My lead: The following is a celebrity story I compiled for you. You know, bowing your head is also an ability. In the process of job hunting, we should not give up, but be resilient!
Bowing your head is also an ability.
Franklin, known as the father of America, visited an elder when he was young. Young and vigorous, he strutted into the doorframe to meet his predecessors and said with a smile, "Does it hurt?" But this will be the biggest gain of your trip today. A person living in the world must always remember to bow his head. "
Coincidentally, Socrates was asked: "You are the most learned person in the world, so what do you say is the height between heaven and earth?" Socrates said without hesitation, "Three feet!" The man disagreed: "We are all five feet tall, and there are only three feet between heaven and earth. Isn't that a poke? " Socrates said with a smile: "Therefore, anyone who is more than three feet tall must know how to bow his head if he wants to stand between heaven and earth."
The words "remember to bow" and "know how to bow" mentioned by the masters are to remember that no matter what your qualifications and abilities are, you are only a small molecule in the vast society, and you are undoubtedly insignificant. When we set our goals higher, we should sing a song on the stage of life, keep a low profile in life, look down on ourselves and value others. Franklin learned a profound truth from it and put it into his life.
In fact, our life is not like this. People who think they are incompetent often fail to see the Excellence of others; Cynics often fail to see the beauty of the world; Only those who dare to bow their heads and constantly deny themselves can learn lessons, rejoice in the success of others, be complacent about their own understanding and feel at ease in the face of setbacks.
When you come out of the confusion, you will find that a kind bow is actually a rare realm: bowing is also an ability, it is not inferiority, nor cowardice, it is a transmutation management in sobriety.
If we compare life to climbing a mountain, some people have just started at the foot of the mountain, some people are trudging to the mountainside, and some people have reached the peak. But at this time, no matter where you are, please remember: put yourself at the lowest point of the mountain, even if you "climbed to the top of the mountain to peek, you will see", you will bow your head, because in the long journey of your life, you will inevitably meet.
Bowing your head is also an ability. Sometimes, with a low nod, maybe our life will be more exciting.
Ps: Not every interview can have a result.
It is said that it is difficult to find a job, and it is inevitable to look at others' faces. But this colorful "face" is seen too much, but it is also an unexpected gain. At the busiest stage of my job search, I have to meet 2.5 HR people and 2.5 different "faces" every week on average. Among them, the style of "Miss Personnel" left a deep impression on me. They are smart, smart and full of personality. If there is an excellent director, according to what I have seen and heard, making a TV series called Miss Personnel may be more magnificent than Miss Public Relations and more popular than Miss Mermaid.
I remember that in my most "hungry" job-hunting years, I once squeezed through three floors and stuffed my resume into the hands of a personnel girl of a real estate group. Just as I straightened up, cleared my throat and was ready to introduce myself respectfully, the quick and efficient personnel lady had politely returned my resume to Zhao-the whole process took less than 45 seconds. Facing my slightly embarrassed expression, she said, "Jason (obviously, she has read through my resume and captured my basic information." Thank you for your enthusiasm for our company. However, the real estate industry is a highly competitive industry, which requires ambitious people to work hard step by step and be bloody. I think your personality may not be suitable. So, I'm sorry. This powerful but reasonable persuasion made me "completely convinced" on the spot. Afterwards, even my mother who gave birth to me and raised me was amazed at her penetration of my character. As a personnel girl, you must have a pair of sharp eyes.
With this experience, I began to "foster strengths and avoid weaknesses" and choose a career field that suits me. Sure enough, the situation has changed greatly, and the number of conversations between me and miss personnel is also increasing. In an interview with a famous cosmetics company, a personnel girl with Cleopatra's retro hairstyle tried to compete with me in English, French, Mandarin and Shanghainese. Just when I was "exhausted" and thought that the exam was coming to an end, she smiled mysteriously and invited a female colleague with a bun like a cookie to compete with me again in German. At that time, I couldn't help feeling unfathomable for the "Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon" here, and it was also the first time to interview the language link "diamond cut diamond". I think these personnel ladies in front of me are gentle and versatile.
Another time dealing with the personnel girl in the print media, I thoroughly appreciated the glib tongue of the media people. At first she wanted to talk to me about the female anchor in Shanghai. I thought, well, it's one of my strengths anyway. I didn't expect two people to stop as soon as they spoke, from Dong Qing to, from Hejing to Yuan Ming, and,,,, Shen Ting, Li Ying, Jing Li, Liu Ning, Qu Xing and Ji Xueping ... endless, with surprisingly consistent rhymes. Later, she dragged me to talk about foreign sports figures and entertainment stars, from Hewitt to Hugh. Grant, from Shi Lage to Schwarzenegger. After a "homely" routine, both of them were thirsty and dancing. It's rare to meet such a congenial miss, just like holding a debate in a university.
Not every interview has a perfect result, but at least every interview will have a unique miss. Therefore, whenever I think of those tidbits, I will sigh: an eye-opener, I'm glad you came.
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