With the end of the children's college entrance examination, it can be said that every parent is most concerned about this summer vacation, from grades to application, to being admitted to a favorite school, and then to holding a school banquet with great fanfare.
However, after all these arrangements were completed, the divorce climax followed, and with the promulgation of the "cooling-off period for divorce" in the Civil Code next year, our divorce lawyers also ushered in one of the busiest moments of the year.
Yes, when Lao Yan flew away, humanity was the most important thing.
Divorce is the last game between husband and wife. Many people want to "die of old age with you anyway". Why don't they just keep their property and take more money to nourish their lives, thus exposing their original sins: hiding property, transferring property and creating debts ...
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My cousin and Yuze are in love in college. After graduation, Yuze worked around, saying that he wanted to show his cousin human beings, and he didn't meet several times a year.
My cousin is also stubborn and insists on marrying Yuze. As soon as she got married, she planned to buy a house in Beijing. Cousin paid a down payment of 400,000 yuan, and Yuze's parents borrowed 200,000 yuan from relatives.
When I was decorating, I discovered that Yuze already had a third party. That's his hometown. Although he has little culture, he worships Yuze.
Cousin's strength indicates that she can't forgive and must divorce. In fact, Yuze didn't ask for forgiveness and moved directly to a third party.
The divorce procedure is easy to handle. The only problem is that this house is registered in Yuze's name. The divorce agreement reads: the two parties share the house payment according to the proportion of capital contribution, and the cousin accounts for two-thirds.
The house has been sold for a whole year. The key reason is that we can't contact Yuze. My cousin hung up as soon as he called, let alone cooperate with the seller to sign the contract.
That year, my cousin formed a habit. When she saw a public telephone in the street, she was going to call Yuze.
Finally, Yuze agreed to sell the house. After selling the house, only a few days after the money from the bank hit Yuze's name, my cousin realized that Yuze didn't want to give it to her.
My cousin stopped him at the door of Yuze's office with her parents early in the morning. Yuze said: Because I lost my bank card, I will reissue it seven days later. I promise to give you money. Let me go to work first.
Cousin didn't believe it, and the whole family walked around Yuze in the street all day. At night, they are too tired to do anything. Yuze agreed to go back to his residence with his cousin.
After dinner, Yuze accompanied his former father-in-law to drink and vowed to be the adopted son of the old man in the future. As long as he is released today, he will share the money with his cousin seven days later.
The old man was so dizzy that he almost opened the door. The old lady insisted that Yuze must be lying.
The next afternoon, Yuze couldn't stand it any longer. He called his daughter-in-law (the former third party) and said that he had been kidnapped by his cousin. He quickly redeemed the bank card at home.
It turned out that the card was not lost, and Yuze went out without a card, and was reported by Yuze.
When Yuze's daughter-in-law sent the card, the bank had already left work. Yuze's daughter-in-law saw her cousin with eyes full of fire, grabbed her cousin's hair and said why she was detaining my man. YuZe stood quietly watching.
The police came and took everyone to the public security bureau for a night. The policeman said to Yuze: You have to give people money. The bank will open early tomorrow morning, so you should give me the money quickly.
Yuze and his wife are very wronged. The next morning, when they left the police station, they wanted to run away. My cousin's family was ready and almost got into a fight in the street again. As a result, everyone was taken back to the police station. Until the afternoon, my cousin found a college classmate who shared with Yuze to mediate. Yuze was tired, too, and finally went to the bank and gave the money to her cousin.
Cousin's practice is very commendable. She solved the problem of the court by self-help under the legal situation.
However, their divorce agreement was difficult to implement from the beginning.
It is agreed to divide the money after selling the house, but Yuze doesn't agree to sell it, or what if the money sold out is not well given to my cousin? In the end, they all need to go to court, but fortunately, my cousin solved it herself.
Therefore, for my cousin, it is best to write down the ownership of the house clearly, and one party will compensate the other party, so that the ownership will be clear, and it is a big deal to go to the court to confirm that the house in the divorce agreement belongs to him.
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The first thing this man said when he saw me was: I want to divorce my wife. Don't talk to me. I am very determined.
I asked, "Is there a third party?"
He said "no"
I said, "divorce proceedings are very tiring, so just stick to it."
I say this because his pupil impressed me deeply, and I can see the traces of trauma, which is the darkest eye I have ever seen.
And this kind of men who take the initiative to divorce because of their tendency to depression often give up halfway.
He said: "I divorced this marriage. The key is that I earned all the money at home, and I want to fight for what I deserve. Some time ago, when our relationship was good, I told her that the cash flow of the company was tight recently and we needed to mortgage a sum of money on the house. She signed with me for a loan of 5 million.
Now this money, I invested in my buddy's company, and my buddy assured me that shorting the company would be worthless, even if she wanted to share it, it would be worthless to give her equity. "
As a divorce lawyer, I have to admire his method, which is very high-end and the most secret way to transfer property: increase joint liabilities and then invest the borrowed money in loss-making companies.
The next day, I helped him sue the woman.
The woman used various means to delay the lawsuit: rejecting court documents and raising jurisdictional objections. By the time the trial began, several months had passed.
In the court, the woman said that if the compensation given by the man is reasonable, she will divorce, and if it is not suitable, she will not agree to leave.
The judge tried his best to mediate between the two parties, but because the gap in money was too big, it was impossible to talk about it at all, and finally decided not to divorce.
I can't sue every six months. Men feel like they are going to collapse several times. He often calls me and asks me, if the woman still doesn't answer the summons next time, how will he survive the long lawsuit in the future?
Alas, as I was worried, men who don't have the support of a third party tend to be more depressed and give up the lawsuit.
Before the second prosecution, the husband and wife signed a loan of 5 million yuan for one year, and the bank asked to borrow the new and return the old. The man needs to pay back the 5 million first, and then borrow it from the bank.
Unfortunately, this time, it is impossible for the woman to cooperate with the signature.
This man struggles with the nature of debt every day.
I said: if you borrow it again, it is difficult to identify it as a joint debt of husband and wife with the signature of one person, because you are now obliged to explain whether the large debt is used for family life in divorce proceedings.
He said: "I won't divorce until I can guarantee the joint debt of husband and wife." I followed her and asked her to accompany me to sign another name. "
Later, he did it, and the second time he simply didn't sue again.
I am also silently chilling for that woman. When she happily welcomed the man to change his mind, she didn't know that the man was actually doing it for money.
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This man looks personable and has a successful career. He is a promising young chief physician.
He said that his wife stole his mobile phone, went to repair the booth of the mobile phone, restored the data he deleted and printed it out in a thick stack.
Needless to ask, I also know what this pile is, which is nothing more than evidence of adultery.
He has been sincerely apologizing, kneeling, smashing the glass with his fist and apologizing to his wife and family. ...
His daughter-in-law forgave him on the surface, but secretly installed a camera at home and pretended to be on a business trip. As a result, the woman was caught red-handed.
In the camera, he brought a woman home. Originally, his wife wanted to forgive him, but after watching the live video, she couldn't get over it and sued him.
Fortunately, this man is well prepared. After he got married, he basically did not give it to his family. All the extra surgery expenses were secretly deposited in his parents' names, adding up to at least one million.
This house at home, from the first time he saw me until the lawsuit dragged on for almost a year, he always stressed that this house conforms to the provisions of Judicial Interpretation III of the Marriage Law-it was bought by parents in full, registered in his own name, and does not belong to the common property of husband and wife.
I was surprised to hear that he recited the law so skillfully.
He said: The purpose of looking for our agent is to delay the lawsuit as much as possible and give the woman less property.
At the first trial, the man insisted on not agreeing to divorce. He said that the two sides still have feelings, saying that "no one loves her more than me."
Half a year later, the woman sued for divorce again.
Before the trial, I said: If you want to investigate the whereabouts of the property in detail in this trial, print out all your bank cards and show them to me. Besides, didn't you say that your mother bought the house in your name in full? Tap your mother's tap water, too.
When the man took out his mother's bank running water, I was surprised, which impressively showed:
An hour ago, the man first transferred 654.38+0.56 million to his mother, and the next hour, his mother transferred 654.38+0.56 million to the developer's account.
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I said, running water like you is definitely not good, and the opposing lawyer will understand at a glance: this money is from your mother.
He asked me what to do. I said, you have to go to the bank anyway, try to print only the single traffic that your mother transferred to the developer, and resolutely remove the traffic that you transferred to your mother before.
He said that if the bank had been willing to remove the tap water before, I would have done so long ago. I said you should continue to communicate with the bank.
I heard that he had a hard time finding the president, and the bank finally agreed to print only the last transfer record.
During the trial, I was so anxious that I was afraid that the woman's lawyer would find the transfer clue.
Unexpectedly, after three times, the woman did not advocate watching the man's bank flow, and the woman did not know that the man had hidden such money. As for the house, the woman always thought that it was really the money paid by her mother-in-law.
Alas, this life is so opaque, it is no wonder that it has come to the step of divorce.
As divorce lawyers, we shouldn't comment on clients, but we can always see the good and the bad.
Sometimes we remind people who consult me for the first time that your husband may make such a property transfer in the future, just to divide more property.
Unfortunately, the reply I often get is "others will do it, and he shouldn't."
There are also more sincere customers. When they met for the second time, they confessed to me, "You are right about lawyers. I think you worried too much last time."
Then, what can we do if the other party conceals the transfer of property?
As a policeman, you can't do anything until the thief steals something. Only all the bank card numbers of the other party can be collected.
In this way, once he does transfer money, you can apply to the court to check his running water according to the card number and point out whether the transfer is legal or not.
Divorce proceedings are the most testing time for human nature. If you think of the worst side of human nature, then nothing can beat you.
I'm Pan Xingzhi, your personal emotional counselor. If you need professional help, trust me personally, and I will be happy to help you through the emotional crisis.