First of all, Hu Lijuan's mistake was that he was carried away by love. As a Shanghai girl, Hu Lijuan's parents are affectionate and educated. She was surrounded by love since she was a child. She is pure and kind, desperate for love, but has some Miss Shanghai temper. But it was this blind attachment to love that made him carried away by love before he got married, and she never considered whether the two families were a good match, whether from three perspectives or economically. In fact, before they got married, their parents tried to dissuade them, saying that this kind of marriage was doomed to be unhappy, but he hated their parents' nagging. She didn't take this view to heart, so her biggest mistake was being too reckless and not having a clear understanding of marriage.
In addition, her failure is that in the failed marriage, she did not choose to stop loss in time. During the marriage, Hu Lijuan gradually realized that her husband played the role of mother. Moreover, he has a kind of male chauvinism thought that men are superior to women. In his bones, he thinks that he should actually wait on his husband and listen to him, and he often finds that Li Yaping is lacking when he encounters difficulties, and he needs it in the end. Hu Lijuan paid the price for his behavior. After Hu Lijuan's miscarriage, he didn't even comfort Hu Lijuan. Dead Steel is such a selfish person, and Curry Xuan didn't stop in time, which made him wake up. When he wanted to quit, he found it was too late.
Therefore, when we find that this marriage is not worth continuing, we must break up decisively and protect ourselves.