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[Question+Excuse me] Why did Mr. Qian Zhongshu say in the book Fortress Besieged that "marriage is like a city, and people outside want to rush in?"
It's actually just a marriage. In fact, many things are like this. If not, it is desire. After having it, you want to leave.

Back to the besieged city of marriage, unmarried people are looking forward to marriage, and their imagination is also very beautiful. The desire for the opposite sex and the expectation of family life will make people look forward to marriage.

But after marriage, the passion dissipated and returned to normal family life, that is, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, as well as some family relationships and so on. , it will bring contradictions and quarrels, and then the mystery of both husband and wife has been eliminated, and the weakness of the other party is fully exposed, so they will get tired of and escape from their marriage life and have thoughts and thoughts of fleeing from the besieged city.