1943, Xu Yulan met Yu Zeren, the manager's nephew, while having dinner at the theater manager's house. They broke through many obstacles and got married on 1955. Xu Yulan officially became the "daughter-in-law of Ningbo". From 65438 to 0976, after her husband Yu Zeren died, Xu Yulan seldom came to Ningbo. 1979, her mother-in-law died and Xu Yulan came to Ningbo. Unexpectedly, what happened later made Xu Yulan laugh and cry, because "A Dream of Red Mansions has just been released".