"The ideal is too full and the reality is skinny" 1 In the soil of memory, there are many seeds of different times, some are green, some are colorful and unforgettable, and more are the process of seed growth and reproduction behind the soil, or I can say that in the soil of memory, the number may be called "opportunity" at most, which may come from. It may also be because we are the masters of the soil, so the seeds come, and our attitude as the masters of the soil is an important factor. Imagine that if we don't welcome the outside world, then the "seeds" of this opportunity will not take root, let alone thrive.
I have a bad habit during the holidays. It seems that I always regard learning as a task, so I always plan my time in one way or another, but when I really implement it, I can't help sighing, and occasionally I feel a little bored during my vacation and don't know what to do. Do I really engrave the definition of this "task" in the so-called taskbar every day? Then should I do more "tasks" in the limited time? Does it mean that the more "tasks" I do, the higher my experience value will be? Will my corresponding competitiveness increase? This makes logical sense. The more you give, the more you gain. On the contrary, if individuals pay less, they will get less. This kind of example is also very common in life. Common life phenomena are reflected in some commonly used sentences after becoming experiences, such as: reading thousands of books, writing like a god. For example, "as long as the kung fu is deep, the iron pestle is ground into a needle." For example: "There is a road to diligence in Shushan, and there is no limit to learning the sea." Such educational remarks are common, so may I say so? No pains, no gains? Pies don't fall from the sky, okay? After all, he won't make a living? Logically, there doesn't seem to be much loophole, and it does. Pay and harvest are like buyers and sellers in a market economy. I create some value through labor. Now I need something, so I pay a certain equivalent. The seller also exchanges his equivalent with others through his own labor and the market. Of course, I don't want to highlight some important features in commodity exchange. I just want to use this example to illustrate some things. For example, although there will be some fluctuations, it is not difficult to find that the relationship between giving and receiving is actually quite similar to exchange, so the problem comes. How do we create value? In other words, what have we paid? In the history of thousands of years of civilization development, many people have thought about this problem. Among politicians, like Ying Zheng, he is a unified and unprecedented "first emperor". In the eyes of literati, they are concerned about the country and the people, such as "there are thousands of mansions, and all the poor in the world are happy", such as "the wine and meat in Zhumen stink, and the road freezes people to death". It can be said that this is their value and what they get after paying.
I don't want to care about topics that are too far away from me. As a post-90s college student, I am more concerned about our employment situation, in other words, how to realize my own value. I remember a good friend once joked, "If one day you go to the toilet, maybe a college student is looking after the toilet. Maybe you will open this major in the future! Think about the population of China 10 billion. This business is too hot. " Of course, I'm not saying this with colored glasses, just because in my opinion, the employment pressure today is really huge. This joke is probably just a fabrication of my friend, and there is no basis for life.
According to statistics, among 20 1 1 college graduates, about 82.1%are employed full-time or part-time after graduation for half a year; About 1.6% people start their own businesses; 9.3% people are unemployed, of which 1. 1% people are going to study at home and abroad, 6. 1% people are going to continue looking for a job, and 2. 1% people have given up looking for a job and studying. 20 1 1 The number of college graduates is 6.082 million. According to this ratio, nearly 570,000 people are unemployed, and more than 654.38 million people choose to "live on their laurels". We all hope to learn something useful. We all hope that when looking for a job, we can apply the knowledge and ability we learned in college to practical work and find a job with a professional counterpart, in other words, a job related to our major, preferably one that we are interested in. This may be the common dream of every graduate, but the ideal is too "plump" and the reality is often "skinny".
After half a year, 1 1 college graduates are in a state of low employment, and 10.4% of them are in a state of low employment voluntarily. Among them, undergraduate graduates 13.3% are in a state of low employment, while higher vocational colleges 14.6%.
That is to say, among the 20 1 1 college graduates, there are about 700,000 graduates in a low-employment state, of which about 520,000 graduates are voluntarily low-employed. It is not difficult to interpret the low employment. In the words of ordinary people, at least the problem of eating should be solved first. Of course, there is a common phenomenon behind low employment that deserves attention, that is, employment before employment, which is a kind of accumulation.
It's time to put youth on your lips. Youth is not a flag. The higher you hang it, the more it can fly in the wind. Being young doesn't mean you have capital, let alone your own wealth. You can squander it. In my opinion, youth can't be squandered, let alone your own wealth, because we didn't get it through exchange. If you exchange youth for temporary happiness, this wealth will eventually depreciate. I used to like listening to old boys. Dreams are always out of reach. Should I give up? I really can't give you the answer to this question. Dreams are not wealth, but beautiful wishes. Giving up or not is a personal matter, but if you can realize them step by step through your own efforts, then this dream will naturally become your wealth, and naturally it will not be a so-called "skinny" reality.
There is a gap, yes, I want to say that between your university and the "big dyeing vat" you will enter, you will find that many ways of thinking are wrong, your attitude will gradually change, and the burden on your shoulders will be heavy. One of the most important things is that you should support yourself with your own hands. Every month, you will be embarrassed to ask your parents for living expenses, and you may start to keep your own accounts every month. You will learn to cook slowly and gradually improve your living ability. The gap I am talking about is such a buffer zone, that is, the time we need to adapt slowly. It's better to grit your teeth and stick to it than to give up on yourself. In fact, it is not only the qualitative change of the environment that leads to this gap, but also our own situation.
To tell the truth, when it comes to my future, I am also very powerless. It's simple. I have no ability to predict tomorrow, and I am not RMB myself. But in this case, maybe the problem is simpler. I might as well learn what I should. Too many assumptions and assumptions are undoubtedly a very light burden for us now. At least be an open-minded learner. Attitude can decide many things. Don't be a conceited person. People like that will. Perhaps this premise is that your life has already happened, and then you walk again, which is your resignation, because it has already happened. Alas, I seem to have made an old habit again. I always like to get into a dead end, so I won't mention it much. It's too mysterious.
Let's call it a day. Dreams are colorful. Realistic skinny, more realistic. We can't expect anything from others, we have to go our own way. We like the motto of Little Shenyang: "Wear other people's shoes and go your own way". We should learn good things, carry forward traditional things, discard bad things and learn advanced things. Don't always stare at things. It is good to have a temper and a personality, but the premise is to protect yourself. These words are for you. That's right, you, the future "female doctor", don't think I'm talkative, and hope to make progress with my friends in college. There are countless excellent people around me, and there are too many opportunities to learn. It depends on whether you have this insistence.
Today is off-year, as usual, it means offering sacrifices to the kitchen god and "bribing" him not to say unpleasant things. If you don't know this, you might as well ask your elders. It is always good for China people to know more about things. Chinese New Year is coming, and I didn't go back to Xinjiang for Chinese New Year this year. It's a pity to think about it, but it has become a reality. I can't tell this story every day. I'm here to accompany my friends far away. I wish you good health, rich financial resources, care and help your elders, relatives and friends, and the New Year is coming soon. I also wish all qq friends success in their studies and a double harvest in their career and love.
"The ideal is too full and the reality is very skinny." I sat at my desk, writing hard, thinking that I could get a good score this time. But when I look at this material, my heart is cold: what should I do in the future?
The dung digger should be one of the worst jobs in the world, dealing with filth every day and enduring the stench forever. But it is such a job that five college students are strictly selected! Both computer and law majors have high employment rates. The people who come out are all talented people, favored by heaven! But now, they are no longer facing the sage book, but the dung water! I don't know how they feel. The original ambition has long since vanished, and everything is zero-sum dust.
I remember a sentence clearly in the Spring Festival Evening. The ideal is full, but the reality is very skinny. This may be a true portrayal of today's society. There are many college graduates who can't find jobs, and the talent recruitment market is crowded every day. Everyone is eager to put on a thick resume. Ideal is a balloon that is blown up, slowly leaking in the sea again and again, and finally only a small prototype is left. Some people couldn't bear it, and they broke the balloon with a needle in advance, leaving only a cold body. Some people began to "gnaw at the old" after they appeared and returned to their childhood. This is the skinny reality.
I have nothing to say about China's education system-it's meaningless. 1500 yuan recruited a college student in January, and the crowd was like a tide; 3,500 yuan a month to recruit a mechanic, the door is empty. A college graduate made a vivid contrast: "I have read a book for twelve years, and that book is full of sacks." I came to the society with a sack of books, but I couldn't change a sack. "This is the reality of thin people.
I have no strength except my body, but Sun Erniang is gone. I don't want to grow old when I grow up. It's so spineless that I don't live like a human being. But rhetoric is here, how to practice it? I don't mind being a dung digger-at least I have a job, at least I have realized my insignificant life value. Now the streets are full of college students. Who takes you seriously? My parents said they would force me to lose weight when I went to college. I just want to say: don't push me. When I graduate from college, I will be as skinny and cruel as reality.
Thank you, teacher, for coming up with such a material composition question and taking me out of the mirror, so that I can predict my future in advance. It's not worth it, but worth it! As for the gap, I don't care at all-I put myself at the bottom.
The skinny people make others feel distressed, and the skinny reality makes the society feel distressed.
"The ideal is too full, and the reality is very skinny" Life Perception 3 For many years, it has been popular that the ideal is full and the reality is very skinny.
A gloomy day passed, the dark night covered the sky, and the silent darkness flooded into the room. I was lying alone in a narrow bed less than 1.8 meters long, and I felt a little lost and unwilling.
At this time, I always think of those schoolmasters who have not failed, have no regrets and worked hard.
Since entering Huanggao, all exams, large and small, have gone through dozens and hundreds of times. I thought my ideal life was carefree, but a small exam could make me fall to the bottom and hit the cold cellar, making people lonely.
Somehow, there seems to be a high fence between ideal and reality. This end is full of withered and desolate scenes, broken bricks and tiles, and vines are entangled. And the end is endless, where the beautiful scenery is enviable, big red glazed tiles, vibrant wisteria, unknown green vines. I stand at this end, disappointed and confused.
But after a frustrating night, I woke up the next morning. I am no longer depressed by last night's defeat, and I will continue my study life. After all, failure is not terrible. Whitman said that when failure is inevitable, failure is also great.
The morning sun shines through the thin curtains and falls on the quilt bit by bit, just like stars. I get dressed, open the curtains and let out the sunshine. The sun is shining and warm, and everything in the dormitory seems to be completely transformed. Only the crumpled test paper at the bedside was crumpled into a ball of paper by me. As a result, yesterday's regret has been in blowing in the wind, and my heart is full of confidence in starting a new journey.
Suddenly, I realized that this is the ideal life I want-no matter how many troubles and shortcomings there were yesterday, today's life is still worth fighting for!
Hemingway, an American writer, said that the world is beautiful and worth fighting for. I agree with the latter part of his sentence. In fact, the reality is still very cruel, and the cruel reality still needs to be changed by struggle. Hemingway described in the novel The Old Man and the Sea that San Diego did not catch a fish for 84 days, but insisted on fishing on the 85th day and finally caught marlin. As a result, I met a shark on my way back. San Diego fought with the shark to the death and finally returned to the port, but the marlin only had a huge white skeleton.
Santiago looked forward to the beautiful ideal of going to sea, but paid a heavy price and pulled back the marlin with only a white skeleton. Although there is a certain gap between reality and ideal, Santiago finally defeated shark attacks again and again, and Santiago is still the winner and returnee.
I suddenly realized: the schoolmasters have made brilliant achievements and failed; Learning God has made a blockbuster achievement, and there are times when you have repeatedly lost and fought, and when you turn defeat into victory.
The ideal is full and the reality is skinny. Only this article commemorates Huang Gao's reading life!