First, stay away from the problem.
When you haven't laid a good foundation, stay away from male problems. Some students don't even understand the examples and basic knowledge in the textbook, so they begin to pursue difficult problems, thinking that as long as they understand them, they will be impeccable. But you should know that in the final exam, basic questions account for 80%, which means that as long as you lay a good foundation, you can surpass most of your classmates. And you will find that the problem is just a little more comprehensive and logical thinking, which requires you to have a strong basic knowledge to solve. If you do a difficult problem before laying a good foundation, it is very likely that you will find that you have not solved a difficult problem all afternoon, thus falling into self-doubt and feeling that you are not suitable for learning, thus losing your interest in learning and your grades plummeting.
Second, stay away from those students who just want to muddle along without making progress.
There are such students in every class. Some students may think they are cool and have personality, and want to be like them, but now they seem to be maverick and some are different. Just out of campus, because there is no beautiful resume, some even drop out of school, and eventually become a mediocre majority. You will find that the last blockbuster is often the few people who studied hard in obscurity when they were students.
Third, stay away from excessive idolization.
Everyone has their own idols and goals, which is a good thing. I don't object, but we must not be too addicted to idolization and do some crazy and extreme behaviors. All we can think of every day is to collect the periphery of idols, ask about their itinerary, pick them up at the airport, and some even give up their studies for idols. I believe this is definitely not what they want to see. The correct way should be to follow their example and try to be a better person. Maybe one day you can really stand at the same height as your own efforts, and let him know you brilliantly and be proud of you, just like Bai Jingting and Yang Qian's two-way trip.
Fourth, stay away from romance novels.
Many of the romance novels you read are women who are crazy about opening their golden fingers. It seems that everything they get is effortless, and they will fall in love at first sight without doing anything, but the reality is far from it. All gains need to be paid. Only when we become good enough can we be worthy of the same excellent people, instead of doing nothing every day and living in our own fantasies.