It is too utilitarian to calculate each other's marriage in the bone marrow from the beginning. Young people would rather live freely than be forced to live with someone who is calculating with each other. Divorce if you don't agree, and let innocent children grow up in single-parent families. Home should be the most relaxing place, but now too many people don't want to go home or even dare to have a second child. It is not simple. When the second child arrives, parents have to work harder to benefit the family, so taking care of the children has become the responsibility of the older generation. This old generation is too bitter, and the family planning policy has caught up. Taking care of parents and the next generation is already very tired. It's really not.
Another is that people in the economy no longer need a family to cope with risks, and at the same time, they no longer need future generations to cope with an aging life. Therefore, people's demand for families and future generations is weakening, which is a disaster for the whole mankind. But for individuals, it is not necessarily the case that young people are married now. Whoever takes care of the children will be laid off or resigned. One person takes care of the children to work with little salary, and there is no economy from birth to school.
It's not that everyone stopped giving birth after the opening of the second child, but that the education reform scared everyone, imprisoned all the children, left their seats after class, left a lot of homework after school, the teachers didn't teach in class, and squeezed their parents dry with cram schools. Who dares to have a second child? In view of the declining population, it is best not to reform slowly. The invisible purpose of rejecting male feminization is to improve male status. Because of the awakening of women's thoughts, not getting married and not having children is the slogan of women.
There is an urgent need for the state to introduce relevant policies to open the second child, so as to avoid the worries of the parents of the second child. At the beginning, the only child was good, and the country came to support the elderly, hoping to implement it as soon as possible.