The Nite nationality, also known as the Nite nationality, is a transliteration of the Nite people in Taiwan Province Province. The full name of NEET is (currently not engaged in employment, education or training), which was first used in Britain and gradually used in other countries; Refers to some ethnic groups who do not study, find jobs, pursue advanced studies, participate in employment counseling and do nothing all day. In Britain, Nite means 16 ~ 34 years old young people; In Japan, it refers to young people aged 15 ~ 34.

Night mentality

With the popularization of higher education, the number of college graduates has gradually increased. Because of the mentality of high education, I don't want to work with lower salary, and my psychology is unbalanced. On the other hand, it is also because some young people who are called strawberry clan in modern times can't bear hardships, don't want to work too hard, and demand easy work and more money, so they are in an empty state, without work or study.

The characteristics of Nite nationality

It can be divided into four categories: "chasing dreams, losing self-confidence, autism, and family doting".

Dream-chasing: I have an ideal for my real work. I have to achieve my ideal to meet my needs, and I will always jump ship.

Loss of self-confidence: because of the failure of a work experience, there will be frustration in future employment, and confidence will be hit, and people will not dare to face employment again.

Autistic type: It is caused by the natural barrier between childhood and social contact environment.

Family doting: I have been highly expected by my family since I was a child. I study hard only to meet their expectations. I have a high degree, but I don't know my future plans, so I have become a Mi Chong mentality. [Edit this paragraph] Overview "Needing the elderly" is also called "eating the elderly" or "being close to the elderly". It's not that they can't find a job, but they voluntarily give up their employment opportunities and stay at home. They not only depend on their parents for food, clothing, housing and transportation, but also often spend a lot of money. "NEET" is a young person aged between 23 and 30 who has the ability to make a living, but has not been weaned and depends on his parents to support him. Sociologists call it the "new unemployed group". [Edit this paragraph] There was once a riddle about the living conditions of these "neets", which vividly described the living conditions of these "neets", saying that "they have been unemployed, their parents are full of food, their limbs are weak, their facial features are correct, their parents deny them, they are willful, they are happy in all directions, and they can't sit still for nine (a long time), which is very useless". The answer is "neets" [Edit this paragraph] Statistics According to the statistics of relevant experts, in cities, 30% of young people live by "gnawing at the old" and 65% of families have the problem of "gnawing at the old". "NEET" is likely to become the "first killer" that will affect family life in the future. [Edit this paragraph] Category According to the domestic media survey, there are currently six categories of "neets":

First, college graduates can't find satisfactory jobs because they are picky about employment, accounting for about 20%;

Secondly, they feel comfortable at home, because they are too tired, too nervous and too uncomfortable at work. About10%;

Third, young people with "entrepreneurial fantasy" have a strong entrepreneurial desire, but they have no goals, lack real talents and practical knowledge, are always unsuccessful, and are unwilling to be migrant workers. 20%;

Fourth, frequent job-hopping, and finally can not find a job, all rely on parents to support. 10%;

Fifth, laid-off young people, who used to compare their relaxed jobs with their busy jobs now, became increasingly dissatisfied and simply left their jobs, accounting for about10%;

Sixth, people with low academic qualifications and poor skills can only find jobs in the low-end labor market, and stay at home for fear of hardship and fatigue, accounting for 30%. [Edit this paragraph] Reasons and examples: Nowadays, the birth of neet people is mostly caused by the excessive doting behavior of childhood parents. Most neet people have lost the ability to take care of themselves independently in life and society because they are used to relying on their parents since childhood, and they have also developed the habit of being lazy and accepting only the fruits of others' labor, so they will only live under their parents' wings when they grow up.

Investigation on the living conditions of the neet: NEET and parents.

Three years ago, he graduated from Fudan University majoring in liberal arts.

Nowadays, my old classmates and friends have either successfully completed their graduate studies or made small achievements in their careers. And he, who took the postgraduate exam four times, ended in a fiasco and reluctantly "chewed" for three years.

Liu Wenbiao (a pseudonym), 27, is called "Brother Biao" by familiar friends.

I want to take the postgraduate entrance examination for a great cause.

In college, Liu Wenbiao was the deputy director of the research department of the Youth League Committee, and was elected as the chairman of the Youth League Committee of the College with his wonderful campaign speech. He is the main member of the debating team of Fudan University in the National Debate Competition for College Students. At school, he is a man of the hour, and the name of "Cousin Pu" spread like wildfire.

In the next semester of his junior year, he decided not to look for a job and concentrate on the postgraduate entrance examination. "I want to do something big in China politics. Postgraduate entrance examination is the first step, because in my opinion, education means the right to speak, and the right to speak of undergraduates is obviously not as good as that of doctors. "

Liu Wenbiao didn't pass CET-4 until he graduated from college, and the more difficult English for postgraduate entrance examination became the most difficult hurdle before him. He prepared for the first postgraduate entrance examination for 8 months, during which he studied at least 12 hours every day. When the university started last semester, he saw the results of the postgraduate entrance examination: all failed, with only 36 points in English. "Brother Biao" then began a long career as an "ascetic monk" in postgraduate entrance examination.

◎ I fell out of the list four times and became lonely.

Three years after graduation, Liu Wenbiao hasn't been looking for a job.

In the first year, due to sitting and reading for a long time, my weight soared from 87 kg to 99 kg, and my English test score increased from 36 to 40. Besides, I finally passed a professional course.

In the second year, although I insisted on exercising for 2 hours every day, my weight remained above 100kg, and my postgraduate entrance examination results also stagnated.

At the beginning of this year, he entered the examination room for the fourth time, but his total score was the lowest among the four postgraduate entrance examinations.

For three years, he went to bed every night 1 1 and got up at six in the morning. At other times, he is either reading or on his way to school. What I have tried again and again is lingering failure and increasing white hair.

Failure is accompanied by loneliness. "Looking forward to the phone ringing all day, it hasn't rung several times in three years." His former friends are busy with their studies and careers, and he has no partner to talk to. He gradually forgot the name "Brother Pubiao" because no one called him that for too long.

◎ My parents moved south to study with them.

Before the postgraduate entrance examination, Liu Wenbiao's parents were far away in Beijing. After they got the news, they immediately decided to come to Shanghai to fully support their son's postgraduate entrance examination.

A family of three rented a cabin of about 20 square meters in Kailu New Village, Yangpu District, and rented 650 yuan every month. The mother who retired seven years ago is responsible for taking care of her son's diet and daily life at home. After my father resigned as the deputy general manager of a large enterprise in Beijing, he worked as a personnel supervisor in a private enterprise in Jiading District, and his monthly salary was significantly reduced. Because of the long journey, I can only go home once a month.

The hut is a humble room, and the only electrical appliance is the TV. All the clothes of the whole family should be washed by the mother who is over half a year old. "The hot weather is the hardest, and the room is like a stove. Don't mention reviewing your lessons, you can't stand just sitting. "

"I made my parents suffer with me." Liu Wenbiao's voice suddenly sank. "I should have given them living expenses, but every time I reach out, I always dare not look up at them. Please don't interview my parents. I owe them enough and don't want to worry them any more. "

◎ It is also difficult to say goodbye to "old age"

Liu Wenbiao understands that his parents will always be his strong backing. "They often comfort me with a smile and say that we should learn more while we are young. This is called intellectual investment, and any kind of investment is risky. The temporary rest is for the future. "

In March this year, he suffered his fourth failure. In May, he finally decided to give up the postgraduate entrance examination and start looking for a job. So far, nothing.

During this time, he really realized the difficulty of saying goodbye to "old" on his own. "It is much more difficult to find a job now than it was three years ago. I must adjust my mentality and start from the bottom. It is also possible to prepare a' fake' resume to conceal the fact that you have taken the postgraduate entrance examination four times. "

In the past three years, out of interest, Liu Wenbiao often "slipped away" when reviewing. The more reference books you read, the more boring you are, while other books are read a lot.

When Liu Wenbiao was reading History of Eastern Zhou Dynasty, he learned a word "It is dangerous to rely on others", which means that if you always rely on others, it will be very dangerous, even for your parents.

"As soon as I find a job and get my salary, I will give it all to my parents." Liu Wenbiao emphasized at the end of the interview. [Edit this paragraph] Investigation and analysis of the phenomenon of "NEET" on August 1 1 day, one of the series reports of "NEET" was published in this edition, which aroused strong repercussions.

Social scientists believe that under the premise of increasing employment pressure and the increase of only children, "NEET" shows signs of expansion. When China enters an aging society, "NEET" will inevitably bring more social problems. The independence of "infant youth" depends on the correct outlook on life and values, and society should also create suitable job opportunities for them. Instead of letting parents support the "neet", it is better to give them jobs and make them "old people" who have the ability to support their parents.

A survey report summarizes six common groups of "NEET": the first group is college graduates who are too picky about employment; The second category is to leave the job automatically on the grounds of being too tired and nervous; The third category belongs to "entrepreneurial fantasy". Although they have a strong entrepreneurial desire, they have no goals and are unwilling to be migrant workers. The fourth category is frequent job-hoppers; The fifth category, compared with the busy work in the past, the more unsatisfactory it is, the less employment at all; The last group of people with low education and poor skills can only work in the low-end labor market, just because they are afraid of hardship and fatigue, and simply hide at home.

Liu Wenbiao belongs to the seventh category, and there are many college graduates with similar situations. They have heartfelt guilt for their hard-working parents; I have unrealistic insistence on lofty ideals. Under the interwoven contradictions, they "chew" books and "chew" their parents. Intoxicated by various assumptions about the future, they have not even had a psychological "weaning period".

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