Although sometimes I exercise my baby to tell me stories, I am basically chasing them, and my autonomy will be worse. I don't know much about autonomous reading. This time, I discussed with my partners in Liumao Village how to make the children smoothly transition to independent reading, which helped me find the direction.
"Reading is very important" is the view of most parents on reading. Now some parents consciously read stories to their children from the beginning of prenatal education, which shows how much parents attach importance to their children's reading.
However, some parents feel that cultivating children to read independently makes them very upset, because children don't like reading at all, for three reasons:
1, the child is inattentive.
Many children are active in life, and all kinds of toys at home attract them, so it is difficult to concentrate. In addition, some parents now play stories or music to their children through electronic products such as mobile phones and smart speakers for peace of mind. Children are often attracted by these electronic products and can't concentrate on reading.
2. There is no habit of reading with children.
Some parents are already very tired at work. After work, they not only have to cook, but also take care of their children to do housework. They are really too tired to study with their children. It is really hard for children to fall in love with reading without long-term accompanying reading.
3. No suitable reading environment is provided.
Some parents don't like reading books themselves. They always brush Tik Tok, watch TV series or play games in front of their children, and the children will not concentrate on their studies at all. After all, for children, loud and moving videos and games are much more attractive than words lying on books.
At the same time, many families have not created a special reading corner for their children, and there are few books for their children to read. Because the books that children like at each stage are different, and we don't choose them carefully at ordinary times, there are too few or unsuitable books at home, which can't improve children's reading interest. In fact, there are many kinds of picture books, such as interesting cave books, touching books, flipping through books and so on.
I used to be a person who didn't like reading very much. Later, I gradually developed the habit of reading, and the happiness of being immersed in it is unspeakable. Later, I asked my neighbor's children how they felt about autonomous reading. The little one smiled and said to me, "Although I don't know many words yet, I can wander among them and get unspeakable happiness." So what kind of benefits can independent reading bring to children?
1, learning consciousness
Holding a book, a child is committed to the book, and wandering among them, what he gains is extensive knowledge, warm feelings and an extension of the depth of thinking. When children grow up and don't know how to get out of trouble, I believe there are always good books to enlighten them, so that they can regroup and plan their lives in a targeted way.
2. Warm friendship
A good book is like a close friend, nourishing a child's life. She is simple, unremarkable and quiet, but as long as you think of her, she will hug you with great openness and exhaustion. No matter how many grievances you have, she can help you resolve them. In the process of reading, children get rid of fatigue and wash away all unhappiness. They feel very comfortable, as if they had an intimate conversation with their close friends.
3. Teaching and learning learn from each other
When children learn to read independently, they can not only be more confident, but also communicate and discuss with their parents, collide with each other and grow together. At the same time, enjoying happy reading time with parents is also a way of self-relaxation.
At the same time, letting children learn to read independently can not only improve their reading ability and understanding ability, expand their literacy and broaden their knowledge, but also exercise their logical thinking ability and let them know the world better.
1, cramming forced reading
Reading can't be forced, it can only be guided and attracted. Some parents just force their children to read, unilaterally pursue the amount of reading, and don't let their children freely choose the books they are interested in. This kind of cramming forced reading actually makes children more and more tired of reading. And we should learn to guide him slowly from his interest, so that the content inside can attract him and let the children feel the pleasure of reading.
2. Parents are eager for success.
Autonomous reading, as its name implies, is to hope that children can read and understand the contents of the book by themselves without the help of adults.
However, the reality is that in the current involution environment, parents often receive similar information, which is very troublesome. For example, a child of a certain family, a 3-year-old child, spent 1 year reading 6 12 volumes of primary school texts, read more than 3,340 words and read millions of words aloud. There are also some middle-class children who can read Mao Zedong's biography by themselves, such as Niu Wa, but also have pictures and the truth.
Seeing this, some parents can't help but compare. Is it too backward that their baby can't read? Because of this, some parents have an unhealthy mentality and are eager to achieve success. In fact, this is just a special case. Children's transition to autonomous reading is a gradual process. We should understand that every child is an ordinary baby. From preschool to grade two or three, I can basically read independently, but the speed of time.
3. Parents lack skilled reading guidance.
On the road of cultivating children's independent reading, we are sure to encounter the following problems:
In fact, there must be a transition zone between parents reading stories and children themselves, that is, accompanying and guiding children to read independently. And some parents don't know how to guide, so it is necessary to learn some skillful reading guidance methods.
The transition from parent-child reading to autonomous reading requires parents to have a certain understanding. Practice has proved that we must do the following work well:
1, there should be suitable reading books and reading space.
The choice of books should be easy for children to read, without too many steps and thresholds, and without restrictions on the types of books. Every child likes different books, which gives them a chance to meet books that resonate. Therefore, at different ages, children should be guided to choose suitable books, and at the same time, they should communicate with their interests before making choices.
There are two forms of books: borrowing and buying. Buying allows children to read a book again and again, which can greatly increase their reading choices. The combination of the two will be more reliable. It is also convenient to borrow books from online libraries and online children's libraries.
At the same time, children must have their own space, especially reading space, an undisturbed and comfortable position and lighting. Children's memory is very strong, and they will easily enter the flow state. Once disturbed by the environment, they will easily fall out of this state. You can also try to play some light music and enjoy reading while listening.
2. Parental companionship and guidance
First of all, you can establish a common reading time with your children and stick to it for a long time to form reading habits. Usually, children can be encouraged to try telling stories or sharing their feelings, and take some photos or videos for children to watch, record and experience. You can also read a diary to make reading full of ritual.
Secondly, when children are interested in reading, parents should communicate with them more and guide them to read. By asking more open topics, let children talk more about what they see and think, instead of simply reading and having no thinking output. Just like adult reading, only with the output of words can we read effectively.
At the same time, encourage children to communicate with their peers and exchange reading experiences with each other. No matter how naive their views are, don't interfere. The need for communication will force children to read more books. Children should always export their knowledge and let them share it, especially at the dinner table. For children, simply saying a few words is an excellent opportunity.
In the process of children's reading experience, we should gradually give the initiative to children and help them at any time. For example, it is very common to solve some unknown words and incomprehensible words, whether it is a literate child or an illiterate child.
And we should be more patient in the process of accompanying our children to study. I believe many children often like to read a story over and over again. Often parents are tired of reading, and children have to continue reading. This is actually the normal performance of the child in the learning process, and it is also a good opportunity for him to transition from listening to stories to reading independently.
Because children are already familiar with the story content, at this time, starting to let children read independently will reduce the obstacles of words, and even if there are unfamiliar words, they can ensure smooth reading.
3. Let children know enough words.
If you want children to read independently, you must pay attention to their age and literacy. Therefore, there is no need to force a child who can't read independently. Many times, children's growth is different, and they need to know their children in a targeted manner.
At the right age, parents should teach them to read and write. They can choose high-quality graded reading materials and guide their children to slowly transition to independent reading. At the same time, we should learn to grasp the "sensitive period of literacy" of children. At this stage, children will have the interest and desire to read and need good guidance.
4. Make children interested in books.
The core of reading habits is not the number of tasks and the length of time, but the cultivation of children's reading interest. Once reduced to a boring task, it may hurt children's interest and autonomy.
We can do theme reading with children, and it is good to organize or participate in the surrounding theme reading corner within the family. Through thematic discussion, the problems, habits and values encountered by children at various stages are cultivated in a plate-like manner. At the same time, guide children to try to refine the contents of the books they read, so that children can have a better helper in understanding the books.
Doing so can not only stimulate children's interest in independent reading, but also guide children to ask questions together and find answers from the theme. Every child likes different things. Let children develop the habit of consciously looking for answers through reading.
Through discussion with you, I think a general principle of independent reading is to have companionship and guidance, and discuss with children more. This is a long-term accumulation process.
Books are children's lifelong friends, and making such friends is of great benefit to him. It is the responsibility of parents to let our love flow to children with books. Open books are beneficial, parents accompany you, explore by yourself, and enjoy family life.
This article was created by one sixth of the people in the community, and was created by Xie Rong, the case owner, with the assistance of the following hat personnel.
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