1, sober people can control themselves, but self-control is not self-control The average "rational man" is not good at leading the desire of the "primitive man", either suppressing the "primitive man" or conniving at the "primitive man". A sober person is like a good leader. He can make primitive people do the necessary things, and he is very happy.

2. A sober person is responsible for himself. He won't find a lover just because he is temporarily empty, let alone marry him. He will consider whether it is really good for him. He won't let his parents decide what major he wants to study, and then complain to his parents when he later finds that this major is not suitable for him; He knows himself and can manage himself, so he knows what he needs and how to get what he needs, so he is more capable of taking responsibility for himself than the average person.

3. When dealing with people, know how to respect others and pay attention to your own heart. They are friendly and frank, so others are mostly friendly to them.

4. They are brave. The so-called courage does not mean that you dare to fight easily and are not afraid of death. Because death is not the most terrible thing, thousands of people dare to join the army to fight, but few dare to do something. Most of them dare to fight and dare not do it. For example, admitting one's mistakes is something more terrible than death in the eyes of some people. How many people dare to face themselves frankly and admit that they made a mistake? And sober people dare to do so.

5. Sober people don't do anything, which doesn't mean that they don't make progress, but that they don't force what they can't ask. They don't want everything to be perfect because they know it's impossible. They will not transform their lovers according to their own ideals, because he knows that everyone has the right to maintain their own nature. People can only live according to their own nature. It is difficult for a person to change others, and there is a limit to what he can do.

They can also pursue money, status and complete their careers, but they will not suffer in the process. They know that what really matters is thought. External success is only a reflection of internal perfection. They are not greedy for money, but if they are entrepreneurs, they will earn the most money, because they will play their greatest potential with a relaxed mind. By the same token, they are also the easiest to be famous without the same name and surname.