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What is the secret war between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for?
I married Yang Chen when I was 24. Because I can't afford a house for the time being, we live with my mother-in-law. A house with three bedrooms and two living rooms should be ok, but one of them is very warm for Yang Chen's sister and niece. Because my brother-in-law often travels, their mother and daughter come to live on business. Of course, my mother-in-law likes her daughter around.

Yang Chen's father is a lovely old man, smiling all day. He doesn't care about anything at home. As long as there are newspapers and radios to listen to Beijing opera, everything will be fine. My sister is five years older than me, so she is easy to communicate with. The only thing that worries me is my mother-in-law. My mother-in-law with a pair of gold-rimmed glasses doesn't talk much, like an old pedant. I was worried when I first met my mother-in-law. After living together, I feel that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is really difficult to get along with. The most important thing is that my mother-in-law doesn't trust me

Mother-in-law trusts her sister the most, and they have endless whispers together. Mother and daughter, this is not surprising. When I came home from work that day, I heard my sister talking in her mother-in-law's room as soon as I entered the door. Hearing my voice, the decibel dropped as soon as the door was gently closed. I walked into my room and felt that I was at the wrong door.

Probably to ease the relationship, at the weekend, my sister invited me to a favorite Sichuan restaurant. We talked about the clothes we just bought and how to match them better. The two chatted happily, but the little shadow in their hearts still lingered.

Not long after this happened, I overheard my mother-in-law call my sister one day and ask her who paid for the shopping dinner, asking her to pay more attention to others and so on. This is really boring and sad. My mother-in-law only loves her daughter, but forgets that I also call her mother.

I can't help complaining to Yang Chen. Yang Chen has a very good relationship with her sister, saying that she likes him very much since she was a child, and all the delicious and interesting people think of him. Therefore, Yang Chen said with a smile: "You are so sensitive and careful, you will get acne on your face." She also said, in fact, my mother likes you very much. Before marriage, she mobilized all of us to learn from you, easy-going, optimistic, respecting the old and loving the young! Besides, you are my wife, not an outsider. I will tell anyone who says you are an outsider in the future. I turned my troubles into happiness. Anyway, at least there's Yang Chen at home.

Then I cried because of sweetness. That day, I had dinner with my mother-in-law and Tian Tian. Three-year-old Tian Tian is very naughty. When drinking millet porridge, she didn't drink it, but put her little head into the bowl and licked a little. She spoiled the drink in the middle of it. Mother-in-law said to let your aunt help you drink half a bowl. I paused. Much as I like Tian Tian, I don't want to drink what is left of her. This kind of thing has happened before, and I finally dumped it. Does my mother-in-law explain my position in their Yang family like this? When the sweet bowl was pushed over, my mother-in-law didn't look at me and looked serious. I wanted to say something, but in the end I refrained from drinking. Later, as soon as I returned to my room after dinner, tears welled up in my eyes. I have been crying, and my mother-in-law is too bullying.

As soon as Yang Chen comes back in the evening, I will take him to the playground opposite, just like the plot in the Korean drama. It is also because he is at her husband's house, and because he has nowhere to tell, he needs to find a place to vent. When Yang Chen saw my eyes were red, he asked, What happened? Who bullied you? I described porridge. Yang Chen is a joker. After listening to my words, he immediately "reviewed" himself and said that if I was present, I would give you a drink, even if it was poison! I hit him with my fist, but Yang Chen didn't agree to "bully". He said you thought too much, but my mother certainly didn't mean anything else.

I don't want to argue with him any more. Of course, he doesn't agree, because my mother-in-law is always very kind to me when Yang Chen is present or there are outsiders. For example, my mother-in-law's birthday, because I can't drink, I said I wish I had a drink. In fact, my mother-in-law immediately told Yang Chen to buy drinks. In my opinion, this is just a trick of my mother-in-law. With so many relatives and friends present, she just wants to be praised as a good mother-in-law. However, Yang Chen always thought that her mother-in-law loved her.

Soon, I resigned for various reasons. Resignation is normal. I didn't take it seriously, but I was depressed and couldn't tell my mother-in-law. According to her old idea, no matter whether the company has a future or not, she can't resign voluntarily, so I have kept it a secret. Pretending to go to work every day is actually going to the talent market. It happened that one day my mobile phone was turned off and my mother-in-law called me at the company, only to know that I had resigned. I have to admit that it doesn't suit me. My mother-in-law was very angry and said it was so difficult to find a job now. If you say no, you will quit. Our family doesn't support idle people. It broke my heart. For the first time, I looked at my mother-in-law with firm eyes and said, "Don't worry, I won't be idle."

Tell Yang Chen about it. He said that there is no need to rush to find a job, just rest at home for a few days to recharge your batteries. I said I thought so, too, but your mother wouldn't let me. Yang Chen said, my mother is not what you think, so don't take it to heart.

Now that things have come out, I'm not afraid. Since then, I have been looking for a job online while writing and contributing. My mother-in-law is very unhappy. In her opinion, my life is over and there can be no future. I don't care, just keep doing my own thing. Generally, I write in my own room, and my mother-in-law watches TV in her own room, without interfering with each other.

One day in August, I was busy posting my resume online. I don't know why, but I suddenly want to see my mother-in-law's room. It doesn't matter. I saw my mother-in-law lying on the sofa with her hands over her chest, which was very painful. I was so scared that I called 120 when I knew she had a bad heart. Finally, my mother-in-law was rescued, and the doctor said that she might die if she stayed a little longer. For my question, "Why do you suddenly want to visit your mother-in-law's house?" The doctor said maybe there was telepathy between mother and daughter. Hearing this, my mother-in-law who closed her eyes gave me a look and then closed her eyes again. It looks so cute.

After the incident, my mother-in-law often pretended to want to talk to me, but for various reasons, she never got what she wanted. One day I was writing something on the computer, and my mother-in-law came in with a plate of watermelon and said it was hot. Let's eat some watermelon to cool off the heat. I was surprised and moved. When her mother-in-law turned to go out, she suddenly said, thank you for saving my life. I looked back at her and her face turned red. I quickly retracted my head. Although I tried my best to endure it, I still laughed out loud and my mother-in-law would blush.

Once I say something hard to say, I feel that I actually have a lot to say. At first, my mother-in-law ran into my room and ate fruit and cake for a while. Once I went to the living room to answer a friend's phone, and when I came back, I found my mother-in-law reading what I had written.

A few days later, while the whole family was here, my mother-in-law seemed to have put up with it for a long time and finally couldn't help it. She thanked me publicly. She told Yang Chen and her sister that if Momo was not at home, I might have died. You are my children, but where were you then? My sister hugged me on the spot, and Yang Chen continued to make fun of him, saying that we should all quit our jobs and stay at home.

But I can't stay at home any longer. My resume has been recognized by big companies and my salary is higher than before. I went to work happily, but my mother-in-law couldn't bear to part with me, saying that she was used to being accompanied at home.

I was pregnant last year, and the whole family was very happy and eagerly looking forward to the arrival of that new life. Because of the expectation of this new life, my mother-in-law and I are much more harmonious. But in the fifth month of pregnancy, she was suddenly diagnosed with placenta previa, and the doctor said it was best to be hospitalized for abortion. My mother-in-law spoke first and said that she would take care of me. During those days in the hospital, because I was lying in bed every day, I became more and more agitated and felt that I could not persist any longer. My mother-in-law told me when Yang Chen was born, but told me nothing. She said, we will be able to stick to the day when the melon is ripe! At that moment, I felt that my mother-in-law was like my mother. In the eighth month, the amniotic fluid broke that night, and the doctor said to have a caesarean section quickly, otherwise it would be life-threatening. At that time, Yang Chen was on a business trip, and I turned pale with fear. At this time, my mother-in-law took my hand and said that she

Finally, the son came to the world and the whole family was very happy. I wonder if suffering has taught us to cherish and love. Anyway, my mother-in-law and I really became mother and daughter after that. I have heard many voices about the old topic of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and there are also good strategies with high technical content. But I think it is the simplest word "love" that finally takes us across the swamp. It is the luck of a family to get together under the same roof because of a man. You'd better kiss each other warmly.