Stars and ordinary people are actually the same. Tell you what I know!
The first thing is about Degang Guo's wives, Wang Hui and Guo Qilin. We all know that Degang Guo's current wife is not the original match. Her current wife's name is Shine Wong, which means that she is the stepmother of Degang Guo's son Guo Qilin. Is she nice to Guo Qilin?
When interviewing Guo Qilin, the reporter asked about his mother. The first thing Guo Qilin thinks of and says is his stepmother Shine Wong. When he answers questions, he will call Shine Wong "my mother". It can be seen that Guo Qilin really accepted this stepmother.
Yes, in fact, Shine Wong was really good to Guo Qilin and raised Guo Qilin as his own son. On one occasion, Guo Qilin was filming outside and was accidentally injured. Degang Guo doesn't look like an ordinary father. Others will send messages asking what happened to Guo Qilin, while Shine Wong will call directly and start to scold Guo Qilin for not taking care of himself, just like all mothers.
In addition, Shine Wong respected Guo Qilin's opinion very much and even gave birth to a child. His parents divorced and his father married another woman, which is definitely unacceptable to the children. At this time, if he wants another child, Guo Qilin will feel abandoned, so he has to give the child some time to get used to it. So as an adult, Wang gave birth to Guo Fenyou and liked this younger brother very much. There is a big age gap between them.
When Guo Qilin was still living at home, his parents were very strict. When he comes home late at night, Wang Hui will be particularly worried. He keeps calling like his mother.
This can't be generalized. Some stepmothers will treat their children as their own. For example, Wang Runzhi, Su Dongpo's second wife in history, raised the children of Su Dongpo's first wife as her own children.
This is also for a reason, because Wang Runzhi is a virtuous and intelligent person. Su Dongpo's first wife is her cousin, and her cousin's children are of course related to her. In addition, Su Dongpo's charm is so great that Wang Runzhi loves him and his children, whether he is his own or not.
In modern society, there are also many stepmother who are kind to children, such as actress Chen Shu, who treats her stepson just like her own son. We know that these are celebrities. Then I believe that all sentient beings have such a stepmother.
Some stepmother really can't. Cinderella's stepmother in fairy tales and Snow White's stepmother are also cruel in real life. I saw on the news some time ago that a stepmother and her biological father seriously injured a four-year-old girl. This heartless stepmother has really damaged the image of many good stepmother.
Stepmother is very difficult. Because deep down, people think that stepmother will be bad for children. Even if the stepmother only sincerely educates the children, the children will be influenced by others invisibly, and they will feel that the stepmother is bullying and abusing themselves. This kind of pressure is still great. However, people should still be discerning. If they are really good, they should still understand each other over time.
In fact, some mothers are not good to their children. For example, last year or the year before, a mother in Guangdong, which caused a sensation throughout the country, abused her own daughter. A few years ago, I watched a legal program about a mother who preferred sons to daughters and beat her daughter seriously. Although this kind of incident is surprising, there are many. We can't help but sigh: these mothers are not as good as stepmother!
So it's really hard to say whether the stepmother will be good to the children. It depends on many factors, such as stepmother's personality and man's charm. I think stepmother is a human being, with good people and bad people. Not every mother is a good person and not every stepmother is a bad person. Some mothers don't want their children, and some mothers beat their children. So this question is a little simple. Stepmothers don't have children for the future of their stepsons.
Mainly according to the women from the family, if the family is educated, the cultural quality is good enough to match the feelings of husband and wife, and the responsible person, the stepmother is better than the mother, and the relationship between husband and wife is harmonious, depending on the feelings of husband and wife, they will also love their children. Children should care, guide and cultivate their feelings, and gradually grow up to understand maternal love. He will respect his mother's growth history and his great hardworking mother! People are born to love each other, and love comes from love, so love is rewarded!