Communication is a kind of ability, and it is also the concrete embodiment of a new person's emotional intelligence. Newcomers in the workplace usually have no contact with leaders, and their talents are not easily appreciated by leaders. At the dinner party, they are an opportunity to show their elegance. Good communication skills can not only make the atmosphere of dinner attractive, but also make leaders remember you, appreciate you and reuse you. Please keep these three points in mind when communicating at dinner! First, learn to imitate. There must be people around you who are very good at socializing, or there are social experts at different levels around you.

Some people look very capable and skilled; Some people are born in harmony; Some people are welcome without talking. In fact, everyone around you has something to learn, so you should first observe their strengths and advantages, and then choose the way and method that suits you to practice and imitate. If you are afraid to try in front of many people at first, start with the circle of children you are familiar with. Everything is difficult at the beginning, so it doesn't matter if you take your time. When I first entered the workplace, I didn't know enough about many things.

At this time, the best way is to keep silent, pay attention to listening, and silently remember the key points of everyone's chat. When appropriate, it can make up for the embarrassment that leaders forget each other's information. But remember, you can't keep silent, or you will become a humble waiter. A. When you decide to attend a dinner with the leaders, you should consult relevant information, remember things related to the people who eat, and prepare more cultural anecdotes, such as the origin of the dishes and the origin of the places where you eat. This will enhance the impression of the leader on you.

In fact, everyone wants to express and communicate in their hearts, but introverts may not be good at face-to-face communication because of their growing environment or other reasons. Because of this, we should face up to our own problems, bravely break through ourselves, be calm and not afraid of making mistakes. Even if we make mistakes, it is a brave process of trial and error and growth. I don't think the expression of communicative competence is that you talk in Kan Kan on an occasion. Instead, every word said on the corresponding occasion conforms to one's own identity, giving people a sense of education and high emotional intelligence. As for the people who can speak Kan Kan, Kan Kan and Kan Kan at the dinner table, I think they are all unimportant people, as if they were specially prepared for hot venues. If you want to show your communication skills, the point is to show your ability. Communication skills can sometimes show a person's ability in other aspects. So you can't always echo others' speeches like others. What you said is of little value.