For example, a man with enterprising spirit usually starts his career when he is close to 30 years old.
Only in their thirties can they consider getting married. They regard love and marriage as a career, which is a long-term career.
I was told that you can't get married unless you are a virgin. Of course not, but married life is not necessarily happy. Many families quarrel or even divorce or have extramarital affairs, many of which are related to virgins, but the parties are unwilling to talk about it.
3. Men don't really love movies, but they just can't stand the feeling of being polluted! Some people think that the current society is the devaluation of diplomas and the appreciation of hymens. Some people say that the hymen is like your resume when you are looking for a job. If you don't get the corresponding certificate, I'm afraid people will only laugh at you no matter how high your ability is. Therefore, the hymen is not everything for girls, but it is very important for your future life!
If you give a woman the most precious thing to another man, the man who loves you will give you a big discount. If you can give your film to a man who doesn't want to marry you, I just want to say to you: you have put a time bomb on your future life, and when it breaks out, you will lose even more! Maybe now your boyfriend really doesn't care about your past, because you're not sure if he really wants to marry you? Men don't care whether their girlfriends are virgins or not, but their future wives! Maybe they just want to have a short relationship with you.
Living together after marriage and seeing the relevant content in the film and television works, I don't believe that man can stand it. Now many men have mistresses because they subconsciously retaliate that their wives are not virgins! If you give him your hymen, of course he will have a conscience for you. Even if he is not fresh to you, he will treat you as his own family and will not betray you easily! ! !
7. Please believe in your parents' teaching and China's moral standards. Don't be tempted and tempted to easily lose a girl's most precious thing. In fact, those online shouts that don't care about the past and don't care about virgins are all lies. Some of these people are married. They are satisfied with them in order to emancipate their minds. Some are girls who have lost their hymens. They yearn and fantasize that society and men will forgive their past.
Non-virgin, even if you give 10 thousand reasons, it's all rhetoric. Refuting me is just refuting the post. You can't change the deep-rooted concept of "not a virgin, absolutely don't want to marry" in men's hearts.
Let me ask you one more question,
You go to a restaurant to eat,
The waiter gives you two pairs of chopsticks.
One pair is well packed,
The other pair was opened by someone else.
Chopsticks are broken. Which pair do you choose?
Or even, the waiter brought you a pair of broken ones.
Chopsticks used by others,
I think you should argue with the waiter at this time: "Why give me a used chopstick?"
If the waiter answers like this:
"What you want to eat is rice, not chopsticks. Just eat comfortably! Why don't you care if it is used by others? "
I guess you have to scold her.
But I think it's not much different from the following sentence.
"You want to marry a person, not the movie. As long as I really love you and treat you well, why care if there is that film? "
I believe that any unmarried person who goes to the store to buy chopsticks will not buy someone else's used chopsticks, even once. Because you think it is dirty, chopsticks themselves are not dirty, not because someone has used it. Besides, you may only use these chopsticks for a few months or a year, and you can't bear to buy chopsticks that others have used once.
People only use chopsticks once, and you feel dirty. So your body, which has been used by others countless times, can't be dirty? You blame men for losing your virginity and say, "Without men, you can't go anywhere." Then you can let chopsticks reason with people, and pants can also say, "If no one uses me, will I be dirty?"
Now I want to add some omissions in my post. The purpose of writing this post is to hope that those girls who are still virgins will lead an honest and clean life, know how to cherish themselves and not do stupid things. I also hope that some men who have irresponsible thoughts about their girlfriends will stop your irresponsible thoughts. If you can't be responsible for this girl all your life, don't take the most precious thing from others.
I also hope you don't blame other men for caring about the virgin plot. If you do, blame the man who stuck it in your body but couldn't give you a marriage certificate. No matter how ugly other men are, only that one man is sorry for you.
By the way, what I said is wrong, I lost my virginity by having sex with my boyfriend before I got married, not some girl who was bullied or worked hard to save her mother. These girls deserve my sympathy and respect, and I salute them.
Supplement two, I want to ask you what's wrong? You look like your father-in-law with your head. What would your parents-in-law think of you if you knew that you had been dating other men for several years before you got married and had sex several times? How will you live in the next few decades and how will you face it? How many parents in this world are great enough to tolerate these and don't care at all?
Supplement 3: No, you will say, "You are not a virgin. Why do you ask others to be virgins?" .
Then a man can also ask a question, "If you don't have a house yourself, why do you ask your husband to have a house?"
You might say, because I am a woman and you are a man, you should have a house.
The man can also say that because I am a man and you are a woman, you must be a virgin.
Supplement 4: Would you rather marry a virgin husband or have sex with other men several times? If you are given another chance to choose, you know your answer.
Supplement five, it takes two hands to make a sound. I think few girls are bullied by their boyfriends, but they are all voluntary. Don't say reluctant. When I was reluctant, I went to my room alone with my boyfriend at night If you know how to love yourself, will you lose your virginity if you don't go to a room alone with him? If he stays in the girls' dormitory honestly, I can't imagine how he just gave up. He ran to the girls' dormitory and gave up with you in your bed.
First, if a girl gives her first time to a boy, there are two situations. First of all, she loves that boy very much. I believe everyone has heard the saying that it may take a lifetime to forget a person, not to mention the man who changed himself from a girl to a woman. I believe that a girl loves a boy so much that she gives him her most precious virginity, and she will never forget that boy. So, I won't marry this girl, because I'm not great enough to tolerate my wife remembering other men all her life. Second, girls don't love boys. Even her most precious thing was given to someone she didn't love.
Second, non-virgins all think that a good man will not love himself because he is not a virgin. They all think that he should love you, not your movies. I want to tell you that a good man in your mind should be as great as Jesus. He can tolerate any mistakes you make. He can remember an irresponsible person for life. He can tolerate that you compare him with the old man every time you have sex with him. No matter who is capable, he can spend his whole life making up for the mistakes made by other men and taking responsibility for others' arbitrariness. He will comfort your mistakes with a lifelong knot. I want to ask you what's wrong. If a man loves you so much, don't you feel guilty? Don't you feel sorry for such a great man if you really meet him?
Third, don't make excuses for yourself. You can only say that men should not care about your past. But you can't say any reason to prove that you are more worthy of men's treasure than a virgin. In fact, you know in your heart that you cannot be redeemed. The excuse you said is actually an excuse you made for yourself in your heart. You also know that you have made an irreparable mistake, and you want to blame this mistake on an irresponsible man. Yes
Fourth, friends, if you have a younger sister who has a boyfriend, would you advise her to keep chastity or give it to that boy? On the night when you became out of place, did you dare to tell your bitter old mother that you were no longer a little girl? Don't you dare fantasize with your head. You tell your mother that I had sex with my boyfriend yesterday. Do you dare to fantasize about your mother's eyes, expression and heart at this time? If you become a mother in the future, you will say to your daughter, "If you love him, give it to him. Even if you don't get married, you will meet someone who loves you later, not a good man who loves your movies. " Would you say that to your daughter? If your future son is getting married, would you rather let him find a virgin or a girl who has slept with other children?
Fifth, what happened? If one day, after you get married, the boy who got your virginity comes to you with a lost face, tells you his deep pain and regret, says something and regrets breaking up with you. Or after all these years, I really love you or something. Can you guarantee that there are no waves in your heart? Won't you remember some good times together in your mind? If your husband is not around at the moment, can you promise that you won't have sex with him again?
Sixth, people who are out of place, when you see someone on the forum saying something is wrong, you may be very angry and want to say something to defend and refute, or feel that these men are simply humble and boring. Isn't this proof that their words touched your heart? Prove that you care about that movie in your heart.
Seventh, people who do bad things, maybe you feel wronged, you will say: "Without you men, will there be bad things?" I can tell you that only that man took away your virginity. Even if other men in the world destroyed ten virgins each, they didn't do anything wrong to you. Only that person is sorry for you, and only that person is responsible for this mistake. Your future husband has nothing to do with you, but he will make amends for other people's mistakes all his life. Aren't you ashamed of the thought of taking care of a woman who gives away the most precious things mentally and physically?
Eighth, if you thought it didn't matter whether you were a virgin or not, you wouldn't read my post now.
Virgins, I have a suggestion for you. Before getting a marriage certificate, clip your thighs.
Dear friends, if you read my post and feel psychologically unbalanced and hurt, then go to the man who split his thigh for him and make him responsible for his actions.
Whether my post is right or wrong, you can think for yourself in the dead of night. Maybe you can refute me for various reasons and excuse yourself with these words, but I believe you can't cheat your heart.
Male compatriots, if you can't bear the responsibility for a girl all your life, please don't commit iniquity. This kind of thing is immoral and will be punished. Also, you must resolutely not find the wrong wife and stop taking responsibility for other people's mistakes. This will make more and more mistakes, so let those wrong places marry those who should be responsible.