Sometimes, mothers have to deal with countless tasks in a day and feed their babies to sleep during breaks.

But to make matters worse, because children only recognize themselves, this process can only be carried by themselves, and the surrounding families can't share anything, so many parents are very worried.

In fact, this phenomenon of children is what we often call high-demand babies. High-demand babies will have more spiritual needs than other children. The common phenomenon is that they have to breastfeed, which is very sticky and difficult to put them to sleep. Many demands may change.

Such a baby is actually very difficult to bring, and parents will be very hard. But in fact, high-demand babies are not irreversible. Can produce such a high spiritual demand is indeed related to the baby's natural personality and brain, but if parents can guide it slowly in the right and appropriate way the day after tomorrow.

For example, in view of the problem that children are not easy to fall asleep and need to sleep with their babies, they can also make their babies a little "independent" and fall asleep more easily. There are examples around me that correct guidance makes it easier for children to fall asleep.

The neighbor just gave birth to a child, and the child actually belongs to the state that the mother needs to rely on her very much. For future consideration, neighbors love children very much, but choose a scientific way to coax children with distance.

Try to reduce the number of times that children can fall asleep by themselves and have to hold them in their arms, so that it is much easier for the baby to carry it on his back. Sometimes he falls asleep by patting the child on the crib.

So you see, there are still ways to adjust the baby's high requirements for sleep. But let's go back to the problem itself. What makes babies rely on cuddling and breastfeeding?

Reasons why babies rely on cuddling and breastfeeding 1. The baby is used to company.

From the moment of birth, the baby has become the apple of the eye and the focus of the whole family. Sometimes it is because the family is too close to accompany, so that the baby has a habit of being clingy since childhood. There are also many parents who like to hold their children to sleep when they are young, such as shaking and teasing them to sleep. These seem to be ways to give children more love, which invisibly makes children develop the habit of sleeping like this with their habits, thus creating dependence.

2. I am too dependent on my mother to break breast milk.

When children should be weaned is a headache for many mothers. Being able to rely on the mother is actually a natural emotional reaction of the child, but when the child reaches 1 2 years old, it is necessary to slowly cut off breast milk. If the child is older and not broken, it will actually hurt him. Not only for health, but also for children's personality, such as cowardice and femininity.

The baby is insecure.

Can be held by the mother, although the baby is small, but also deliberately feel that he is safe. In addition, sometimes the mother finally comes home from work, and it is even more painful to hold the child. This kind of affection is pulled back and forth, which also makes children more dependent and absorbs the sense of security they have here.

In the process of raising children, parents can't always fall into it without solving it. Instead, it can help parents alleviate the anxiety and freshness of their children's sleep difficulties and solve their baby's sleep difficulties. Parents can refer to the following practices.

Small coup to solve baby's sleep difficulties 1. Adjust children's sleep balance pressure.

We will introduce it in two major points. The first is to ensure the baby's sleep time:

Faced with this method, many parents may react that children are used to sleeping in their arms and are very easy to wake up. This situation is called the "pick-up and put-down method". Even if the baby is always awake at first, it doesn't matter. As long as the parents slowly overdo it, the child will form his own sleep mode.

Moreover, many babies are always noisy at night, and parents think that it is not so simple to give their children sleep during the day. If the baby is always awake at night and sleepy during the day, the baby is prone to the phenomenon of day and night upside down, so when the baby starts to get excited at night, parents must pay attention.

The second is to cultivate a biological clock that is synchronized with the internal pressure of sleep:

In fact, this sentence is not difficult to understand. The vernacular means that children can be trained to sleep and wake up at the same time every day. Parents don't need to exercise slowly at this point, there may be some uncontrollable factors in the process.

For example, parents suddenly have something to disturb, but as long as it is an emergency, unless there are special circumstances, try not to interfere with children's normal rest time, as long as it is not disturbed, it is easy to form their own sleep patterns.

2. Cultivate the baby's habit of playing by himself

This also requires parents not to accompany their children 24 hours a day. Nursing is normal, but they should also exercise their ability to play independently.

When children play by themselves, it is actually a process of exploring another world. In this process, children know new things and develop their brain potential, which is actually very helpful for their growth.

At the same time, parents should try not to disturb the baby when he is playing. We just need to observe and pay attention to the safety of the children. This can not only reduce the baby's dependence on parents, but also cultivate his concentration and bring double income.

3. Learn to cultivate your baby's emotions

Most babies have mood swings. When their parents don't depend on them or something different happens suddenly, they may cry and make a scene.

At this time, parents should first appease the baby's emotions, let it slowly stabilize and calm, and don't let the baby be in a state of anxiety and crying all the time. Many parents may say that children cry and fall asleep, and they will be fine when they are tired of crying.

But for the sake of health and children's development, we try our best to let children go to bed after emotional stability, which is actually good for children to fall asleep.

In a word, no matter what tricks parents use to let their baby sleep peacefully, they should abide by one point, that is, try to let their children get used to sleeping in their own beds, and don't let them rely on your arms and get used to your various amusements.

Being able to form good habits when the baby is young, when he grows up, parents can not only save the difficult stage of painstaking correction, but also save the stage of crying and making a fuss.