First, although he is not his grandson, he has feelings. Xu's mother lost her adopted son and had deep feelings for Yao Ce. For Yao Ce's children, she naturally won't ignore them. After all, Yao Ce's children have called themselves grandma for several years. How is it possible that she would give up the child who ignored Yao Ce?
However, although she can manage Yao Ce's children, the focus in the early stage should be on Yao Ce's wife and children, because Xu Mu is very kind and knows that Yao Ce is not his own flesh and blood, but he still resolutely laid down his life to treat Yao Ce. From this point of view, Xu Mu is very kind, and she will not neglect Yao Ce's children.
However, what about the later Xu mother family? This depends on the subsequent specific situation. Although the Xu family has feelings for Yao Ce's children, they are not their own grandchildren and will still manage them.
Out of the idea of inheriting incense, in the later period, Xu's family will spend time cultivating feelings with their son. After all, the Guo Wei family is their own flesh and blood, and Guo Wei also has children. Xu's mother's house will definitely be close to Guo's.
This is the problem that families in Xu Mu are facing now. Her question is whether to pay attention to Yao Ce's children or Guo Wei's family in the future. It depends on what Xu's mother does.
Yao Ce's children will certainly be taken care of by the Xu Mu family, because they have feelings, but where are the superior resources and focus of the Xu Mu family? How will the property be distributed in the future? This is the difficulty.
In fact, on this difficult point, I speculate that there are three possibilities: one is to treat Yao Ce's children as grandchildren, while the biological son Guo Wei's family can only be strangers and acquaintances, and occasionally visit them on holidays.
Second, Xu Mu's family will be close to Guo Wei's family and try to cultivate feelings with his son's family. Over time, Yao Ce's family will naturally be regarded as strangers and acquaintances.
Third, Xu's mother and Guo Wei have been separated for a long time, and it is difficult to cultivate feelings, but Guo Wei's children are different. They are still young, and Xu's family will probably take Guo Wei's children to live in their own homes. In the end, they will put all their superior resources on Guo Wei's children, and they will naturally become weaker and weaker for Yao Ce's children.
All three possibilities will exist, but personally, the third possibility should be greater. You can think about it. If it is you, two children, one is a grandson who has a short relationship but is not related by blood, and the other is a close grandson who has no feelings for the time being, how do you choose?
I think, because the child is very young, because of this, the short-lived feelings are not so heavy in front of blood. Your focus should be on your grandchildren who have no feelings for the time being.
Many people may say, why not have both? In fact, this possibility also exists, but in real life, even if they are all flesh and blood, it is difficult for a bowl of water to be even.
Second, Yao Ce's child, who is the grandson of Du Mu, can't let go of the Du Mu family. Why can't you say this? In fact, the reason is very simple, because Du Mu is not an ordinary person. In real life, there will be such a farce. Du Mu spent a lot of thoughts and was extremely scheming. In this incident, she is the winner for the time being.
Moreover, Du Mu knows that Guo Wei is not her child. Even her mentally retarded sister has real estate, but her adopted son does not. Now that things are exposed and there is no follow-up man at home, Yao Ce's child is Du Mu's hope, and she will definitely choose to take care of it.
However, before the incident is exposed, it is estimated that Du Mu should leave it alone, because she only needs to keep the secret in her heart. And she also knows that her son is doing well in the Xu family, which is enough for a mother.
Thinking: Who is the final winner? Du Mu is only a temporary winner, and it is not certain whether he is the most profitable winner. However, it should be Guo Wei's children who will ultimately benefit. Guo Wei's children are both the grandson of the Xu family and the legal grandson of the Du family. It can be said that it is the favor of two families.
Because of this, Guo Wei's children can get the love of both families. If Guo Wei's children grow into powerful characters, Du Mu will suffer in the end.
Why do you say that? Because Guo Wei's children are Du's legitimate grandchildren, they can get Du's property. In addition, the Xu Mu family will definitely not let go of their grandson, and the superior resources of the Xu Mu family will also be concentrated on him, and he is the ultimate winner.
What is the reason for this assertion? The important reason is age, because Guo Wei's children are very young. If it is bigger, it will be another situation, that is, Yao Ce's children are the ultimate beneficiaries.
If I were a mother, I would definitely take my grandson home, cultivate feelings with my children and let him change his name and surname. I will do it at any cost. However, if Guo Wei's children are older, then my focus will be on Yao Ce's children. If it were you, what would you choose?