"I started with words and missed three years; Then I practiced martial arts, the tinker made arrows, and I went out one by one in the middle of the drum; After studying medicine, I made some achievements, wrote a good prescription, took it and died. "
I started studying literature, but I didn't get into the exam for three years. After changing to martial arts, the tinker shot an arrow and the drummer was fired. Finally studied medicine, and finally learned it. I gave myself a prescription, and after eating it, I poured it. ...
Three taboos in career choice:
Dare not choose, keep choosing, don't know how to choose.
This allusion is "always choose".
The straight line between two points is the shortest, and detours are bound to get twice the result with half the effort. I took a catwalk twice when I first set out, which was neither painful nor itchy. What I fear most is to look at the problem from another angle, which will never end.
"I don't know how to choose", two common phenomena:
First, regard the major as a profession;
Second, turn interest into work.
Your major is "human resource management", which can be your occupation. But your major is "software engineering", so you must determine the specific career direction, whether to be a Java programmer or a Python engineer in the future. This is your career. After all, you can't find any position called "Computer Science and Technology" on the recruitment website.
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A person's greatest happiness lies in his successful choice of two things in life: one is to do the work he likes; The second is to find the right partner. Fight for the cause when the sun rises, and embrace your lover when the sun goes down.
How about this bowl of chicken soup? Is it sweet enough for your throat?
Turning interest into work sounds beautiful, and work is play, but how many people turn interest into work and then lose interest? ...
If your resume hobbies are meaningless things like "music", "photography" and "travel", according to the user tag analysis of a platform, 90% people like it and belong to the common hobby of human beings.
I yell at myself when I have nothing to do, pretend to be a rock fan all day, listen to the stories of many famous singers, and drink some chicken soup that "be yourself and never compromise". My heart is surging and my blood is boiling. I want to be a singer!
It's okay to live in the basement.
Eat instant noodles, it's okay.
Singing in a karaoke bar is nothing.
I believe you will become famous overnight. ...
Cai Kangyong once said:
I don't want to turn my interest into a career casually. Just when you are interested, you don't need anyone to nod. Whether you like singing, cooking, designing your home or investing in stocks is your own business. Once you turn your interest into a career, you need everyone around you to nod. Interest became a task, and the garden became a battlefield. Instead of doing what you like, it is better to do what you are good at and plant flowers in the garden.
The most important reason why you can't let go of your interest is that you don't have so many requirements for your interest, which is simply to give you spiritual pleasure or psychological satisfaction.
You like singing, and when you are sad, hum a song "I plan to indulge without supervision" to relieve your depressed mood; When friends get together, KTV shows her singing to Duan Guifei, who is drunk and stunned, and shows her "sudden self". As an interest, that's enough. Once as a profession, it may not be cute. ...
Your interest is singing, so-
What crazy things have you done for this?
Have you ever studied or worked part time?
What honors have you won for your interest?
If it is a career, are you willing to give yourself a few years to try?
Can you bear the worst result?
False interest, to put it bluntly, means "like is not love."
More importantly, if you are not outstanding and have no talent, you'd better work hard on your career choice according to the law of large numbers. Being a singer is obviously a small probability event.
Work thousands of miles, just for money.
Work is to settle down in society, and we will have more requirements than interest. Apart from meeting the basic needs of survival, is this job decent? A little more advanced can give you a sense of accomplishment?
Career choice has three basic dimensions:
Future and money, talents and specialties, interests and preferences.
Future and money:
There is a bowl in the pot, and the pig can only fly at the draught.
Gifts and specialties:
A fish should not climb trees, but should look for rivers, lakes and seas that belong to you.
Interests and preferences:
In fact, there is an order between love and effort. Love first, then try, then try.
These three need to be weighed.
Don't be extreme, only one can't see the second and third; You can't be perfect, but you always want to be perfect and stop.
If sorted, the future and money, talents and specialties should be considered first, live first, then live. Do something promising, do what you are good at, and if you happen to like it, it is luck.
In the world of adults, you can't just like living, and you don't look back when you hit the south wall. This is not the depth of love, this is a certain degree of selfishness, this is not persistence, this is an obsession that does not want to face reality.
Sometimes, it's not that we like something very much, but that we learn to like it when we do it.
From a professional point of view, it is better to tap your own advantages than to find your own interests.
If you don't know your interests, think about it. Ever since childhood, have you been fascinated by anything, learned quickly, did it well, felt good when doing it and after doing it, and others affirmed and praised you?
This is your advantage.
The ultimate destination of sustainable interests is interests.
You have to find it, confirm it, and then strengthen it! Improve professional skills in this field, improve the systematic knowledge system, and finally form a fixed way of thinking and ability performance. This is your career choice.
The ancients used "slave, apprentice, worker, craftsman, teacher, family and saint" to interpret the professional realm;
Slave: involuntary, it depends on supervision.
ACTS: I am not competent enough, so I study voluntarily.
W: Be honest and follow the rules.
Craftsman: proficient in a skill, an industry expert.
Teacher: Master the rules and teach others.
Home: Establishing a system can affect more people.
Sage: access to all things, selfless, life for the people.
May you choose a happy event and bear fruitful results as soon as possible!
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