Life is endless, and people in the sea are boats at sea. The sea has no time to catch waves, so people are always happy and depressed. When nameless troubles hit, frustration and hesitation burned every nerve. But my friend, don't forget to keep a calm heart. No more pain.

In front of everyone, there is a rugged but hopeful road leading to a distant place. Not everyone can go far, because there are always people who are tired because they don't pour the sand out of their shoes and give up halfway. Therefore, it is not happiness and pain that dominate people's feelings, but mood.

When the troubles of life come, please put down your baggage, look up at the bright blue sky and let the gentle blue shine in your heart. Just like when I was tired of playing as a child, I found a green and soft grass to lie down, let the sun fall on my face and let the breeze blow into my heart without a wrinkle.

When there are setbacks around you, please open the window to let the refreshing fresh air in, and find a little peace in the fragrant and sweet earthy breath, just like when I was a child, I picked up dandelion whiskers, raised my cheeks, blew open umbrellas, closed my eyes in surprise and made a wish. In this way, there is more comfort and joy in my heart.

When the helpless melancholy comes, please open your eyes, watch the sunset and listen to the insects singing and birds singing. It's like listening to crickets in a small yard when I was a child, and counting the shining stars on my back. As a result, all the annoying noises fade away, and what you have is a calm heart.

Keep a calm heart, and you will sincerely sigh. Even if I am not happy enough, don't frown. Life is short, why should I plant bitter fruit?

Keep a calm heart, and you will know that generosity can dilute depression and calmness can dispel suspicion. Yes, no one knows how far the truth is, but open the window of the soul and let the happy sunshine and moonlight flood in, and a calm heart will have an eternal happy song.

Keep a calm heart, and you can keep crossing and challenging yourself. Even if the distance is an eternal place, a tool-occupation will be born.

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Secular glitz, impetuous people, many people are as ubiquitous as headless flies in this material world, and it is difficult to maintain a calm heart. Because it is difficult for people to calm down, they have more troubles and less happiness; Many companions, few friends; There are more people sitting alone in the dead lamp and fewer people walking around; There are more people who are lazy and decadent, but fewer people who are enterprising ... "Indifferent and pure, indifferent and far-reaching", look at 400 words extracted from American literature. How calm and far-reaching. Yes, only when we are calm can we have an open mind, the courage to challenge and the possibility of reaching the peak of success. Let your heart calm down, you will become more beautiful and inner, you will become more mature and steady, and you will shake hands with happiness and success. Keep a calm heart and you will have the whole world. Motherly love is sincere persuasion when you are confused; Motherly love is an earnest command when traveling; Motherly love is a kind smile when you are lonely and helpless.

Motherly love is a ray of sunshine, which makes your heart warm as spring even in cold winter; Motherly love is a hot spring, even if it is covered with the dust of years, it will make your mood clear and quiet.

Motherly love is a drop of dew, kissing the dry soil. It looks forward to the fertility of the shattered soil with the warmth of drizzle and the firmness of diamonds. Motherly love is not the freezing point of life, but a flowing river, which breeds beautiful emotional scenes in our lives.

Because of love, displaced people have the possibility to return home; Because of love, the tired soul is as fresh as ever. Looking forward to love is like starlight looking forward to reflecting each other; Looking forward to love is like the song of the century, hoping to be sung forever.

Thinking is a song that makes you understand the rhythm of popular days; Thinking is a kind of rain, which makes you get wet in a rigid day; I think it is a piece of sunshine that makes you clear on a gloomy day.

Warmth is the floating spring rain; Warmth is the shadow of a smile written on the face; Warmth is a response without hesitation; Warmth is a meticulous cooperation.

"The thread in the hand of a kind-hearted mother makes clothes for her wayward son's body" is about family relations; "It is enough to have a bosom friend in life, and treat each other with the same bosom" is about friendship; "once the sea was difficult for water, amber forever" is talking about love; "If you are selfish, your country will live or die. Why should every cloud has a silver lining avoid it? " What you said is that you love the national conditions.

what is love ? Love is the power to raise the sail of your life. Love is timely assistance; what is love ? Love is a smile that soothes your broken heart.

Love is a sunshine shining in winter, which makes the poor feel the warmth of the world all the more; Love is a clear spring rising in the desert, which makes people on the verge of despair see the hope of life again. Other people's road

A man wanted to cross the swamp, so he tried to walk because there was no road. Although it is dangerous, you can find your way by jumping left and right, but it doesn't take long and it doesn't go far. You accidentally stepped in the mud and sank.

There is another person who wants to cross the swamp and see the footprints of his predecessors, thinking that someone must have walked by, and there is no mistake in following others' footprints. Try to step on it with your feet. It's really real and you can go on with confidence. Finally, I stepped into the mud.

The other man wanted to cross the swamp, looked at the footprints of the two people in front and walked forward without thinking. His luck is also imaginable.

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There is another person who wants to cross the swamp, looking at the footprints of all the people in front, thinking that this must be a road to the other side of the swamp. You see, so many people have left. If I walk along this road, I will definitely get to the other side of the swamp. So he strode, and finally he got stuck in the mud.

The road in the world is not that the more people walk, the flatter and smoother they are. Walking along other people's footprints will not only lead to new ideas, but may also fall into a trap.

Lifetime record of bird observation

Two patients living in the otolaryngology ward at the same time have uncomfortable noses. While waiting for the test results, A said that if it is cancer, travel immediately and go to Lhasa first. B also performed at such a time. The effect came out. A has nasal cancer and B has nasal polyps.

A made a timetable for leaving life, left the hospital, and B stayed. A's trip is to Lhasa and Dunhuang; Take a boat from Panzhihua to the Yangtze River estuary; Taking photos with coconut trees in Sanya, Hainan; Spend a winter in Harbin; Take a boat from Dalian to Beihai in Guangxi; Boarded Tiananmen Square; Read all Shakespeare's works; Try to listen to the original song "Two Springs Reflecting the Moon" by the blind A Bing; Write a book. All these, a total of 27.

At the back of this life list, he wrote, I have many dreams in my life, some have come true, and some have not come true for various reasons. God doesn't have much time for me now. In order to get rid of this world without regrets, I intend to use the last few years of my life to realize the remaining 27 dreams.

A resigned from the company and went to Lhasa and Dunhuang. The next year, I passed the adult exam with amazing perseverance and tenacity. In this era, he boarded Tiananmen Square, went to the Inner Mongolia prairie and lived in a herdsman's house for a week. Now this friend is fulfilling his old dream of publishing a book.

One day, B read a short article written by A in the newspaper and called to ask about A's illness. A said, I really can't imagine how bad my life would be if it weren't for this disease. It reminds me to do what I want to do and realize my dream. Now I understand what is real life and what is life. You have a good life, too! B did not reply. Because of what I said in the hospital, going to Lhasa and Dunhuang has long been forgotten, because it is not cancer.

In this world, everyone actually suffers from a kind of cancer, and that is an irresistible death. The reason why we didn't make a life list like the man with nasal cancer, throw away all unnecessary tools, realize our dreams and do what we want is because we thought I would live longer. However, perhaps it is this quantitative difference that makes our lives qualitatively different. Some people make their dreams come true, while others bring their dreams into their homes.

Find an umbrella.

Once, a professor said to a businessman, "Last week, my umbrella was taken away from a church in London. Because the umbrella was a gift from my friend, I cherish it very much, so I spent the price of several umbrellas in the newspaper to find it, but I still can't find it. "

"How did you write your advertisement?" Asked the businessman. "The advertisement is here." With that, the professor took out a piece of paper cut from the newspaper from his pocket.

The merchant took it and read, "Last Sunday evening, I lost a dark black silk umbrella in the church. If a gentleman finds it, please send it to 10 Broad Street as a reward of 5 pounds. "

The businessman said, "I often advertise. Advertising is very learned. Your advertisement is not good. You can't find an umbrella. I'll write you another advertisement. If you can't find an umbrella again, I'll buy you a new one to make it up to you! "

The advertisement written by the businessman was published in the newspaper. The next morning, the professor was surprised when he opened the door. There were six or seven umbrellas lying in the garden. These umbrellas are colorful, with cloth and silk, old and new, big and small, all thrown in from the outside.

With the professor's own dark black silk umbrella in the back. Some umbrellas are still tied with notes, saying that they were accidentally taken by mistake. Beg the owner not to publicize this matter. The professor told the businessman about this situation, and the businessman said, "These people are still honest."

Do you know how businessmen's advertisements are written?

The businessman's advertisement reads like this

"Last Sunday evening, a gentleman was seen taking an umbrella from the church. If the person holding the umbrella does not want to cause poverty, it is better to return the umbrella to 10 wide street as soon as possible. Everyone knows who this gentleman is. "

The value of 20 dollars

This is what I read from an English story.

A father came home from work late, tired and a little upset, and found his 5-year-old son waiting for him at the door. "Dad, can I ask you a question?"

"What's the problem?" "Dad, how much can you earn in an hour?" "It's none of your business. Why do you ask this question? " Father said angrily.

"I just want to know, please tell me, how much do you earn an hour?" The child pleaded. "If you must know, I earn $20 an hour."

"Oh," the child looked down and said, "Dad, can I borrow $65,438+00?" Father is very angry. "If you ask this question just to beg for a loan to buy meaningless toys or tools, then go back to your room and sleep. Think about why you are so selfish. I work hard for half a day every day and have no time to play children's games with you. "

The child calmly returned to his room and closed the door.

Father sat down, still very angry. After about an hour, he calmed down and began to think that he might be too hard on the child-maybe the child really wanted to buy some tools, and besides, he rarely asked for money.

The father walked into the child's room. "Are you asleep, son?" "Dad, not yet. I am still awake. " The child replied. "I may have been too hard on you just now," my father said. "I am very angry today-here is the $65,438+00 you asked for."

"Thank you, Dad." The child took out some crumpled bills from under the pillow and counted them step by step.

"You already have money, why do you want it?" Father said angrily.

"Because I didn't have enough before, now I have enough." The child replied, "Dad, I have 20 yuan now. Can I buy it from you for an hour? Please come home early tomorrow-I want to have dinner with you. " Share this story with the people you like, but more importantly, share this $20 worth of time with the people you love-this is just to remind us not to let time slip through our fingers and spend a little time with people who care about us and care about us.

Take another look.

Once, an old man told me a story of himself.

When I was young, I felt great. At that time, I was going to write a book. In order to add some local color to this book, I used my vacation to go out and look for it. I want to find a hero among those poor and lazy people, and I believe I can find such people there.

That's right. One day, I found such a place, a deserted and dilapidated manor. The most exciting thing is that I also found the smell of idleness in my imagination-an old man with a beard, wearing a brown suit, sitting in a chair weeding a potato field. After his death, it was little Mu's unpainted shed.

I turned and went home, and I couldn't wait to sit in front of the typewriter at once. And when I bypassed the wooden shed on the muddy road and looked at the old man from another angle, I suddenly froze subconsciously. It turned out that when I looked over here, I found that the old man's chair was leaning against a disabled person's crutch, and a pair of trousers hung to the ground empty. Suddenly, the character I thought was lazy became an unshakable hero.

Since then, I have never dared to make judgments and conclusions about a person who has only met once or talked a few words. Thank god for letting me look back.

Revelation of stubborn stone

When I first married this farm, that stone was in the corner of the house. This stone looks ugly, about a foot in diameter, protruding two or three inches.

Once I drove the lawn mower at full speed and hit a stone, damaging the blade. I said to my husband, "Can we dig it up?" "No, that stone has been buried there." My father-in-law also said, "I heard that it is buried deep underground. Your mother-in-law has lived here since the beginning of the civil war, and no one can get it out. "

In this way, the stone stayed.

My child was born, grew up and became independent. My father-in-law died, and then my husband died.

Now I look at this yard and find that the corner of the yard is not pleasing to the eye, because that stone protects a pile of weeds, like a scar on the green grass.

I took out my shovel, braced myself, and planned to dig out the stone even after working all day. Who knows that as soon as I reached out, the stone came out, but it was buried a foot deep, and the bottom was about six inches wider than the top. I pried it open with a crowbar and moved it to the car. This makes me panic. This stone stood on the ground for a long time, beyond people's imagination. Everyone firmly believes that our ancestors tried to move it, but nothing could be done. Just because this stone looks big and deep. People think it cannot be shaken.

This stone inspired me, but I couldn't bear to throw it away. I put it in a conspicuous place in the yard and planted a circle of Catharanthus roseus around it. In my little landscape, it reminds people that the only obstacles that hinder our discovery and creation are our psychological obstacles and the hard stones in our minds.