Try a little every day.
1.
Lisa didn't find the job until two years after she graduated from college. Because it is close to brother Zhigang's house, her mother-in-law called Meng Ling and told her that her sister-in-law would stay at her house temporarily.
As soon as I put down the phone here, Lisa dragged two big boxes over there.
Although Meng Ling thinks it's a little inconvenient for her sister-in-law to live in her own home, how can she be entertained if she represents her mother-in-law? And my mother-in-law said it was just a temporary stay, which means she will leave soon, right?
Meng Ling tidied up Lisa's empty room, made the bed, cleaned the room, and bought daily necessities (slippers, washbasin, toothbrush, towel, etc.).
Lisa is very measured, sitting in the living room watching TV, always guarding two suitcases and acting like a sensible guest.
Meng Ling also made a lunch in the middle. After eating, my sister-in-law praised her. The food cooked by my sister-in-law is really delicious, and the food is really delicious.
After dinner, Lisa pushes a bowl and sits in the living room watching TV. Meng Ling wiped the table, washed the dishes, and went to the guest room to clean alone.
Visually, this little sister-in-law is quite "virtuous" She idles around, knows nothing, and will "toss" in the future.
2.
Sister-in-law has lived at home for three months, and Meng Ling can't stand it anymore. Ask her husband directly, or she will pay her sister-in-law to rent a house outside.
The husband didn't listen, but he thought Meng Ling was a genius. "What does this mean? Let her live outside as a girl. Don't many people have multiple pairs of chopsticks? "
If it's just multiple pairs of chopsticks, it's a big deal.
Sister-in-law Lisa is at home and can't even take off the broom.
I can't buy food, I can't cook, and even the clothes I change have to be washed in Meng Ling! "What? No washing? That doesn't matter, the clothes are piled up first, and I will take them back to my mother for washing. "
This "when the time comes" is a month, and the clothes are furry and give off a bad smell; It's like an endurance race to see who can't stand it first.
Sure enough, Meng Ling lost the battle first. The clothes piled there stink, and the whole bathroom smells strange. She had to help Lisa wash clothes.
The same is true for eating. It turns out that Meng Ling and Zhigang just deal with it casually, and the meal is forgotten, or sometimes they put a bowl of green noodles, and sometimes they go out to eat a snack casually.
But since Lisa is at home, dinner can't be sloppy.
Meng Ling never plans what to eat in the evening before work. What food should she buy to go home, what to eat after work and how to do it?
In the past, when they were alone, as long as Meng Ling cooked, Zhigang would come and help. But since Lisa came, my brothers and sisters have been talking and laughing around the TV and forgot the chef.
It was not until Meng Ling asked two people to have dinner that they suddenly woke up and sat at the table together for dinner.
No one wants to wash the dishes after dinner. They continue to sit in front of the TV, or watch TV or play mobile phones, while eating snacks, while making the coffee table messy.
In the first few times, Meng Ling would ask two people to help wash the dishes. They promised, "coming", but their asses stuck to the sofa. Later, I simply stopped screaming and did not move. It is always Meng Ling who cleans.
Although Lisa doesn't like washing clothes, she is diligent in bathing. Every morning before going to work, she takes a bath before going out.
But Lisa's room has no shower. If she wants to take a bath, she must occupy the bathroom in Meng Ling's bedroom. Sometimes, Lisa washes for an hour, and she just can't get up when she is rushing around outside the door.
Meng Ling was late several times because she didn't use the bathroom.
Let's talk about the cost of living!
After Lisa moved in, she took her brother's house as her own, and took the things at home for herself.
Paper towels, sanitary napkins, shampoo, shower gel and facial cleanser are all ready-made. When you run out, shout "Sister-in-law, XXX is gone, bring it quickly!"
Once I ran out of sanitary napkins at home, which happened to be used by Lisa during her period. Meng Ling played a clever trick and pretended to forget, thinking, "What are you going to do this time?"
I didn't expect Zhigang, who came back from work, to buy a big bag full. He said apologetically to Lisa, "I didn't know what brand you used, so I bought several bags of everything." Meng Ling gritted his teeth, but Zhigang was not so considerate to his wife!
Lisa not only used Meng Ling's facial cleanser and cosmetics, but also wore Meng Ling's clothes several times. Meng Ling was so angry that she wanted to vomit blood.
Meng Ling had to sue Zhigang. How do you think Zhigang did it? Instead of persuading his sister to restrain herself, he thought her life was not satisfactory and took her directly to the mall. When you buy cosmetics, you can buy thousands of dollars, and when you buy clothes, you can buy several sets. For Meng Ling, Zhigang has never been so generous.
Therefore, Meng Ling is very fond of Lisa, but Zhigang wants to be a peacemaker and has been muddling along.
3.
Was it not an epidemic last year? Many company canteens are closed, so Meng Ling and Zhigang can only bring their own lunches.
I didn't expect my aunt Lisa to come out with a lunch box and said she would bring rice. Well, Meng Ling wants to make three lunches.
Once, my hometown sent me some Chinese cabbages. Meng Ling took advantage of Sunday's rest, thinking about packing jiaozi to eat.
It took her more than three hours to wrap more than 100 jiaozi, stuffed dumplings and rolled the skin. Looking at the rows of chubby jiaozi, Meng Ling smiled contentedly. She wants to freeze the endless jiaozi in the refrigerator so that she can cope with a meal.
Unexpectedly, when Zhigang saw so many jiaozi, his mind became active. He thought that Lisa had just made a boyfriend, so he strongly invited Lisa's boyfriend to come home for jiaozi, euphemistically called "guarding Lisa".
After seeing off Lisa's boyfriend, Meng Ling began to clean and tidy up. Lisa came back and announced that her boyfriend thought the food cooked by her sister-in-law was so delicious that she would often go home for dinner in the future.
What? What? One ancestor has already taken a suit with resentment. If another one comes, Meng Ling feels that he is still dead. Why not give people a chance to live?
Although Meng Ling strongly opposed Lisa's boyfriend coming home for dinner, he couldn't help but agree. He feels that as an elder brother, he must contribute to his sister's future.
"It's simple to eat. Isn't it just adding a pair of chopsticks? No problem! " Zhigang said generously. Meng Ling was angry and wanted to continue the strike. "Then you can cook."
"I will do it if I do it!" When it comes to cooking, Zhigang is all thumbs. When he cuts vegetables, he even cuts his hand. He can burn his hand by frying ribs.
After all, it was her husband, and Meng Ling couldn't bear to put him through this, so she offered to help again.
Helpless, originally three people eat, and now it has become four people eat. What else can I do? You can't kick people out, can you?
4.
Unexpectedly, Meng Ling was pregnant.
Zhigang is very happy, and Lisa is also very happy. She is finally going to be an aunt.
These two people are happy, but they don't share the work at home at all: Meng Ling won't miss washing dishes, folding clothes and shopping.
Due to the serious reaction during pregnancy, Meng Ling quit her job and raised her children at home.
Lisa has no worries about food and clothing at her brother's house.
But Meng Ling doesn't like it. She could bear it before. Now she is a patient. Instead of sharing the housework for me, you added to the burden. This is very unreasonable.
Meng Ling and Zhigang suggested that Lisa move out, otherwise I would not stand it, and I would go crazy sooner or later! Zhigang always disagrees, not only disagrees, but also scolds Meng Ling for being stingy and saying that she is crazy.
Meng Ling was very angry: "If I am so stingy, what is your sister?"
Meng Ling bought snacks in the living room, and Lisa opened her mouth and began to eat. All the snacks that Lisa bought were hidden in the room and eaten by herself.
I don't know if it's because of my reaction during pregnancy or because I've been in a bad mood. Meng Ling was depressed, her hair fell off a lot, and her body was thin. After 6 months, morning sickness is still very serious.
Even when I went to see a doctor, the doctor was amazed: "You are dying, and you still want to have children in this physical condition!"
5.
I don't know why, what happened to a good family, because of my sister-in-law who didn't know how to advance and retreat and my husband who didn't know how to stop?
Maybe both?
If I had a choice, I would never let my sister-in-law live at home again.
28 days (1), 2690 words in the second issue.