Love sounds like a beautiful word, but when we really talk about love, we have to have money to do the foundation, so some people dare not fall in love easily and can only fight for their careers first.

But if you really love someone, even if there is a conflict with your career, you will try your best to solve it and never give up your love for your career. But those men who break up with their girlfriends under the banner of fighting for their careers can only show that they don't really love this girl.

Xiao Xia (a pseudonym) talked about a boyfriend in college. They are classmates. At first, they agreed to find a job together after graduation, but in the end, her boyfriend left Xiao Xia for his dream.

Before they graduated, her boyfriend made various promises, saying that he really loved Xiao Xia, and saved a sum of money to marry her in a few years. Xiao Xia was attracted by the "pie" painted by her boyfriend, and she naively thought that their love would last forever.

But when she started looking for a job, her boyfriend suddenly told her that he always wanted to start his own business. His parents asked him to go back to his hometown to invest and do business after graduation. Xiao Xia said she could go with her boyfriend, but the other party refused.

Boyfriend said it was hard to do business in the early stage and worked with his parents. They are not married yet, so it is not convenient for Xiao Xia to go back with him. If her boyfriend said so, she might not be entangled with other girls.

However, Xiao Xia is very persistent about their love. She insisted on going back to her hometown to start a business with her boyfriend. Finally, her parents stopped her from going and told her that if this man really loves her, it goes without saying that he will take her back. People say it is inconvenient to take her with them and start a business with their parents. In fact, they refuse her in disguise.

Xiao Xia didn't believe that her boyfriend didn't love her at first. They have been together for almost four years, and their relationship has always been very good. But when her mother asked her if her boyfriend had bought her expensive gifts in recent years, Xiao Xia couldn't say.

She recalled their love experience. Basically, she spends more money, because her boyfriend is a foreigner and her family is a local. She always thought it was not easy for her boyfriend to go to school outside, so they ate and bought things together, and she tried to pay for it herself rather than spend her boyfriend's money.

Speaking of giving gifts, her boyfriend only gave her a pair of earrings on her birthday, but nothing else. Instead, she gave her boyfriend a lot of clothes. She sees her boyfriend wearing simple clothes every day, thinking that he has no money and always uses his own money to buy clothes for his boyfriend.

She thought a lot about their past, and basically recognized that her boyfriend always verbally expressed his love for her, but rarely did anything romantic for her and hardly bought anything for her.

Xiao Xia said that she was not a material person, but when her boyfriend planned to go back to his hometown to realize his dream of starting a business, he said that the reason for not letting her go was far-fetched, and they needed to re-evaluate their feelings after she calmed down.

However, before she could say anything, her boyfriend sent a message telling her: "My parents urged me to go back to my hometown, and the business stall has been set up. I must succeed in starting a business. You'd better find a boyfriend who suits you. "

This is because I broke up with Xiao Xia directly for my entrepreneurial dream. What puzzles Xiao Xia is that there seems to be no conflict between boyfriend's starting a business and falling in love. Even though she was worried that a long-distance relationship would affect their feelings, Xiao Xia suggested going back to her hometown with her boyfriend, but he refused.

The more I think about it, the more I feel something is wrong. Xiao Xia's mother said: "It is possible that his parents introduced him to people in his hometown. He was afraid that you would follow him and had to break up with you."

After her boyfriend broke up, Xiao Xia knocked him out in a rage. After her mother reminded her, she wanted to know if this guess was true, but she had broken contact with the other party and she could not prove it.

After a week's silence at home, Xiao Xia plans to go out and find a job to get busy and forget her past feelings. As a result, she has not found a job yet. After breaking up with her boyfriend 10, he came to me and asked to get back together with Xiao Xia.

Xiao Xia took the opportunity to ask him what had happened. In fact, her mother is right, that is, the boyfriend introduced to her by her parents, and the family conditions are particularly good. If he goes back to start a business, it depends on her family.

However, after the meeting, the woman didn't take a fancy to him, and his entrepreneurial dream was shattered. She came back to seek peace with Xiao Xia and offered to take her back to meet her parents. Xiao Xia has realized her boyfriend's character, and her mother is watching her, so she can't be cheated by her boyfriend any more.

She turned down her boyfriend on the spot. However, this man is really scum to the extreme. He said that she put it upside down in front of Xiao Xia's mother and sarcastically said, "Do you really think I will appreciate your kindness to me? You are deceived by my appearance, thinking that I need money and chasing me to buy things every day. I still look down on you. I have no brains at all. I still want to start a business with me. "

After hearing her boyfriend's words, Xiao Xia was silent. She doubted whether she was really that stupid. After breaking up, she was beaten by her boyfriend. Her mother slapped her boyfriend in front of her and kicked him out of the house.

She said: "My boyfriend broke up with me for a dream, and I refused to get back together after 10. After listening to his words, I was silent. Fortunately, my mother was angry with me, but I also realized that I used to be quite brainless. "

Xiao Xia said that after a period of thinking, she found that she didn't hate her boyfriend. On the contrary, she thanked him for letting her know the shortcomings in her feelings and the nature of a scum man.

She said that since we broke up, we should forgive our ex-boyfriend. That relationship should be a lesson for her. She will work hard in the future and meet a lover in the next relationship. Although love has nothing to do with money, sometimes money is the standard to measure whether a man loves you.

Cai Kangyong once said, "As time goes by, we will eventually forgive those who have hurt us. That's not forgiveness, but forgetting. "

Many girls, after being hurt in their feelings, will say that they will forget the past and forgive each other. In fact, they have given up their past love because they have been hurt too deeply.

In love, there are too many love rat, which sometimes makes girls hard to prevent. Some girls are more rational and can quickly identify a person's personality, while some girls will be hurt by love rat once they are carried away by love. The root of the problem is that girls are too simple to be cheated easily.

The charm of love lies in the gentleness of first meeting. But love clearly knows that there are crocodiles in the abyss, and when some people have warned themselves, they will go on without hesitation and eventually leave scarred. Those who take love seriously will be embraced by love, and those who trample on love will eventually be punished.