Since a little life appeared in ordinary life, I suddenly felt a little timid and nervous. For this world, maybe life is really fragile.
The baby's problem
One day many years ago, Jinyang asked where my father's grandmother was. We said we went to heaven, and she asked if heaven was good. I am speechless and dare not say any more. Later, her husband could only tell her that her grandmother had died, so he asked what death meant. We told her that she didn't know anything when she died, and she suddenly cried. After we calmed her down, she seemed to forget everything. ......
Babies' understanding of death
One day I took Jinyang home from kindergarten and suddenly asked me, Mom, how old can you live? I feel a little harsh when I listen to it. These things are very sensitive to parents. I stared at her, don't talk nonsense, why do you ask these questions, and then she asked, how old can she live? I'm a little angry. I said don't talk nonsense.
The baby seemed to be suddenly wronged and jumped into my arms and said, mom, I'm so scared. I asked what was wrong, and she sobbed and told me, "Mom, I thought about it all night last night. I am afraid that I am ugly when I am old! " "Oh, I knew that boastful guy made me cry." Mom, I'm scared. I'm old. At that time, my grandparents, my grandparents and my parents died, so there was no one to accompany me. How lonely I am ... I don't want to get old ... "
Tears blurred my eyes and the baby cried sadly. She hugged my neck hard and her head was wet on my shoulder. When she found me crying, she sobbed and tried to smooth the crow's feet around my eyes with her little hand. I know she is afraid that her mother will leave her when she gets old.
A harmless lie
Children may be the most important thing in every parent's life. Facing the baby's crying, I told her not to be sad. Mom will live to be a hundred years old. Immediately, she asked how old she could live. I said she could live to be 1000 years old because she is my daughter. Immediately, she cried again and said no, I must stay with her forever and live to be a thousand years old. My baby and I agreed that we would live for a thousand years and stay with her forever.
I told my husband about it when he came home in the evening. It turned out that he already knew about it, because she had asked him last night. My husband told her that we can live to be 100 and our children can live to be 120.
I asked the baby if he had read any books and heard any stories. She said she didn't think so. My baby has grown up and has his own thoughts. She is so afraid of loneliness, which reminds me of the reasons why many parents want to have a second child.
An unattainable wish
At this time, I realized why the baby often brought back delicious food from the children these days and told us, mom and dad, I don't want to eat what I left for you ... I really can't imagine that the baby is under so much pressure and doubt.
Thinking that life is really so fragile, suddenly the feeling of a six-year-old urchin makes me a little nervous. If the child doesn't grow up, I won't be old, but can the child keep her from growing up? How can I stop the pace of time? During the Spring Festival, I found nothing changed in the village, only new faces changed. The child grew up and the old man left. ......
We tell our baby that birth, aging, illness and death are natural laws. No matter who you are, you can't escape this rule. It is difficult for a baby to talk with tears in his eyes. In fact, I know that she wants us to live for a hundred years and be with the people we love forever! I hope there will be an afterlife in a few hundred years. We are still a family!
Xin Xin Xu Yu
Who is not afraid of the big question of life and death? Especially for the elderly, if there is no fear, there will be no so-called events of selling health care products for the elderly. However, facing death cannot be the reason why life is boring. A person faces death from birth, but we are really just waiting for that moment. If we were stupid, we wouldn't have to be doctors. Make life more meaningful and colorful, and maybe there will be more hope and less fear of death. For immature children, their fear of death is not fear of death, but fear of the departure of their loved ones, loneliness and insecurity. Once children grow up, their wings are hard, and when they fly in the vast universe, it seems that the departure of their loved ones is not so terrible!
No matter how slow a person travels, he will always reach the end, and so will life!