Every time I go home for the New Year, it is a good time for blind date. Everyone has worked hard in the field for a year, and after returning home for a few days, someone must introduce you. Because most of us abide by the imperial edict left by our parents: "Never fall in love when working outside, and marry a local." It is this that makes Gushi girls' worth soar. Say meet first! The man was led by the matchmaker to meet the woman. The meeting place is probably in the market. Or in the matchmaker's house, pay attention: the man should try to dress decently and handsomely, so as to ensure the success rate of blind date. Bring at least a pack of cigarettes with more than 20 yuan, because the elders who come with the woman will smoke, so that they will be mature and men. Even if you are a young man who can't smoke. After exchanging greetings, both men and women can walk and chat in the market for a while. Attention! After only a few minutes of chatting, you will decide whether to marry her in the future. Then both men and women go home to discuss the next step with their families. If one party doesn't like the other, it's over. If both sides think it's ok, then we can move on to the next step.

Step 2: Go shopping.

After men and women meet, they can go shopping at this time. What to buy? Buy clothes. To buy diamond rings and cosmetics, usually two people, men and women, take a bus from home to the best shopping mall in the county to buy clothes. The woman buys clothes and the man pays. Since the blind date is in winter, I want to buy two down jackets, two sweaters, two pants, two pairs of socks, two pairs of shoes and a suitcase. Buying two sets of clothes is yes man, and buying a suitcase is to pack the clothes you buy. I bought a ring to get engaged. At this time, it's almost time to eat. I want to find a restaurant to eat. When you take your future girlfriend to dinner for the first time, don't be stingy. At least find a decent restaurant, order at least eight dishes, and order if you can't finish it. Then both men and women can go home, and the clothes will be taken home by the man first. Now we can move on to the next step.

Step 3: Participate.

Because of the previous meeting and shopping, the man showed his determination to go through fire and water for the woman, and now he can finally get engaged! When engaged, the woman goes to the man's house to collect money and withdraw money. At this time, the man's family should prepare twelve dishes and three or five tables. And some dishes can't be cooked in a day or two, nor can ordinary people cook them well. You can buy it if you use it for a long time, but you can't buy it if you are unlucky. If you can't do it well, you must ask a special chef to do it. These twenty dishes must be served, and missing one will make the woman's family find fault and refuse to agree to this marriage. After a full meal, you can get engaged to both men and women. Of course, the engagement should look like an engagement, and a deposit should be paid. Now it is generally 1000 1 and 1 1600, and 12800. 6 and 8 are auspicious numbers, and 1000 1 stands for "one in a million". Finally, the woman left with the deposit and the clothes, diamond ring and cosmetics you bought last time. I forgot to mention that the value of two sets of clothes and other things should be around 30000. Do you think this is a complete success? The answer is no, and there is still a lot to say. Let's look at step four.

Step 4: Happy New Year.

Since the previous engagement has been completed, the next step is for the man to go to the woman's house to pay New Year greetings (both are engaged in the Spring Festival and must go to pay New Year greetings before the fifteenth day of the first month). When I go to my girlfriend's house for the first time, I can't do without things, even if the journey is difficult. During the dinner, the future father-in-law will definitely invite a group of people to drink with you. Note: this wine must be drunk and must not be drunk. When eating, the future father-in-law will definitely ask you something. If you are drunk and talk nonsense, it may lead to the early death of this marriage. Everyone can go home when they are satisfied. Before you leave, your future father-in-law will give you several hundred dollars to kowtow, including 600,800, 1000. Paying 30 thousand to 40 thousand finally paid off! Don't be too happy. At this time, you should pay attention to see if your girlfriend has a nephew or niece. If so, you have to give them lucky money. At least 200 yuan, if there are two, you have to give them both, even if they are still nursing their children. Only in this way can you show your maturity and ability. The task of paying a New Year call to my father-in-law has finally been completed, and now it is the fifth step.

Step 5: Give gifts.

At this time, both men and women went to work in other places, went to different cities and did their own work. Don't fantasize about taking your girlfriend out to work together It's impossible to bring someone else's daughter to live together because of your little savings! When you miss her, you can call her. It's the only way. At this time, if it is a major festival, such as Dragon Boat Festival and Mid-Autumn Festival, someone in the man's family must have a gift from the woman's family.