the process of getting along, Chen Ling always choked Wang Chen on his predecessor's problems.
In front of Chen Ling, Wang didn't have any bad comments, such as poor cooking, inappropriate clothes and no delicate makeup. Anyway, in front of Chen Ling, Wang Chen must show that he is satisfied with everything in Chen Ling, so as not to cause conflicts. And there can be no quarrel between the two sides. Every time they quarreled, Chen Lin would say that Wang Chen would never be so mean to his predecessor that Wang couldn't say a word.
What happened between Wang Chen and his predecessor has not been described in detail, but in Chen Ling's mind, Wang Chen must have treated his predecessor better than himself, so their relationship has been deteriorating. Wang Chen's tolerance for this matter has gradually come to an end.
At this time, Wang Chen finally understood that he had been silly. If he should say something, he will say it at once, which is honest with the person he loves and also hurts his marriage.
In fact, both husband and wife should understand that confession in marriage is not necessarily a good thing. It is a kind of protection for marriage to leave some space for each other and not to explore the secrets in each other's hearts.
Li Xiaowei is relatively wise in this respect, and she knows how to deal with this emotional relationship.
She seldom asks her husband what he didn't tell herself voluntarily, because she knows that if she asks too many questions and doesn't really want answers, it will also increase the pressure on the other side. She knows that what her husband wants more is space and freedom, and she also knows what her married life is like.
In order to know more about what her husband did when he didn't arrive, she also took the initiative to know more about each other, which is much more useful than her random suspicion.
Li Xiaowei's husband didn't do anything wrong, but he hid everything well, and Li Xiaowei didn't know. At least it seems that Li Xiaowei knows nothing about everything.
Why can Li Xiaowei indulge her husband so much is because she knows that once some truth is seen, marriage will be even more miserable than she thinks now. Mastering the scale of getting along well is more important than anything else, not only to maintain the marriage, but also because both people need a private marriage.