To truly be yourself, you must overcome the act of imitation! Carnegie has a piece of advice: Like most successful people, find yourself and stay true to yourself.

What does it mean for a person to erase his true colors? It means imitating others and running behind others' ass. In this way, people mistake the characteristics of others for what they should pursue, and most of them can't achieve great things. Even if there is, it has no characteristics. This is a big taboo for those who achieve great things. So erasing one's true colors is equal to "chronic suicide".

Chen Xue is a very sensitive, shy and chubby girl. Her mother is very prim. She thinks it foolish to dress too beautifully. Besides, the clothes fit too well and break easily. It's better to make them wider.

On Justice.com, Chen Xue never attends any party and there is nothing to be happy about. After school, she doesn't participate in any activities of her classmates, even sports. The reason is that she always feels "different" from others.

When she grew up, she married a husband several years older than her, but she still hasn't changed. Her husband's family is stable and confident. She tried to imitate others, but she couldn't. Her husband also tried to help her break through herself several times.

But it always backfired, and finally she thought of suicide.

But one day, her mother-in-law's words saved Chen Xue and changed her completely.

Her mother-in-law said, "I never ask too much of my children." No matter what happens, I insist that he stay true ... stay true! These words flashed through Chen Xue's mind like a light, and she found that all the misfortunes originated from her trapping herself in a mode that did not belong to her.

She changed overnight! She began to be herself. She first studies her personality, recognizes herself and finds out her strengths. She began to learn how to match colors and choose clothes styles to wear her own taste. She also began to make friends and joined a group-although it was only a small group. When they asked her to host an activity, she was scared at first, but she gained more courage every time she went on stage. Although it was a long process, she is much happier now.

In fact, the utilization rate of people's mental ability does not exceed 10%. Most people don't know what talent they have. Compared with what they should have achieved, more than half of them are sober. You only used a small part of your spiritual resources. You often live in your own circle, and even if you have all kinds of resources, you often can't use them successfully.

Since you have so much untapped potential, why worry about being different from others? Genetically speaking, everyone is composed of 24 chromosomes of father and mother, and these 48 chromosomes determine your inheritance. There are hundreds of genes on each chromosome, and any gene is enough to change a person's life. You are an individual full of personality in this world. There has never been anyone like you before, and there will never be anyone like you again.

You are the only brand-new and unique self in this world, and your experience, environment and heredity have made you. No matter good or bad, you only need to manage your little garden well, no matter good or bad, you only need to play your own instruments well in the orchestra of life, and you will live your true colors. In the final analysis, all art or individuals are a manifestation of themselves. You can only sing and draw by yourself.

A person's achievement does not depend on his ability and IQ, but on whether he fully displays his personality, because only style can make you different. In other words: only by fully displaying your personality can you stand out.

The true colors of Romance of the Three Kingdoms

"The Yangtze River flows eastward, and the waves are heroes. Success or failure is empty, the green hills are still there, and the sunset is a few degrees. " This heroic and detached spiritual expression comes from the preface of the well-known Romance of the Three Kingdoms. Speaking of the Three Kingdoms, the 70-year-old man is still praising Guan Gong for going through five hurdles and beheading six generals, but in his prime, he is straightforward. "If you look at the world diligently and fail to conquer, you are dead." Compared with the History of the Three Kingdoms by Chen Shou, The Romance of the Three Kingdoms is undoubtedly more popular, and behind this popularity is the author's careful packaging.

First, the duke of Zhou vomited, and the world returned to the heart.

In the Three Kingdoms, Cao Cao is indispensable. In most people's minds, Cao Cao is a typical treacherous and vicious villain. Have to say, this is Luo Guanzhong's "credit". The evaluation of Cao Cao in the History of the Three Kingdoms is more pertinent and objective: Cao Cao attacked Dong Zhuo and punished Yuan Shao from Xu, and later relied on the emperor to make him disobey the minister, and finally succeeded. That is to say, Cao Cao mentioned here that he praised the Emperor in order to make the vassal, while Luo Guanzhong changed it to praise the Emperor in order to make the vassal. This shows that China's culture is profound, and the change of this word is the change of his whole historical image. In order not to be a minister, it means cracking down on traitors who betrayed the imperial court, and making the princes become ironclad evidence of Cao Cao's attempt to split the country. Luo Guanzhong turned "the sage of peace, the hero in troubled times" into "the treacherous court official in troubled times, the capable minister in governing the country". With this conclusion, Cao Cao's historical image is basically packaged.

For us, sometimes, we should not only seek the interest of the story, but also seek the authenticity of history. The essence of Cao Cao is fierce, but the result of packaging is treacherous. The role of natural colors and packaging is vividly reflected in the Romance of the Three Kingdoms, which is a must.

Second, it is omnipotent.

Kong Ming is to the Three Kingdoms what Confucius is to Confucianism. What is worth mentioning here is not that they are all founders, but a joint effect that makes the finishing point. Zhuge Liang first appeared in the chapter of Dragon Bell Team. After reading his profound strategic thinking, we have to admire his extraordinary talent, which is his true nature. And Kong Ming in the reflection is simply a deified figure, who can not only give orders in Battle of Red Cliffs, but also be reincarnated as a prophet. Luo Guanzhong exaggerated Kongming's packaging, in fact, in order to uphold justice and make the characters more prominent, but this deified and superstitious packaging will undoubtedly bring misunderstanding and deviation to younger children.

Zhuge Liang's packaging is to show "goodness" and Cao Cao's packaging is to show "evil". The one-sided packaging and exaggeration of The Romance of the Three Kingdoms undoubtedly make it difficult for people to evaluate historical figures in a fair way, to face justice and evil, truth and hypocrisy correctly, and thus to gain a correct insight into people's hearts and society. The description of true colors, though sometimes a bit boring, is undoubtedly of great help to the formation of people's historical and materialistic views.

Taste the Three Kingdoms, taste the history, unlock the Three Kingdoms and face the true colors of the characters. Only in this way can we taste the real Three Kingdoms.

See the true color of packaging

Dandelion is covered with fluff, in order to fly higher: proud as a peacock, just to show its true colors, people rely on gold clothes, buddhas rely on gold clothes, without packaging, its true colors will always look dim, and only the packaging color can create perfect brilliance.

Life is a war without smoke. True colors and packaging are like defense and attack, seemingly contradictory, but in fact they complement each other and are inseparable. Perfection depends on their organic unity. The offensive stamina without defense is insufficient, and the defensive spirit without attack is weak. The deeper attack is also to defend the pure land of one side.

Packaging is to better show its true colors.

Packaging, let the true colors break into butterflies.

The three-edged olive of Chaoyang Jinzao is crisp, fragrant and sweet. However, due to the lack of packaging, it is impossible to form a brand, so it is rarely known to outsiders. Some people even cut down olives and plant other fruit trees, but olives are cheap. Later, through exquisite gift box packaging, the olive gift box was noble and elegant, and later olives were worth a hundred times. Make the brand bigger and stronger through media promotion. Now that the three-edged olives are exported overseas, the income of villagers has risen, which is inseparable from the packaging of olives. The true colors of good quality are of course important, but without proper packaging, the true colors will never be displayed, such as tigers falling in Pingyang and gold hiding evil people and evil practices.

Packaging, let the true colors bloom gorgeous flowers.

Yihua Wood Industry is a large private enterprise rooted in Chaoshan. Today, its excellent quality has been widely praised by peers, and its profits have also increased year after year. However, 10 years ago, Yihua could not develop on a large scale because of the lack of financing channels, and even faced the danger of bankruptcy because of the difficulty in capital turnover. Fortunately, people of insight pointed out the maze, carefully packaged, and eventually became a listed company. The vast world of capital market gives Yihua a a broad stage, and Yihua will become bigger and stronger, not only in wood industry, but also in real estate and other industries. Imagine, if there were no original packaging, wouldn't Yihua still be a rural workshop in Xiao Mu?

Packaging, let the natural color bear the most perfect fruit.

Even cultural celebrities do! Some people don't believe it and stubbornly believe that culture depends on its true colors and innocence, so it can't be packaged at all. Let me ask you, if there is no CCTV, do you know Yu Dan and Yi Zhongtian? These cultural celebrities are the backbone of China people. They studied the classics assiduously and learned the changes of ancient and modern times, which became an admirable statement. However, without the platform of Lecture Room, intellectuals lack a window to show their insights. Without the packaging of CCTV, their comments can only be a weak voice in the professional field, and it is impossible to go to the public. It can be said that packaging makes pure skills more perfect.

Packaging puts on a noble coat for its true colors, and its true colors are more graceful and graceful because of packaging.

True colors need proper packaging.

Powerful people emphasize their true colors. But a smart and powerful person packs himself on the basis of his true colors.

But some people pay too much attention to packaging. When someone opens it, the light disappears immediately. After all, it is flashy.

This era is very urgent, pay attention to time and efficiency, and few people have the patience to discover your talent. It is very important to catch your eye first. At this time, you need to pack. I once heard that at a job fair, a company first divided a pile of resumes into two piles, then grabbed one pile and threw it into the trash can, saying, "We don't need unlucky people." On the surface, this is just an employment problem, but we can think about it. In this pile of resumes, no one bothered to "dress up" his resume. If someone makes a purposeful and lovely mark on your resume, the employer may find your resume and be attracted to you before throwing it away, and then you will take the first step to success. The same resume will make people throw it so happily that they don't even think about it. Packaging may really make you lucky.

Quality+packaging = pull back shoes today. Warrior is an old brand in China. In the past, Chinese mainland sold a pair for more than 20 yuan at most. However, due to insufficient publicity, pull back shoes have been half red and not purple, and have not entered the mainstream market. A Frenchman came to China and came across this kind of durable and cheap sneakers, so he packed the pull-back shoes and sold them to Europe. Since then, there has been a trend of "pull back shoes" in Europe and America, and celebrities and ordinary people are snapping up pull back shoes. Later, the original price of more than 20 RMB was fired to near 500 yuan! What does this price mean? Pull back shoes are the same as foreign brands such as Nike and Adi! The quality of pull-back shoes is recognized. Before that, there was a lack of opportunities and packaging, but once packaged, a myth was created. Without packaging, it is difficult to shine. Without the support of true colors, the myth is difficult to continue. It can be seen that both goods and people need to be packaged on the basis of their true colors!

Today's talent shows are flooding, so the original intention of talent shows is distorted and vulgarized. Draft is to provide a stage for powerful people, package them, let them play their due level, move towards success and realize their dreams. Just like Aunt Susan, it was a blockbuster. Now people who have no strength are packaged by TV stations, creating topics, ignoring the original selection, just for the pursuit of entertainment. Yico Zeng, for example, caused social controversy, and the TV station received the effect of grandstanding, but it also fell out of favor. It is not a good thing for the singer herself. Packaging should not lose its original function, it just plays a role in promoting things, and its true colors always run through things. Packaging is only an appropriate guest appearance in the development process of things, and it cannot replace the things themselves.

It needs natural colors, just proper packaging.

Proper packaging is the most authentic quality.

Nowadays, many people in society think that natural colors and packaging are incompatible, and people tend to pay attention to one thing and lose another, but natural colors and packaging have captured the hearts of the public to some extent. Therefore, we need to find a balance between the two, so that it can be better played and embodied, and shine in human nature.

True colors are people's simple nature. Naturally, even if it is not decorated, it can make people fall for it. Aunt Susan conquered the hearts of the judges and even millions of viewers with her very sonorous singing, and was affirmed. Salinger used his works and his passion for life but indifference to fame and fortune in his works to shape his image as a "watcher". What is true color? It is the truest and purest side of human nature, without affectation or affectation. It shows a person's inner pursuit of self and expectation of life, thus capturing the public's eyes, even the heart.

Compared with the original appearance, packaging is also a choice made for the needs of life, and it can also make the public yield to it. The "charity ambassador" seems to be the package of Oscar-winning Sandra, but it is worthy of the name. She devoted herself to charity and devoted her energy and money to the people in the disaster area, so that under the aura of "best actress", she won more support and praise from the public for "charity ambassador". For Sandra, why not have such a "charity ambassador" package?

It can be seen that the purpose of natural color and packaging is the same, both for blooming their own brilliance and making themselves affirmed, but how to balance the relationship between them is a key that the public needs to seriously study.

While packaging yourself, don't lose yourself in the process of testing your true colors, but give yourself a moderate reprocessing package for your true colors. Just like Sandra, the title of "charity ambassador" is a package of her kindness, so she can get more recognition. However, we often lose ourselves in the packaging of our true colors. There is also a bag in Paris, the "prodigal girl". This bag is caused by Paris's lack of self-love and self-restraint, and also because she can't really understand her true colors and lose herself. Therefore, the key to packaging ourselves is to make a correct positioning for our true colors, so as not to lose ourselves in the face of temptations from all sides and give ourselves the wrong packaging.

At the same time, we also need to grasp the appropriateness of packaging. Zhang Ziyi's participation in charity shows that she wants to create a better image for herself and give herself a better package after knowing her true colors. However, because I promised to donate 5 million dollars, I fell into the "fraudulent donation door" and let my good image fall apart. There is nothing wrong with packaging myself, but it is also important to grasp a degree. If she doesn't grasp it well, she will give up all her efforts like Zhang Ziyi.

Pursuing the truest quality and knowing the truest quality will make us better package ourselves properly and correctly. Only in this way can we shine brilliantly, win flowers and applause, and win ourselves more.