At this time, Kang Hui's face was reluctant, and perhaps he felt guilty.
As we all know, Kang Hui and his wife Liu Yajie have been married for 265,438+0 years, and chose to be a DINK family. So far, they have no children.
There are many couples in the entertainment circle who choose this unconventional lifestyle, so why do they choose not to have children? Their situation is different now.
Today, let's take a look at these 10 dinks who are different from Uncle Jiu. Each of them has a story.
Kang Hui and Liu Yajie are alumni of Communication University of China, and Liu Yajie is younger than him. These two are like schoolmasters at school, and they naturally joined CCTV after graduation.
On New Year's Day in 2000, Kang Hui and Liu Yajie entered the marriage hall. They didn't have a grand wedding, but the two families sat together and had a meal.
After marriage, the careers of Kang Hui and Liu Yajie are on the rise. After some discussion, they decided not to have children and to be a Dink family. After giving up having children, Kang Hui devoted all her energy to her career and tried to be the host of News Network from morning till night.
But since ancient times, "loyalty and filial piety can't be satisfactory", Kang Hui chose to focus on his career and pay less attention to his family.
Kang Hui was still on duty when his father died. After getting the news, because he couldn't find anyone to replace him, he had to stand in that shift and never saw his father again.
In this regard, Kang Hui was very guilty, so the opening appeared. Kang Hui's mother comforted her son not to feel too guilty, but his father's biggest regret was that he could not have grandchildren.
Mother also hopes to see Kang Hui have children in her lifetime, so that she can enjoy family happiness. Unfortunately, in 20 18, Kang Hui's mother died of uremia, and her parents' wishes were finally dashed.
Kang Hui finally figured it out at that moment. In his autobiography, he wrote:
"Mom said less and less about the desire to have grandchildren, as if she was unwilling and powerless, so she accepted the fact that I chose Dink. But if I can do it again, I think I will obey her wishes early. "
But the saddest thing in the world is that "a child wants to raise and doesn't want to kiss". No matter how much Kang Hui regrets, his parents' wishes can't make up for it.
Today, Kang Hui is over half a year old. He and his wife have two cats and call them "sons and daughters". They still choose not to have children.
In 2003, when Feng was eating in a restaurant, a big sister rushed forward and slapped him, pointing to his nose and saying, "Don't hit your wife in the future!" "
Feng could not refute, so he bowed his head and said, "I know, I know!" "
In fact, all this is a misunderstanding. Things have to start with his "Don't Talk to Strangers", in which Feng plays a "domestic violence man" and punches and kicks his wife at every turn.
It is said that all the actresses in the crew were afraid to talk to him at that time.
Once the play was broadcast, Feng's incisive performance left a psychological shadow on countless audiences, which is also the reason why that scene just appeared.
The image of "domestic violence man" has always followed Feng, but in fact, in real life, Feng is a great lover.
His wife, who is eight years older than Feng, had a failed marriage.
Feng He was opposed by many people when she was together, but Feng recognized her and they got married on 1993.
Feng was 3 1 year old that year. I wanted to have a baby for the Feng family, but a party broke this wonderful plan.
Once, a friend and his wife got together with their children. During the dinner, the children were crying, which made everyone very helpless, especially Feng, who didn't like the excitement and was afraid of trouble. In his eyes, children are like a scourge.
Helpless, I can only choose Dink and Feng together, and they have been married for nearly 30 years. In the mixed entertainment circle, the two old actors are committed to bringing good works to the audience. There is no scandal, which is really commendable and worthy of praise from the audience.
Xie Yuan, Ge You and Tian Liang are recognized as the iron triangle of comedy. Unfortunately, things have changed, not everything. Ge You and Liang Tianjin are still here, but Xie Yuan is gone.
In August 2020, Xie Yuan died of a heart attack at the age of 6 1 year, leaving no son and one and a half daughters.
Xie Yuan was married twice. The first wife was the daughter of his teacher and classmate, but after marriage, Xie Yuan was busy with her career, and the trivial things in her marriage life obliterated her passion and beauty. The two divorced because of more and more contradictions.
In 1996, Xie Yuan meets the actor Qiuyue again, and they are very speculative. Two years later, they entered the marriage hall. After marriage, fly with me lived a happy life and was a rare "model couple" in the film and television circle.
Since they are model couples, why not have children and enjoy the life of children and grandchildren around their knees?
Xie Yuan once said, "There are enough people in the world. If you don't have children, you can leave a place for those who are willing to have children. "
The seemingly serious expression is actually ridiculous.
Then, Xie Yuan said very seriously that his body was very healthy and there was nothing wrong with his wife. He just wants to be a dink, and his wife understands herself very well.
Unlike Kang Hui's parents, Xie Yuan's mother understands him very well. He has brothers and sisters, and they all have children, so that Xie's mother can enjoy having grandchildren.
Later, with the growth of age, the host asked a very realistic question: "What should I do when I am old? Who gives old-age care? "
I didn't expect Xie Yuan to burst out laughing. He said, "People live and die." I'm not worried about no one supporting myself.
6 1 Xie Yuan, who died, did not encounter the problem of providing for the aged.
Arrange the day clearly. Xie Yuan is probably the only Dink who leads a free and easy life.
Chow Yun Fat and Chen Huilian did not choose Mr. and Mrs. Dink from the beginning.
From 65438 to 0987, they entered the marriage hall. In the fourth year of marriage, Chen Huilian was pregnant, and Chow Yun Fat was very happy. They are looking forward to the arrival of their children.
But it backfired. In the second trimester, the baby was stillborn because the umbilical cord wrapped around the neck. This time, Chen Huilian's health suffered a heavy blow. The doctor's advice was that it was best not to have any more children for her health.
Chow Yun Fat felt very guilty about her children and very distressed about his wife. So later, even though Chen Huilian didn't want to have children for Fage, Fage always insisted on not having children.
Chow Yun Fat would rather have no children than have his wife hurt or even lose her life.
In this way, Chow Yun Fat is now 66 years old and Chen Huilian is 62 years old. They still live a world of two people. Even if two people want to have children now, it is unlikely.
Without children and daughters, Fage made a will and was willing to donate all his 5.6 billion savings after his death, spreading love to all corners.
Chow Yun Fat, the "Gangzi", can support the audience's praise for him from the perspective of both an actor and a husband.
20 19 is the year when Yongmei broke out.
At the age of 49, she finally spread all over the country with little joy. In the same year, she won the Best Actress Award at the Berlin International Film Festival for her film Auld Lang Syne, becoming the first actress in China.
In the film, Yongmei plays a mother who has lost her independence, which is a great test for Yongmei, because she has no children and belongs to the Dink family.
Yongmei's husband is a rock singer Luan Shu. The two are very low-key, which is simply a romantic story of literary young women and rock male singers accompanying each other.
The idea of not having children was put forward by Yongmei.
Yongmei also expressed his views on fertility: "I don't have children, this is my choice."
But not everyone does. It's her choice. There is no need to publicize such a thing. Everyone has his own way of life.
Yes, the concept of fertility is open, and everyone can choose freely, as long as they know what their purpose is and don't regret it.
Feng Delun is Shu Qi. No one thinks highly of them when they are together. What's more, they have been good friends for over ten years. They stumbled and finally found that only each other was suitable for them.
Since they got married on 20 16, the news of divorce has been heard many times. They don't care, but they are always secretly flirting to break the rumor.
After marriage, they had no children. In Shu Qi's words, "I feel annoyed that so many friends around me have children. The role of mother is still far from me. "
Shu Qi was born with a free sex life, and she was a casual person, while Feng Delun regarded Shu Qi as her daughter's pet and naturally followed her without having children.
Once Hao Lei Frozen Eggs advised Shu Qi to make a decision early, so that he could go backwards in the future. But Shu Qi said, "I don't think I will do it." She's pretty sure.
And said that if you can't have children in the future, you will adopt a child, and the one you raise will be filial to yourself.
In any case, Shu Qi has left himself a "back road". It seems that Dink needs to choose carefully and must be responsible for his actions.
Tony Leung Chiu Wai and Carina Lau chose Dink, which is said to be related to the kidnapping of Carina Lau.
That year, Carina Lau drove to Ceng Zhiwei's house to play mahjong in the middle of the night, and was kidnapped by gangsters on the way. She spent the darkest three hours in her life.
Tony Leung Chiu Wai, then her boyfriend, was filming The True Story of Teddy Boy. When he heard that, he left Leslie Cheung, Wong Kar-wai and others to fly to Carina Lau, so he could only see one scene of Tony Leung Chiu Wai in the whole movie.
Carina Lau scared Tony Leung Chiu Wai so much that he even wanted to quit the show business and go to a place where no one knew them. Tony Leung Chiu Wai can't accept that people around him are in danger.
So he didn't want children in the first place.
Carina Lau wants to have children, but under the influence of Tony Leung Chiu Wai, she thinks that having children means taking responsibility for their lives, which is too great for them to bear.
Up to now, Tony Leung Chiu Wai and Carina Lau still live a life of two people, but they are also very happy.
1987, Ge You got married. His wife is an art teacher and seldom appears in public. It has been 34 years.
When they first got married, Ge You was a newcomer in the entertainment circle. In order to reassure Ge You about filming, He Cong quit his job as a teacher and became her husband's assistant. They agreed not to have children.
Ge You has grown from an unknown actor to a film emperor, and He Cong is with him, which shows that having no children does not affect their feelings.
Later, Ge You's good friend Fu Biao died young, and Ge You adopted his son Fu Zien.
In order to broaden Fu Zien's horizons, Uncle Ge also sent him abroad for further study. Fu Zien wanted to be an actor when he returned from his studies, but Ge You saw his qualifications and advised Fu Zien to change careers as a director.
And Ge You personally escorted, Fu Zien did not bear the cultivation of Ge You, and the director stopped! Don't run "and other good movies.
Fu Zien has never forgotten Ge You's nurturing kindness and often visits his parents.
The combination of these two people is a famous example of "white falling in love with poor boys" in the circle.
Miss Liu, a master of the University of Southern California, occasionally participated in the Hong Kong Sister Trials when she returned to Hong Kong during the summer vacation, and finally won the championship.
The combination of beauty and talent is Guo Aiming.
On the contrary, Liu Qingyun's road to fame was very bitter, from 1983 joining the TVB artists' training class in Hong Kong to 1994 collaborating with Anita Yuen on "Endless Love", which became an instant hit. He has experienced a walk-on career of 10 years.
Sadly, Liu Qingyun's childhood was also very rough, because many brothers were neglected, which also led to his indifference to his family.
It is said that Liu Qingyun and Guo Aiming don't want children because of the shadow of childhood. He can't feel the affection between father and son, so he can't convey the affection between father and son.
But Liu Qingyun's love for Guo Aiming is well known.
Liu Qingyun expressed his love for his wife when he won the Best Actor Award for the movie "Eavesdropping".
Liu Qingyun and Guo Aiming have no children, so they can be "model couples" in the entertainment circle. I hope all the dinks can be so happy.
Sun Chun and Fu Lili are classmates of Shanghai Theatre Academy. When they were at school, they collaborated in the play How Steel was Tempered, but there was not much communication at that time. After graduation, they got to know each other and fell in love because they collaborated on TV "Change the Way" again.
When they got married, they were poor boys, but a veritable white boy. Nevertheless, Fu Lili married Sun Chun without any banquet. Sun Chun was moved by his wife's unswerving attitude.
After marriage, Fu Lili shifted his focus to his family, which solved Sun Chun's worries and made him feel at ease in his career. Later, Sun Chun won many awards and became a nearly perfect actor. Fu Lili was particularly happy.
Whether it is a career or a family, the only regret is that there are no children.
It is said that Fu Lili is unfit to have children because of poor health, and Sun Chun gave up the right to have children for his wife.
As they get older, they have a dog, and they named it "Camilla". The arrival of the dog made up for their spiritual emptiness. Nowadays, two people and one dog live a simple life, without hype and affection. Isn't this what everyone thinks of as an ideal life?
There has never been a fixed standard for happiness. Some people like the lively life of their children and grandchildren, while others like the romantic and simple life of two people.
No matter what lifestyle you choose, as long as you don't regret it or hurt others, all lifestyles are worthy of respect!