How much Ge You loves his spoiled wife is unknown to outsiders, but at least after 30 years of marriage, this marriage has not broken down, so their feelings should be good. Ge You's wife is He Cong. They met at 1985. At that time, Ge You was a walk-on actor and He Cong was an art teacher. When they got married 1987, Ge You was 30 years old, and she didn't expect to become a big star in the future.

After they got married, He Cong quit his job as an art teacher in order to make Ge You feel at ease in filming. First, he helps in a restaurant in Ge You. Later, Ge You gradually became popular and took on more and more plays. He Cong became Ge You's full-time assistant. Besides acting, he handled many trivial daily tasks for her husband. It can be said that Ge Youneng has come to this day step by step, and his military medal is half that of his wife He Cong.

Later, as Ge You's acting career became more and more smooth, he appeared in more and more TV dramas, became a household name and earned more and more money. The gap between husband and wife's economic and social status, as well as Ge You's inevitable kissing with some actresses, have inevitably caused some family conflicts between them.

According to media reports, when filming "Big Man", He Cong visited the studio and happened to see Ge You and Rosamund Kwan kissing. They really kissed on the set. Seeing this scene, He Cong ran away crying! Ge You explained to his wife after filming, but where can ordinary women accept this? They quarreled on the set and made up later.

It is said that if Ge You has any intimate scenes with female stars again, He Cong will take the initiative to avoid them and don't want to be stimulated again. Perhaps because of this, Ge You once revealed in an interview with the media that his wife is a "jealous".

A quarrel is a quarrel, and Mr. and Mrs. Ge You have always had a good relationship. Ge You and his wife have been married for 30 years, and He Cong is often photographed by the media as sloppy. Some onlookers think that Ge You's career is so successful now that his wife's image is not worthy of him. They have never given birth to children, so some people think that Ge You's wife has been guarding the dross, which is admirable and hard to understand.

In this regard, Ge You once said in an interview with reporters: My wife and I shared weal and woe before we became famous. When she married me, she didn't want anything financially from me. I will never do such things as remarriage and substitution.