And some people, at first glance, seem unremarkable, but as time goes by, they become more and more touching, just like a book that can't be read. And some people always realize that it is too late to find out. In the face of these strange things, sometimes it is really difficult to say clearly whether it is fate or fate, which is unknown. As for the result, it seems that only time will know.
1. Primary school: I have met but I am not impressed.
Linzhi, an ordinary country girl with a ponytail. Seven years old is close at hand. I remember that seven years old was the age of admission. Soon, she followed her parents to this rural school not far from home. It's not too far because I can go home for dinner every day, not by car, but by walking, jogging or occasionally running fast.
Although it was hard, she didn't notice it at that time, which gave her a good figure invisibly. I can't help thinking that she will grow into a slim mushroom in the future, which is also inextricably linked with it. Occasionally, Linzhi will stay on the road, play with friends and play some small games, but she also enjoys it.
The only thing that bothers me is study. Teachers never leave at school. Listening to lectures, doing homework, handing in homework, reciting, solving problems ... is it unpleasant to make her better? The school bell has become the terminator of all this, dividing the world into two parts, one is the ocean of suffering and the other is the happy continent. The bell released her from the cage, and the bell brought her into pain. It is not difficult to find that at this time, she is a little girl who doesn't like learning and even hates learning.
To some extent, studying is a kind of torture for her. At school and at home, because her parents are very strict with her. Learning is followed by playing. Only when you finish your homework can you watch TV and play outside. She sometimes thinks, when will she and her parents stare at each other and be unhappy with each other?
As the old saying goes, it's impressive to say goodbye in three days. Repeatedly stressed that we should look at the problem from a developmental perspective and look at everything around us. Of course, including people. But for Linzhi, this change is too great. I'm in the fourth grade in an instant, and I don't know what's going on. Maybe it's a new teacher, maybe it's enlightenment. Anyway, the math scores went up at once. Moreover, she often takes one or two exams in the class, feeling that she is a different person and instantly falls in love with learning, especially math. Maybe it's a joint reaction Slowly, Chinese and English scores have also improved significantly. Learning seems to be getting a little fun, and I can't help thinking, is this still the little girl?
In addition, the math teacher also teaches art. She had no artistic cells, but she carefully imitated the pictures on the blackboard. The results are not bad, most of them got "excellent", so they are interested. Accordingly, getting an "A" became her pursuit, and she enjoyed it.
Sometimes I wonder what this is all about. An underachiever turned into an excellent student, which is a big reversal. Isn't this a common plot in TV dramas? It is said that TV plays originate from life and are higher than life. It can only be said that what exists is reasonable. The important thing is that she is changing for the better and everyone is happy.
In retrospect, there were only thirty or forty students in a class in primary school. Usually have a fixed playmate, fighting, and occasionally have a 38th parallel with my deskmate. There is no doubt that these are also part of Linzhi's life. What impressed her most in English class was the enduring routine. The first thing an English teacher must do in each class is to randomly select a few students to write words silently on the blackboard. She must have been afraid before, but now she is a good student, which is not difficult for her. Just treat her with a normal heart.
In my memory, once a student didn't write much, and the English teacher severely criticized him, as if he were a different person. In Linzhi's impression, the English teacher has never been so angry. It was the first time that Linzhi consciously noticed her classmates. He is tall with his head down, quietly listening to the teacher's criticism, and looks a little timid. Later, they did not have much in common. Until she graduated from primary school, she didn't remember whether she had spoken to him, except that his name was Duan Si.
2. Junior high school: I overheard his name.
Yes, the speed of different students is very different, even the same person will change the speed with the mood. When I am happy, time seems to have accelerated, and I entered junior high school in the blink of an eye. For Linzhi, many things are brand new, full of novelty and anxiety. In this campus whose area has increased several times, I will occasionally meet my former primary school classmates, chat together and go home together. Brand-new and familiar.
Different from the past, Linzhi is now a resident student and can only go home once every two weeks. Adaptation has become the first lesson in the new school, but it's okay. Because there are intimate classmates and favorite teachers. It is also satisfactory for everyone to study and fight together. From time to time, I have to praise the power of time. I can always turn a strange environment into a familiar one, and then into the past, and so can people.
Nicknames and groups are not just the patent of primary school students. The same is true for junior high school students. Many students have been nicknamed by others and have a relatively fixed circle of friends. Linzhi junior high school has many classes in every grade, and this year is no exception. Occasionally, students will talk about other classes from time to time, which are generally conspicuous, mostly school legends or anecdotes.
One afternoon, Linzhi was chatting with several classmates. At this time, a classmate came over and said, "Do you know the' four donkey kong' of a class?" This title is quite unique and sounds good. Suddenly a classmate asked curiously, and that classmate was also very frank and blurted out the names of four people directly. At this time, Linzhi seemed to hear a familiar name, and it took her a long time to search in her mind before it became clear. I thought he was in this school, too. Now it seems that his grades are not bad and he has become an important figure in the school.
Sometimes it's weird. This campus is not small, but it is not. But after staying for three years, some people I know have never met once, and Duan Si is like this to Linzhi. It's really just sound, but you can't see people. It's a little mysterious. I can't help but sigh that the chance of missing this perfection is too high. I can only say that it is a thousand miles away to meet, and I have no chance to meet each other. It may be unintentional, so I don't care too much. I always feel that this is more reasonable. Just as some people will never meet in the eyes of others, the result is often unexpected. Therefore, it is normal, and normality is the key.
3. Encounters and encounters in high school
As for reading, it is really getting farther and farther away from home, and it turns out that it is also the case. Linzhi junior high school was completed in a township middle school, and high school was studied in the city. Getting farther and farther away from home. Sure enough, there is a journey between parents and children. Compared with junior high school, senior high school seems to have become much more silent, whether it is Linzhi or the class. Because the main task is learning, and she is in a class that loves learning, especially so.
Compared with junior high school, senior high school has become more boring, the difficulty of learning content has increased a lot, and exams have become more frequent. The fluctuation of grades is also great, and the pressure naturally follows, and the front line for going home has also been stretched a lot. At first, homesickness was a painful thing for Linzhi. But Ganoderma lucidum knows that slowly, time will eventually cure everything.
There is no doubt that with the passage of time, Linzhi has become a part of her high school, and the high school campus is familiar to her. I have to say, going home is a joy and I can't wait. And leaving home is always melancholy, which makes people feel a little reluctant. Fortunately, a year later, she also had a companion, a neighbor's brother, who was one year younger than her. They often go home together, leave home and take care of each other, and both parents are at ease.
One morning, she and her brother went back to school by car and walked to the familiar ride place. They picked a car at random, packed their bags and sat down in their seats. After a while, a voice came from my brother. She was in a trance for a while before she realized that it was Duan Si, his primary school classmate. Because my brother sat in the middle and said hello to each other, he made a simple introduction to each other, so there was not much conversation.
Fortunately, the car is moving, the scenery outside the window is changing, and the silence along the way has become a natural thing. Because my brother's school is near, I got off first, and Linzhi needs to take another trip. When my brother got off the bus, Duan Si got off with him and said that he was also in this school. They simply said goodbye and then drove to Linzhi's school.
Later, Linzhi also went to his brother's school once, visited him and bought him a lot of fruit. Accompanied by my younger brother, I enjoyed the natural scenery of their school by the way. I feel that the school is quite big and I have been shopping for a long time. Then Linzhi went back to school and lived the same school life.
For high school, Linzhi always feels that time is hard and time flies. In a blink of an eye, I arrived at the college entrance examination, pulled the book out of the classroom, and looked around, both reluctant to part with it and making a final farewell. Because of the college entrance examination, she was assigned to another school. She guessed that this might be the last time she entered this school in three years. I hope there's still a sense of ceremony. This is a place where I stayed for three years.
Walking through the campus, my eyes swept through the familiar corners, and my memory was fresh. The feeling of reluctance arises spontaneously, which has undoubtedly become a concern in her heart at the moment. But everything around seems to be saying goodbye, and it turns out that this is the inevitable result. Linzhi thought that meeting might just be a goodbye. There is a saying that the attendees will leave. It seems so. Since you can't stay, say goodbye and leave as few regrets as possible.
Because it is not too far from my college entrance examination school, Linzhi is also familiar with it, and there are teachers leading the team, which is naturally much easier. After reading the test center, I will carefully prepare for the exam, nothing special. On the first day of the college entrance examination, I entered the examination building according to the examination regulations. At this time, a classmate seems to be coming in the direction of Linzhi. Recently Linzhi recognized that it was Duan Si, a classmate. Linzhi thought to himself that this was the second time they met after their last meeting, and then they chatted together for a while. They cheered each other when they entered the examination room.
After coming out, Linzhi walked along the stream of people. At this moment, a figure appeared not far away and waved to her. It turned out to be Duan Si. They talked about the exam for a while, and then he said he would go to dinner with his classmates. Linzhi is going to find her little friend, too, so they waved goodbye to each other. In this way, after three exams, something similar happened between them. Because of this, we seem to be familiar with each other a lot, and we are not as formal as before.
The last exam is finally over, which indicates that Linzhi will also bid farewell to the exam. Lin Zhi thought that no matter what the result was, it was over in the end. Let's catch our breath first. As for the result, that is later. Walk out of the examination room and follow the crowd. In the crowd, Linzhi saw the familiar figure waving to her again. She went over and chatted for a while.
Maybe I'm in a hurry to go back to school, because Duan Si's school is far from the test center. So he told Linzhi that he was going to leave because his classmates and teachers were waiting for him, and Linzhi naturally waved goodbye to him. However, Duan Si said that he wanted to leave Linzhi's phone number, indicating that it would be convenient to contact in the future. Linzhi didn't think much, so he gave him the number. Then wave goodbye to each other again.
In this way, Linzhi also met his classmates and teachers, returned to school, packed up and left the campus. The next step is to wait for the exam results and fill in the volunteers. On the day when the exam results came out, Linzhi received a phone call from Duan Si. He eagerly inquired about Linzhi's exam results and the school he wanted to go to. And told Linzhi that he felt that the exam was not ideal and was going to repeat it for another year. Linzhi encouraged Duan Si: "This is also very good. If you work hard for one year, you may be admitted to a key university." Period, also gladly accept. Because Linzhi mentioned that she didn't do well in the exam, but she didn't want to start all over again, so she decided to choose a school to go to college. Duan Si said, since it's decided, let's move on.
During the period after volunteering to fill in the form, Linzhi received calls from Duan Si one after another, mainly asking about the school she applied for, and then telling Linzhi the school he chose to repeat. In this way, after several days. He called and said that he would repeat the study, and then reminded Linzhi to tell him when he got the admission notice. I changed my number when I was in college and told him my contact information.
Linzhi didn't think much about it, because she also exchanged contact information with many high school students, talking about more contact in the future. When the admission notice arrived, Linzhi told Duan that she had been admitted to the school, and told him that she would not change her number for the time being and would tell him in advance. Then they talked a few words and hung up. It has been a long time since the next call.
4. The communication between freshmen and repeat students in the college entrance examination
There is no doubt that Linzhi belongs to the late-maturing type, and she fell in love a little late. When I first went to college, Linzhi didn't think about falling in love or anything. Maybe it never occurred to me. She attends classes all day, stays with friends, occasionally participates in club activities and travels on holidays. In my spare time, I also chat with my old friends about their college life. Linzhi thinks it's fun, too. The new college life is quite fulfilling.
I can't remember clearly. I think it's a freshman holiday. Linzhi got a phone call because she happened to be on her way home. So I slipped and picked up the phone. It's a strange number, and it took a while to know that it was his primary school classmate Duan Si. He asked about Linzhi's college life, and Linzhi stopped by to ask him about his re-entry in high school. We had a good talk. Linzhi ended the conversation because she will go home soon.
As usual, Linzhi continued her college life. I am also changing myself and trying new things when I am in contact with new things. Sometimes there are many classes, and occasionally I will go to the library to look up information and read books. I have more free time, and occasionally I will go shopping with my friends and buy some novel clothes ... I have to say that the university is an invisible makeup artist, with a little bit of common uniqueness, taking into account both appearance and heart.
For Linzhi, there is a little joy in his usual life, and of course there will be a little trouble, such as the final exam of the semester, which makes Linzhi tired a lot. It can only be said that this is the result of not working hard at ordinary times and cramming temporarily. Linzhi's reflection seems to be only down-to-earth, step by step. Shortcuts come at a price. Sure enough, there is no free lunch.
Linzhi pondered that he could relax after the exam and wondered how the holiday was so happy. Regardless of age, there seems to be no specific time period. The phone rang, and it turned out to be that primary school classmate. It is not difficult to see from his voice that he is happy. It turns out that the results of the college entrance examination have come out, and his results are quite ideal. There is no doubt that he can go to a relatively good key university.
As far as I can remember, he said that he wanted to choose a university near Linzhi School, but Linzhi thought he was just talking casually. Just tell Duan that he can choose a better university for his grades, and there may be more choices from other provinces. Then he refused half-jokingly because he was busy choosing a school. After a while, I hung up.
5. Nearby college students: seniors and juniors.
Linzhi returned to school early that holiday because of something. On the first day of formal school, Linzhi received a phone call from Duan Si. Duan Si said that he came to college, not far from Linzhi's school. Linzhi was curious about which school he applied for. Duan asked Linzhi to guess, but he didn't. Duan Si had to tell Linzhi the answer. Linzhi joked that it was really close. Congratulations to him for coming to college life and becoming his senior in the future. Please consult if you have anything. In the face of the title of "senior", Duan Si is somewhat reluctant. But they chatted happily and had time to eat together after meeting.
In the next few days, Linzhi received a phone call from Duan Si. However, we haven't seen each other for a long time because of many busy things at the beginning of school, so we can only exchange a few pleasantries on the phone. Later, there was time, and something happened at zero. That's it. Long time no see. Later, Linzhi went abroad for an internship for almost a semester. During this period, they will also chat and say some interesting things. At this time, they are more like good friends, naturally casual.
The turning point is always inadvertently. Someone began to confess to Linzhi. Although he is a familiar person, he is both a friend and a classmate, but in the face of this situation, Linzhi is still a little stiff and shy. Fortunately, it is not a confession in person, but for Linzhi, this is the first time someone has confessed to her, and the complicated mood can be imagined, just like many people in the sea of clouds. What's more, she never thought about it, which was unexpected to her. She was both excited and uneasy. But she knows in her heart that this kind of thing cannot be taken lightly and needs to be taken seriously.
Dai Xu seemed to see Linzhi's predicament and said that Linzhi could consider it for some time. Give him an answer when you think about it, and think for a while. Linzhi told Dai Xu what she really thought, because neither of them had ever been in love, and Linzhi was very confused. Besides, they are both classmates and friends, and it is difficult to recover the change of relationship, so she is not sure.
Faced with Linzhi's confusion, Dai Xu said that they could get along first, and if Linzhi didn't feel suitable, it would be good to be friends again. Coupled with the combination of Linzhi roommates and several girlfriends, the relationship was finally determined. In this way, Linzhi had a boyfriend. Because I am in a different place, I seldom meet each other. Most of the time, they talk by phone.
Duan Si also gradually noticed the change of Linzhi and suspected that he was in love. He was a little uneasy, and later Linzhi's words verified this. He was depressed and contacted Linzhi less often. Occasionally, I will send some sad words in QQ space, and Linzhi will make fun of it from time to time. Linzhi guessed that he liked a girl in their school and sometimes encouraged him to chase her.
In this way, after a year, Linzhi became more and more aware that there was always a gap between him and Dai Xu, and there was an insurmountable gap. Although polite, I always feel unnatural. She thought they were more suitable to be friends, so she confessed these things to Dai Xu. Although Dai Xu was a little sad, they finally ended their relationship and returned to the level of friends.
In this way, she became a free single dog again, and at this time, she was unique in the dormitory: the only single dog. Well, she is abused occasionally, but everything is fine, because she also needs to calm down. In this way, Duan Si still chats with her from time to time, mostly in daily life and interesting things.
One afternoon, Duan Si started chatting with her on QQ again. Duan Si said that he liked a girl, but he didn't know whether that girl liked him or not, so he was very upset. Didn't Linzhi say that you can just confess? Duane said that this method does not apply to him. Duan Si asked Linzhi what kind of expression she liked if the person she liked wanted to tell her. Linzhi said, I have never really thought about this problem. Perhaps naturally, it is better to go in both directions! Otherwise, it will be very painful. Isn't that how you watch TV dramas?
After listening to paragraph 41, I think it's better to wait a little longer, otherwise I can't even make friends, so I'd better be cautious. Still keep friends with Linzhi, thinking that she will find out slowly and it will be better to talk about it then. In this way, another year. At this time, Linzhi is a junior and Duan Si is a sophomore.
One day, Linzhi and Duan mentioned that she was going to other provinces in the coming National Day, because there was a party there, so she went for fun and wanted to go there to play. From the previous chat, Alice knew that Linzhi had a good high school male classmate, and he was here this time. Duan Si joked that there should be nothing interesting so far, so Linzhi should not go. Linzhi said the reunion was not easy. Besides, we haven't seen each other for a long time What a rare opportunity. Besides, I promised to go before, and it was embarrassing to break the contract temporarily. In this regard, Duan Si didn't say anything, just wishing her a pleasant journey and having a good time. In this regard, Linzhi also wishes Duan a happy home, see you after the festival.
After the holiday, everything is as usual. The difference is that it is time for Linzhi to find a job. Confused and uneasy, she also began to prepare her resume. By chance, she found a good job outside the province, which was quite to her taste in all aspects. In the end, she made up her mind to work there, and with her favorite city, there was nothing to worry about. In addition, parents are not particularly opposed, and the job is settled.
Soon, when Linzhi graduated, she felt deja vu and sad. Pat graduation photo, walk through the campus again and look at this place that has been with me for four years. Say goodbye in the blink of an eye. When I think of myself when I first entered school, I actually lamented that four years is really too long, but at this time, I only feel fleeting. At this time, I undoubtedly hope that time can be slower. But reality is reality. Just thinking about it is already a luxury. I can only accept the reality and be pushed forward by time.
On the other hand, as far as Duan Si is concerned, since he decided to repeat, there has been a fault between him and Linzhi. Especially now. At this time, Linzhi is about to embark on a new journey after graduation, and for him, because of professional reasons, he has added an extra year, and there are still two years to graduate smoothly.
He had intended to confess to Linzhi when he graduated. To this end, he made a long-term psychological construction. But when I learned that Linzhi had decided to work, and it was from other provinces. He hesitated. Because Duan Si thinks that even if Linzhi agrees, it is a long-distance relationship. If rejected, their friendship will be greatly discounted because of the distance. To this end, he held back his inner agitation and prepared to wait.
During that time, Linzhi seemed to notice Duan Si's unhappiness. I thought something had happened to him. Comfort him. In order to celebrate that he found a job and was about to embark on a new journey, Linzhi decided to invite him to dinner. Although Duan Si was sad, he accepted it gladly. Looking at Linzhi's happy appearance, Duan Si expressed his blessing.
6. She is working and he is still studying at the university.
Much like most newcomers, Lin Zhi is full of confidence and ready to show his talents. Occasionally, I will take some photos of my life at work and send them to QQ space, and then write a short and beautiful text to record my life. There is a little happiness in beauty. Looking at Linzhi with a smile in the photo, Duan's heart is also much more comfortable. Duan Si pays attention to his studies while silently paying attention to Linzhi and interacting occasionally. As simple as ever.
With the extension of time, Linzhi realized the hardships of life and work. Although bitter, she also enjoys it. In the new city, she also has her own circle. Meet occasionally to travel and take some travel photos. Photos are placed in QQ space, and occasionally a few boys will appear next to them. In this regard, Duan Si is somewhat worried and occasionally takes the initiative to chat with Linzhi. But distance is a fact. With the different frequency of life, there should still be a distance in my heart.
Coupled with Duane's recent heavy academic work, the communication between the two has also become less. Duan Si can only pay attention to her silently through Linzhi's circle of friends and occasionally give her a compliment. With the passage of time, the frequency of Linzhi's hair band is getting lower and lower. Sometimes even once a month, Duan Si will hurt spring and autumn, and start to make some sentimental remarks. Those words seem to be addressed to Lin Zhi, who sometimes comments on them, and then they will talk about it.
Later, there were many. Linzhi would ask him if his favorite mushroom was cold and he became so sad. Encourage Duan Si to work harder. Very troublesome. In the face of Linzhi's ridicule, Duan Si was even sadder. He thinks that a person who encourages himself to chase other girls should not like himself, and he is more and more uncertain about Linzhi's feelings for himself. The words on his lips were held back again, and it was too difficult for Duan Sibai to say it in plain English.
Slowly, with the growth of age, Linzhi's family began to urge marriage. Although Linzhi is a little disgusted, she also knows that it is time to make a boyfriend. But where should people find boyfriends? There are people who like themselves in the workplace, but there are not. This really stumbles me. Get tangled up. Linzhi made a circle of friends, and Duan Si also ridiculed that she had not graduated and was ready to consider getting married.
Duan Si also feels good. Maybe he can see himself at this moment. When Linzhi recalls the past, Duan Si will also appear in his mind, because he helped him solve many things. However, at the thought of asking Duane to help him make suggestions to chase his girlfriend before, she suddenly felt that he might just regard himself as a good friend and should not flatter himself. I dare not think about her relationship with Dai Xu. Although friends are restored, it is always unnatural.
7. She and he are on the same frequency again.
Soon after, Duan Si also entered the society, and they had the same identity again. Being in different cities has become their only barrier, but they still chat occasionally and pay attention to each other. Time passes so slowly, what remains unchanged is that they are still friends.
After that, Lin Zhi will browse Duan Si's QQ space intentionally or unintentionally, and find some clues, so as to know the person Duan Si likes, satisfy his curiosity and stop thinking. In this way, they test each other and wait for each other, which has become the main theme of their long-term coexistence.
At the end of the story, they became good friends forever. Maybe they didn't know each other's mutual love in the end, and this regret stayed in the years. There are regrets in the ending, but it is also a universal ending. No matter how dissatisfied you are, it won't change. This is the real side of life.