High-profile work means that you must be serious in your life and work, and do everything well, even if it is a small matter, you should take it seriously as a major event and not neglect it. To be a low-key person is to be modest and prudent, not conceited.

Some people have ordinary ability to do things, but they are particularly arrogant. They think they have made some achievements, which are very remarkable, and they show off at will regardless of the occasion.

In fact, the more people who love to show off, the more they feel inferior. Just like Zhang Anren in the TV series "The Last Romance", he has a very good self-awareness and thinks that buying a house in Shanghai on his own is great, but in the eyes of Jiang's parents, his achievements are negligible.

Of course, from Zhang Anren's standpoint, it can be understood that he wants the recognition of the woman's family, but this phenomenon just shows a person's inferiority complex. Only people who are not confident are eager to be recognized and expect everyone to see their achievements.

Sun Ying's (pseudonym) husband is a poor boy from the countryside. During his college years, he worked part-time everywhere to earn living expenses. Family conditions are difficult, and all his brothers and sisters have to live. It is impossible for his family to invest all their meager income in him.

Sun Ying said that it is good for her husband to go out of the village and go to college outside. Among his four brothers and sisters, he is the only one who has a chance. The other three all dropped out of junior high school to work in the fields.

Her husband also knows that he is lucky, so he knows how to cherish hard-won opportunities. Besides studying at school, he also goes out to work.

After graduation, because of my ability, I successfully found a job with a monthly salary of 10 thousand, but I still have to send money to my parents and rent a house every month. It sounds like a good income, but in fact he can't save much money at all.

But he is really motivated. Sun Ying was with him at that time, seeing that he was practical and diligent. Unlike some other men with superior conditions, he is not self-motivated and just wants to rely on his parents.

The conditions of Sun Ying's family are very good in the city. Her parents have two suites and agreed to give her one early in the morning. The old couple live in a house.

However, when Sun Ying and her husband were together at first, their parents strongly opposed it. Her parents still hope to find someone with the same conditions as her. They consider that they are too far apart in all aspects, and there will be many contradictions after marriage.

But Sun Ying really loves her husband. Although he is a Phoenix man, she doesn't mind. She also said that she can handle the relationship with her husband's family unconditionally for love.

After they got married, they lived in the house given by their parents. Although the husband and wife have no pressure to buy a house, she and her husband are still very motivated. Her husband, in particular, is always worried about being looked down upon by his parents and expecting his own success.

Because of the disparity in strength between the two families, Sun Ying's husband seldom took his parents to live in their home, but stopped for three or five days before going back.

At this point, Sun Ying's husband still handled it very well. She said that her married life was not bad because of her husband's ignorance.

But Sun Ying said that her husband did a good job in all aspects, but it was too utilitarian. Once he has made some achievements, he will get carried away.

The children of Sun Ying's relatives are all excellent. Although the conditions at home are very good, I still buy a house and a car by myself. For example, when Sun Ying and her husband earn just over 10,000 yuan a month, they are all low-income in front of their relatives.

Actually, Sun Ying and her parents didn't feel anything. Only her husband is ashamed. He often tells Sun Ying that he must strive to surpass others and not be looked down upon.

Although Sun Ying told her husband that no one looked down on them, they just had to live their own lives and didn't care what others thought. But her husband still feels that he should earn more than others, so that he can be emboldened in front of her relatives.

After that, her husband did make great achievements in his career through his own great efforts, replacing the original monthly salary of tens of thousands with an annual salary of 500 thousand, but it was much better than their previous conditions, still not as good as some successful people.

Even so, Sun Ying's husband began to feel smug and informed both parents of the good news at the first time. His family must be happy for him, but he hopes more people will see his "success".

So, at a party at Sun Ying's family, her husband took the opportunity to show off his annual salary. In fact, the relatives present don't care at all. When the husband finished, others just nodded and smiled, because his achievements were nothing in the eyes of others.

Watching her husband show off his "ability" like a clown, Sun Ying couldn't wait to find a hole in the ground. Her father didn't want her son-in-law to continue to lose face, and whispered to him, "Your uncle's son earns millions a year."

When Sun Ying's husband heard this from his father-in-law, he looked at Sun Ying's brother. He is ashamed because he wears ordinary clothes and keeps a low profile. On the way back, Sun Ying told her husband, don't care about other people's eyes, everyone is trying to live a good life.

She said: "At the maiden party, the Phoenix male husband showed off his annual salary. My dad said his husband was ashamed. He cares too much about what others think of him and I feel tired for him. "

In life, there is a man who feels inferior in front of his wife or family because of his lack of conditions. So when he succeeded, he made a special effort to show it, hoping that his wife and family could see his achievements and recognize his efforts.

However, this kind of person ignores that before his success, others have been more successful than him, so he will feel inferior. However, even if some achievements were made later, they were not as good as those who had already succeeded.

In fact, a person's efforts and success are for his own better life. To be honest, it has nothing to do with outsiders. When you are inferior to others, just remember to work hard. How are you doing? Your life is only about yourself. There is no need to show off in front of others.

At any time, we should keep a low profile, experience the hardships by ourselves and enjoy the glory by ourselves. As for other people's opinions, you don't need to care at all, let alone make them laugh in order to make others recognize you.

Self-worth is reflected through your own efforts, as long as you are self-recognized. In front of others, keeping a low profile is the high realm of your life.