"I don't mind being introduced by Zhu Jun's wife. His success is my success. " In the face of the reporter's "torture", Tan Mei looked natural and graceful. "I have been a soldier, been off the team, and suffered a lot with Zhu Jun, so we all cherish our feelings." She also told reporters that at first she and Zhu worked in the Lanzhou Military Region Fighting Song and Dance Troupe, but first went to Beijing, and the husband and wife separated. At that time, almost all of Zhu Jun's monthly salary was spent on long-distance telephone calls. Later, Tan Mei was admitted to the PLA Art College, and the young couple finally got together in Beijing.

Today, Tan Mei and Zhu Jun have been upgraded from a two-person world to a family of three. The son was named Zhu Sitan, which combined the essence of their names. Zhu Jun became a father at the age of 38, and he was very excited. Before the baby was born, Zhu Jun often listened to music, read Tang poems and bought toys for the baby. Tan Mei said that after having a son, he deliberately cut back on filming because Zhu Jun was very busy. Generally, I only shoot in Beijing and have never been separated from my son for more than 1 week. Having said that, she couldn't help giving a suggestion to Zhu Jun, a busy man: "Boys should spend more time with their fathers."

Tan Mei's guest appearance this time is mainly about filming a child she met on the plane, taking care of it all the way and sending it safely to her mother in Chengdu. Because the little girl couldn't cry when she saw her mother, a simple shot was taken for nearly 4 hours and repeated 10 times, but Tan Mei didn't complain and kept smiling. "Mrs Zhu Jun? No problem, I'm glad everyone calls me that. " This is the first sentence that Tan Mei said to reporters. Speaking of the love story with Zhu Jun, Tan Mei looked sweet: they met in the Lanzhou Fighting Song and Dance Troupe. At that time, teachers in Zhu Jun often praised Zhu Jun in front of Tan Mei, saying how he respected teachers and treated his mother well. Zhu Jun's father is a veteran of the Lanzhou Military Region Combat Song and Dance Troupe, and his mother is also very popular in the troupe. The whole group, regardless of the youngest, called her Ma Zhu. In this way, Tan Mei will pay more attention to Zhu Jun. When performing in a hard place, Zhu Jun always offered to carry a bag for Tan Mei, and the two gradually got better. When asked if she was worried about the "affair" of her celebrity husband, Tan Mei sincerely said: I promised Zhu Jun to propose marriage because "Zhu Jun is an honest man and can give me a sense of security".

The child's mother

It is reported that Tan Mei has filmed TV dramas such as "Tibet Fengyun" and "Apricot Outside the Wall". Two years ago, Tan Mei gave birth to a son for Zhu Jun. She devoted herself wholeheartedly to the child, so she seldom took on plays. Tan Mei said that, like all people who are about to become fathers, Zhu Jun is full of surprises and expectations for the arrival of his son. "He also bought a special instrument for measuring fetal sounds and looked forward to the birth of a child every day. Before the baby was born, Zhu Jun chose many toys for him. He said that he would play first and then teach his son later. It's interesting to say, my son's favorite place to go now is Zhu Jun's study, because there are those toys there, and he likes to watch Zhu Jun adjust this and that there. " Zhu Jun+Tan Mei = Zhu Sitan, maybe our conversation is too serious. The baby giggled under the photographer's lens, and Zhu Jun's eyes suddenly became so soft: "Because we agreed to take pictures today, we didn't cut his hair specially." This elf with a brave father and a beautiful mother is called "Zhu Sitan". The stylist girl screamed, "What a romantic name." Seriously, is there a better name for the children of Zhu Jun and Tan Mei than "Zhu Sitan"? I showed it to others and couldn't help laughing and saying, what a affectionate and associative name it is!

I don't know how other fathers express their joy at such a gift from God. Anyway, the first thing Zhu Jun, 38, did was to go out to buy the most interesting toys in the market, electric trains and model planes ... and bought one full of pits and valleys, and then tried it one by one in a hurry: "I want to learn first, then teach him!" He explained this to Tan Mei. Zhu Jun is famous for his dexterity. In his early years, he personally made clothes for Tan Mei. Next, he bought a pile of boards and screws, sawed and planed together, and made a baby diaper rack. He also made a unique glove box. Then he plunged into the study, scanning, designing, printing and pasting various photos of the baby. Looking back at Zhu Jun, who is deeply confident on the screen, people can't help but smile and read an old saying of deep affection: deep affection is not necessarily a husband. I was very surprised when Tan Mei blurted out the answer "The most romantic thing you can think of" and "Growing old with him". I just asked Zhu Jun in the other room, and his answer was the same. Zhu Jun said that Tan Mei's greatest advantage is calmness. I think, a beautiful house, a fragrant car, a handsome and capable husband and a healthy and lovely baby are all satisfied. But Zhu Jun became serious: "No, that's not the case. Even if there is nothing, Tan Mei is so calm. "

It's my turn to be serious this time, which requires extraordinary strength and tolerance. Zhu Jun said, "Yes, she is a very tough woman. No matter what difficulties she encounters, I firmly believe that she will stand by me, encourage me and support me. " Tan Mei smiled and replied, "Because I know him and believe him." She hasn't said a word-"I love him." For so many years, she watched every program of his, and especially commented: "Especially now, what he needs most is the voice of criticism. Others may be polite and will not say that this red face can only be played by me. "

It is not surprising to know that Tan Mei is weak in appearance and strong in heart, and she is a soldier by profession. As literary and art workers in the army, it is common to perform in the army. Tan Mei said that she likes the word "nature" more and more. "It's a long-cherished wish to have a baby. Because of busy work and other reasons, it has not been realized. Who knows that he came quietly and found the baby pregnant when he went to Fujian to perform. Of course, when he comes, we should welcome him. " When she returned to work after giving birth, her comrades were surprised that her skin became brighter and whiter. God knows if she took care of it deliberately. She said: "A quiet and happy mood is directly proportional to beauty." After giving birth to a child weighing 7.5kg, she did not specifically lose weight. She just paid a little attention to her diet. "She lost 2.5 kilograms in three months." She said happily, her face beaming with calm and happiness.

Love time

Zhu Jun said, "Tan Mei walked outside in my clothes. No one would believe that such exquisite clothes would come from her husband. The first time I met Tan Mei was in the barracks in spring. I'll fetch water from the boiling water room. There is a row of locust trees by the roadside. I saw several little girls hooking Sophora japonica with bamboo poles under the tree. One of them looks like a junior high school student, wearing a flower sling and moving quickly among several people. As far as military discipline is concerned, it is really rare to be alive and kicking in the compound without scruple. I looked carefully and found that the little girl looked back at me, too. The moment we looked at each other, we said hello politely. In a flash, I continued to turn on the water, and she continued to play with her partner. An accidental and casual meeting. At that time, I didn't even know what the girl's name was and what unit she was in. Looking back now, the only impression at that time was that it was very interesting. I thought this girl was very young, and I was like two generations. "

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Zhu Jun said, "Soon after, we left the army to perform in Xinjiang. My task was to chase the lights in the dim light above the stage. In a dance program, I suddenly found that the little girl was wearing a sling, hooked with Sophora japonica, and had shoulder-length long hair, showing her dancing. I was shocked. How could it be her? The little girl suddenly turned into a girl. Suddenly, I met an "acquaintance", so I used my "position" to chase her with the lamp in my hand. I remember that day's program, she appeared four times in total, and sometimes she was a dancer completely, but the light beam in my hand was always centered on her.

Since then, such an Iraqi figure has appeared in my life. I remember that after we confirmed our relationship, I told her formally that you should seriously tell your mother about our being together, and she agreed that we could be together. So, she wrote a letter to her mother and sent her a standard one-inch photo of me. The contents of the letter are almost all my resume. Shortly after receiving the letter, Tan's mother said that she would come to Lanzhou to see us, apparently to see her son-in-law. My future mother-in-law is coming to visit, and I was so nervous that I didn't sleep well for several nights. At that time, I lived in the small dormitory of "Blue War". A palm-sized place, only simple furniture issued by the unit, I am very short of money. So I took out the "eighteen martial arts" that I have practiced for more than 20 years, and treated all the old furniture at home as waste. The two boxes were placed horizontally and vertically, and they were transformed into the most fashionable high and low cabinets at that time. According to the styles on the market, they are painted. Two long wooden chairs were padded with old clothes and cotton, and a bag of leather was used outside. Handmade several cushions with uniform colors, and a fashionable sofa was finished.

I taught myself these carpentry jobs. Because of our poor family, we can't afford anything. Almost everything is made by my parents and brothers, so we live a life of food and clothing. Maybe it's because of what I heard. I have been ingenious since I was a child, and I like to play with gadgets. Unexpectedly, this skill learned in poor days came in handy at a critical time. Today, I sometimes make a guest appearance as a "carpenter", and my inventions are often placed in every corner of my home. I think those are the benefits of life, which can't be bought at any cost. After nearly a month of tossing, the preparations are basically ready. I spent 30 yuan to buy a straw mat and spread it on the only open space in the hut. If sofas and cabinets were fashionable in the family at that time, then this straw mat was almost a "fashionable" and "avant-garde" decoration. After careful care, my single dormitory has become a warm cabin. Calculate the money, except the straw mat of 30 yuan's money, almost nothing is spent, and everything is a waste. From then on, I firmly believe that love can activate all inspiration and creativity. 2065438+65438+2006126, Tan Mei's first work "Leading the Dance" was held in the National Library, and many friends, including famous host Chun Ni, famous singers Cai Guoqing and Li Yugang, came to help out. At the press conference, Tan Mei's husband, Zhu Jun, a famous host, made a deep confession, "I never said' hard work' to you at home, but today I want to say' hard work'". The book "Leading Dance" recalls Zhu Jun in Tan Mei's story for the first time, and describes in detail how they warm each other in love and how they achieve each other in the years.